绝望的主妇经典独白(汇总)

有些带给我们活着的理由，

还有些来照顾

我们。是的，孩子的降临改变一切，尤其是他们不请自来的时候。

1-19Y

es, life is a journey, one that is much better traveled with a companion by our side. Of

course that companion can be just about anyone - a neighbor on the other side of the street - or the

man on the other side of the bed? The companion can be a mother with good intentions, or a child

who is up to no good. Still despite our best intentions, some of us will lose our companions along

the way and then the journey becomes unbearable. Y

ou see, human beings are designed for many

things. But loneliness is not one of them.

是的，人生是一场 旅程，我们最好结伴同行。当然同

伴可以是任何人。

也许是对街 的邻居，

或者是同床的男人。

这位同伴可能是个用心良苦的母< /p>

亲，

也可能是个不怀好意的孩子。

虽然我 们没有恶意，

但有些人还是会在旅程当中失去他们

的伴侣，

接下来这段旅程开始变得难以忍受。

要知道人可以忍受很多事，

但孤独却不在其中。

1-20Y

es, spring comes every year to Wisteria Lane. But not everyone remembers to stop and

smell the flowers. Some are too busy worrying about the future, or mistakes they've made in the

past. Others are preoccupied with not getting caught, or thinking of ways to catch someone else.

Still there will always be a few who remember to take a moment and appreciate what spring has

given

them.

Just

as

there

will

always

be

those

who

prefer

to

sit

in

the

dark,

brooding

over

everything

they've

lost.

每年春 天都降临在紫藤巷，但并不是每个人都会停下脚步来嗅嗅花

香。

有些人忙于担心他们的未来，

有些人担心他们的

“

过

”

错。

还有人费尽心机夹 住尾巴过日

子或是逮住别人的小尾巴。

但还是会有少数人记得花 些时间来珍惜春天所赐的一切，

就像总

会有人宁愿呆在黑暗里， 数落他们失去的一切。

1-21The vow is simple really. Those who take it promise to stay together, for better or for

worse,

for richer

or

for

poorer,

in sickness

and

in

health,

to

honor

and

to cherish,

forsaking

all

others, until death do us part. Y

es, the vow is simple. Finding someone worthy of such a promise

is the hard part. But if we can, that’s when we begin to live happily ever after.

誓言其实很简单。

发誓的人承诺无论生活好与坏，

无论富裕与贫穷，

无论疾病与健 康，

永远忠贞至死不渝。

是

的，

誓言很简单。

但困难的是能否找到值得许下诺言的那个终生伴侣。

不过如果我们能找到

的话，那么我们就可以从此幸福快乐的活着了。

1-22Nothing is forever, and the time comes when we all must say goodbye to the world we

knew, goodbye to everything we had taken for granted, goodbye to those we thought would never

abandon

us,

and when

these changes finally

do

occur, when

the

familiar

has

departed,

and

the

unfamiliar has taken its place, all any of us can really do is to say hello…and welcome!

没有东西

是永恒的。

我们都会有离开世界的 那一刻，

那时我们要向曾经熟悉的世界说再见，

向曾经没

有珍惜的一切说再见，

向我们曾认为不会抛弃我们的人说再见。

当熟悉变得陌生，

当陌生变

成习惯的时候，我 们只能无力的说声：哈罗，欢迎！

1-23It's an odd thing to look back on the world, to watch those I left behind. Each in her own

way so brave so determined, and so very desperate. Desperate to venture out, but afraid of what

she'll miss when she goes. Desperate to get everything she wants, even when she is not exactly

sure of what that is. Desperate for life to be perfect again, although she realizes it never really was.

Desperate for a better future, if she can find a way to escape her past. I am not only watch; I cheer

them on, these amazing women. I hope so much that they'll find what they're looking for, but I

know

not

all

them

will.

Sadly…

that’s

just

not the way

life

works,

not

everyone

gets

a

happy

ending. < /p>

回头看身后的世界和生前好友这种感觉很奇妙。她们都以自己的方式活着，那么勇

敢，

那么果断，

充满着渴望。

< br>有的人渴望去冒险，

又怕离开后会想念。

有的人渴望得到 一切，

尽管她并不确定到底想要什么。

有的人渴望重新得到完美 的人生，

即使她的生活从来就没有

完美过。有的人渴望得到美好 的未来，但她必须先想办法逃避过去。我并不只是看着她们，

我也在为这些了不起的女人 加油助威。

我衷心希望她们能找到她们追求的东西，

但我知道并

不是所有人都能如愿。悲哀的是，这就是生活，并不是每个人都有快乐结局。

2-02 Control is extraordinary the tactics people employ to obtain it, some rely on deception,

while others engage in outright trickery, then there those who were resort to extortion. Why do we

fight so hard for control? Because we know to lose it's to put our fate in the hands of others, and

what could be more dangerou s?

人们为了获得支配权会使用各种策略，有些人靠欺骗，有些人

靠哄骗，

还有些人诉诸敲诈。

为什么我们这么拼命要得到支配 权呢？因为我们知道一旦失去

它我们就会被别人所掌控，还有什么比这更危险呢？

2-03Everyone enjoys the game of make-believe now and then, of course the ways in which

we

play

vary

greatly,

sometimes

we

tell

ourselves

work

won't

interfere

with

our

family

life.

Sometimes

we

imagine

certain

relationships

to

be

more

meaningful

than

they

really

are.

Occasionally, we put on a show as if to convince ourselves our secrets are really all that terrible.

Y

es, the game of make-believe is a simple one. Y

ou start by lying to yourself, and if you can get

others to believe those lies, you win.< /p>

人们都喜欢偶尔自欺欺人一下，当然每个人的方法各不相

同。有的 人告诉自己不会因家庭耽误了工作；有的人喜欢想象一段比实际更有意义的生活。

有时， 我们制造假象，说服自己我们的秘密并没有那么糟糕。是的，自欺欺人很容易。由欺

骗自 己开始，如果别人也相信你的话，恭喜你，你赢了！

2-04 The world is filled with good fathers, how do we recognize them? They're the ones who

are missed so terribly that everything falls apart in their absence; they're the ones who love us long

before we've even arrived; they're the ones who come looking for us when we can't find our way

home. Y

es, the world is filled with good fathers. And the best are the one who make the women in

their lives...feel like good m others.

世界上到处都有好爸爸，

但是怎么辨别他们呢？ 如果他们不

在身边我们会感到伤心欲绝，

痛苦无比；

他们在我们迷

路的时候带领我们回家。

的确，

世界上到处都有好爸爸。

不过最好的父亲是那些能让妻子觉

得自己是最好的母亲的人。

2-05Everyone

in

the

world

needs

someone

they

can

depend

on,

be

they

faithful

friends,

determined advocates, or a loving family.

But occasionally in

life, the people we thought would

always be there for us... leave, and if that happens, it's amazing the length we will go to get them

back.

每个人都需要有人依靠，做最忠诚的朋友，做自己的决定激励者，或者组成家庭。但

有时我们认为一直会陪伴我们的人

――

也会离开我们 。

当这发生的时候把他们找回来的路异

常艰难。

2-06Y

es,

every

little

girl

dreams

of

a

big white wedding,

but some

dreams

just

don't come

true.

是的，每个小女孩都梦想拥有盛大的白色 婚礼，但是有些梦想就是不能成真。

2-07Y

es, cameras are tools designed to capture images. But in truth they can capture so much

more. They can uncover hidden longing of man who should no longer care; they can reveal the

extraordinary

secrets

of

the

most

ordinary

marriages.

Most

amazing

of

all,

cameras

can

quietly

and clearly reveal to us our dreams, dreams we didn't even know we ha d.

是的，相机是用来捕捉

画面的。

但 实际上他们可以捕捉到更多。

它们能揭露不该去关心的男人隐藏着的渴望；

它们

能揭露平凡婚姻中的不寻常秘密。

最有趣的是，

相机能无声无息的告诉我们不曾知晓的梦想。

2-08In a world filled with darkness, we all need some kind of light, whether it's a great flame

that

shows

us

how

to win

back what we've

lost,

or

a

powerful

beacon

intended

to

scare

away

potential monsters, or a few glowing bulbs that reveal to us the hidden truth of our past. We all

need something to help us get through the night, even if it's just the tiniest glimmer of hope.

在充

满黑 暗的世界里，

我们都需要一些光明。

它可以是指导我们挽回失去 的东西的一束火焰；

也

可以是驱除潜在的恶魔的灯塔；

或者是照亮我们隐藏真相的灯泡。

我们都需要能让我们撑过

黑夜的东西，哪怕是最微弱的希望光芒。

2-09It's

not

always

that

easy

to

distinguish

the

good

guys from

the

bad

guys,

sinners can

surprise you, and the same is true for saints. Why do we try to define people are simply good or

simply evil, because no one wants to admit that compassion and cruelty can live side by side

in

one heart, and that anyone is capable of anything.

分清好人和坏人并不是一件容易的事。

罪人总

让 我们大吃一惊，

不过圣人也是一样。

为什么总简单的把人定义为 好或坏呢？因为没有人愿

意承认同情和残忍会肩并肩的呆在一个身体里面；当然，也不会 承认他们可以做任何事情。

2-10The stories are as old as time itself, the prodigal son who returns home to the father who

forgives

him,

the

jealous

wife who

tricks the

husband who

trust

her,

the

desperate

mother who

risks

everything

for

the child

who

needs

her,

and

the

faithless

husband who

hurts

the wife who

loves him so deeply. Why do we listen again and again, because these are the stories of family, and

once we look past, the fighting, pain, and resentment, we occasionally like to remind ourselves -

there's absolutely nothing more important.

故事依旧是那个古老的故事。

浪子回头金不换，

善父

宽容抛前嫌，欲妻讹夫骗信任，慈母护子 为哪般，为父不忠留妻绝，为何故事一遍又一遍，

只因事关一家人。蓦然回首，须自省， 家为首。

2-11The

act

itself

never

varies,

but

each

kiss carries with

it

a

meaning

all

its

own.

It can

convey

a

husband's

eternal

devotion

or

wife's

enormous

regret.

It

can

symbolize

a

mother's

growing concern or lover's growing passion. But whatever its meaning, each kiss reflects a basic

human

need.

The

need

to connect

to

another

human

being,

this

desire

is

so strong.

It's

always

amazing when some people don't understand it.

动作是千篇一律的，但每个吻带着各自的含义。

他能传达丈夫永久的专一，

或妻子莫大的懊悔，

它象征母亲日益剧增的担心，

或情人的无限

的激情。

每个吻，

反映了人们最基本 的一种需求，

与另一个心灵的沟

通，这种需求如此强烈，他令人 惊讶不已，特别是在哪些，不理解他的人眼里。

2-12

Illnesses

can

take

on

many

forms,

those

of

the

body

are

easy

to

treat,

much

more

difficult, are the hidden maladies that fester in our hearts, the secret addictions that consume our

souls.

And

the

diseases

we

deny

which

affect

our

judgment.

To

survive

we

need

to

find

that

special someone who can heal us... But we can never predict who will have the cure for what ails

us or when they'll show up.

疾病有很多形式，

生理上的比较容易治疗，

困难的是心灵深处的伤

痛。

不为人知的迷恋侵蚀着我们的灵魂，

放弃治疗让我们失去判断。

要想生存我们要找到特

殊的人来治愈我们

…

但是我们永远不能预知谁能够拯 救我们，或他们什么时候出现。

2-13Everyone understands the nature of war, we also understand that victory depends on the

cards that we have been dealt. Some when faced with a bloody battle simply give in, but for some

surrender is unacceptable, even though they know it would be a fight to the death.

每个人都清楚

战争的本性，

我们也知道胜利取决于我们 打出的那些牌。

有些人在面对血战会从容放弃；

但

是对某些人来说投降是无法接受的，尽管他们清楚面前的是决一死战。

2-14The

world

is

filled

with

unlikely

friendships.

How

did

they

begin,

with

one

person

desperately in need and another willing to lend a helping hand. When such kindness is offered, we

are finally able to see the worth of those we have

previously written off, and before we've known

it,

a

bond

has

formed, regardless

of whether

others

can

understand

it.

Y

es,

unlikely

friendships

start up everyday, no one understands this more than the lonely, in fact, it's what they count on.

世

界上到处都是不太可能的友谊。它们都是 由一方迫切的需求和另一方伸出的援助之手开始

的。

当这样的帮 助提供给我们的时候，

我们才明白曾经失败的价值。

在我们相识 之前，

一条

纽带就已经把我们连接在一起了，

< br>不管别人能否理解。

的确，

不太可能的友谊每天都在发生 ，

没有人能比孤独寂寞的人更了解这一点。事实上，不太可能发生的友谊就是他们的指望 。

2-15Now and then we all need a little help, so we ask for small favors. But it's always best to

be wary of those eager to come to our rescue. Because even the smallest of favors carries a price

tag.

Y

es,

everyone

has

an

agenda,

no

matter what

they

may

tell

us...and

in

those rare

instances

where there is no ulterior motive, we're so taking aback that we may fail to recognize the truth

-

that a loving friend has just done us an enormous favor.

时不时地，我们都需要一些帮助。于是

我们向他人索取一点点关 切，

不过对那些急来的援助，

最好带着一颗机警之心。

因为哪怕是

最小的一点恩惠，也承担了代价，没错，每个人都有自己的打 算，无论他们对我们怎么说，

然后当在少有的情况下，

人们抛开 隐含的动机时，

我们却惊诧自己没有及时发觉，

一位忠实

的朋友又帮了我们的大忙。

2-16 This is how Bree

V

an De

Kamp finally came to change her weekly routine, she still

cleaned on Tuesdays, paid her bills on Wednesdays, and did her laundries on Thursdays, but her

Fridays were now reserved for a meeting, a special meeting where she stood in front of people she

didn't know, and said things she didn't believe, and afterwards Bree would come home and reward

herself on the completion of another successful week.

这就是

Bree V

an De Kamp

如何最终改变了

自己的每周安排，

她仍然在周二打扫卫生；

在周三付帐单；< /p>

在周四洗衣服，

但每个周五她要

参加一个 特别会议，

在会议上她站在一群陌生人面前说她自己都不相信的话，

然后回到家中

犒劳自己，祝贺完满成功的一周。

2-17At

that

precise

moment

as

Dr

Hanson

Mills

was cutting

yet

another

umbilical

cord,

other ties were being severed all over town, like the one between a child and a mother who didn't

want

him

to

grow

up so

quickly,

or

the

one

between

a

case

of fine

wine

and

a

housewife who

hadn't wanted to admit she had a problem, or the one between a women and the boyfriend who

couldn't forgive her betrayal. The choice to separate from what we love is painful; the only thing

worse is when someone we've trusted makes the choice for us.

就在

Hanson Mills

医生切断另一

根脐带的时候，

小镇上其他的联系也被切断了。< /p>

像一个母亲和儿子之间，

母亲不想孩子那么

快就长大；

一箱好酒和主妇之间的关系，

主妇不想承认她酗酒 ；

或是一个女人和男友之间的

关系，

男 友不能原谅她的背叛。

选择离开我们的爱是痛苦的，

更糟糕的是 我们信任的人让我

们做这样的选择。

2-18Temptation

comes

to

all

of

us, whether

or

not we

succumb

depends

on

our

ability

to

recognize its disguise, sometimes it arrives in a form of an old flame, flickering back to life, or a

new friend

who

could

end

up

being

so

much

more,

or

a

young

child

who wakens

feelings

we

didn't know we had. And so we give in to temptation all the while knowing come morning, we'll

have to suffer the consequences.

每个人都会受到诱惑，我们是否屈服与诱惑决定于我们识破

其伪 装的能力。

有时它们以闪回的火花形式出现；

有时是一个意义深 远的新朋友；

有时是一

个触发我们不曾有过的感觉的婴儿。

不过如果我们屈服于诱惑，

那么第二天我们必须承担后

果。

2-19We've all done something in our lives us we are ashamed of, some of us have fallen for

the wrong

man, some

have

let

go

of

the right women,

there're

those

who

have

humiliated

their

parents and those who have failed their children. Y

es, we've all made mistakes that diminish us

and those we love. But there is redemption if we try to learn from those mistakes and grow.

我们都

做过一些自己都 感到惭愧的事。有些人爱错了人，有些人错过了爱；有些孩子使父母丢脸，

也有些家长让 孩子失望。

是的，

我们都犯过错使我们爱的人离我们而去。

但如果我们试着从

这些错误中吸取教训并成长，就还有挽回的机会。

2-20There's

is

a

prayer

intended

to

give

strength

to

people

faced

with circumstances

they

don't want to accept. The power of the prayer comes from its insight into human nature. Because

so many of us rage against the hand that life has dealt us; Because so many of us are cowardly,

and afraid to stand up for what is right; Because so many of us give in to despair, when faced with

an impossible choice. The good news for those who utter these words is that god will hear you and

answer your prayer. The bad news is that sometimes the answer is no.

祷文意图要赐给 人们以力

量，

当面对他们不想接受的情况的时候。

祷文的力量来自他对人类本性的深刻洞察力，

因为

我 们中很多人对与我们作对的命运之手唯有愤怒，

因为我们很多人懦夫一般的没有勇气为正

义拍案而起，

因为我们中的很多人对绝望妥协，

当面对一个不可能的选择的时候。

好消息是，

对那些把 那些话说出口的人，

那就是上帝会听到你的祈祷并给你答复，

但 坏消息时，

有时答

复可能是否定的。

2-21When the truth is ugly, people try to keep it hidden, because they know if revealed, the

damage it will do. So they conceal it within sturdy walls, or they place it behind closed doors, or

they obscure it with clever disguises, but truth, no matter how ugly, always emerges, and someone

we care about always ends up getting hurt, and someone else will revel in their pain, and that's the

ugliest truth of all.

当真相很丑陋的 时候，人们想法设法来掩盖它。因为他们知道如果被发现

的话后果相当严重。