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Don't Wait For Tomorrow
Gravity is not responsible for people
to fall in love. It just happens.
And
when it does happen, don't wait for the right time
to express,
because right time is when
your heart beats faster.
If you love
someone.. don't wait for tomorrow, or for the
other person to make the move.
Agreed
'Tomorrow
never
dies',
but
also
remember…
'Tomorrow
never
comes,
so
live
in
today.'
Each Day Is Too Short
Each day is too short for -
All the thoughts we want to think,
All the walks we want to take,
All the books we want to read,
And all the friends we want to see.
Make the best out of this day.
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem
is
the
combination
of
self-confidence
and
self-
respect
—
the
conviction
that
you
are
competent
to cope with life's challenges and are worthy of
happiness. Self-esteem is the way you
talk
to
yourself
about
yourself.
Self-esteem
has
two
interrelated
aspects;
it
entails
a
sense
of
personal
efficacy
and
a
sense
of
personal
is
the
integrated
sum
of
self-confidence
and
self-respect. It is the conviction that
one is competent to live and worthy of living.
Our
self-esteem
and
self-image
are
developed
by
how
we
talk
to
ourselves.
All
of
us
have
conscious
and unconscious memories of all the times we felt
bad or wrong
—
they are part
of the
unavoidable
scars
of
childhood.
This
is
where
the
critical
voice
gets
started.
Everyone
has
a
critical
inner voice. People with low self-esteem simply
have a more vicious and demeaning inner
voice.
Psychologists
say
that
almost
every
aspect
of
our
lives
—
our
personal
happiness,
success,
relationships
with
others,
achievement,
creativity,
dependencies
—
are
dependent
on
our
level
of
self-
esteem. The more we have, the better we deal with
things.
Positive self-esteem is important
because when people experience it, they feel good
and look good,
they
are
effective
and
productive,
and
they
respond
to
other
people
and
themselves
in
healthy,
positive,
growing
ways.
People
who
have
positive
self-esteem
know
that
they
are
lovable
and
capable, and they care about themselves
and other people. They do not have to build
themselves
up by tearing other people
down or by patronizing less competent people. Our
background largely
determines what we
will become in personality and
more
importantly
in self-esteem. Where do
feelings of worthlessness come from?
Many come from our families, since more than 80%
of our
waking hours up to the age of
eighteen are spent under their direct influence.
We are who we are
because of where
we've been. We build our own brands of self-esteem
from four ingredients: fate,
the
positive things life offers, the negative things
life offers and our own decisions about how to
respond to fate, the positives and the
negatives. Neither fate nor decisions can be
determined by
other people in our own
life. No one can change fate. We can control our
thinking and therefore
our decisions in
life.
自尊是自信和自重的
综合体,
是一个人深信自己能应付生活的挑战,
确信自己有资格
享有幸
福人生。自尊就是自己如何评价自己。
自尊包括两个相互关联的部分:
它源自对个人能力和价值的认识。
说到底就是自信和自重的
集合体。自尊即是应对生活挑战的信心以及自身存在
价值的认同。
我们的自尊和自我形象取决于对自我的评价。<
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对于所有感觉糟糕或难受的时刻,
我们每一个
人,有意识的或无意识的,都会记得,这其中还包括童年生活留下的不可避免的伤痕。
自我
批判的声音就是从这里开始产生的。
每一个人的内心都会
有这个自我批评的声音,
而自尊心
弱的人仅仅是因为这个内心的
声音更多的是一种恶性的、自我贬低的声音而已。
心理学家们
认为,个人的幸福感、成功、与他人的关系、成就、创造力、依赖性,包括我们
生活的所
有方面都取决于我们不同程度的自尊。自尊意识越强,我们就能更好地处理事务。
感受到
这种积极的自尊是相当重要的,
拥有积极的自尊使自己感觉良好,
并给别人良好的印
象,工作效率提高,
更加卓有成效;
并且总是以一种健康、积极和发展的态度回应自己或是
别人。
拥有积极的自尊的人清楚自己受人喜爱,
清楚自己能力很强,
他们既关心自己也关心
别人。
他们也不需要通过诋
毁比人或对能力不如自己的人摆出一副神气活现的样子来建立自
己所谓的地位。
我们的经历在很大程度上决定了本人的个性,
而其中最重要的部分是自尊。
那么这种无用的
自我感觉是从何而
来的呢?其实大多是来自我们的家庭,应为在我们
18
岁之前,
我们清醒
着的时间
80%
以上都在家中
度过,置身于家庭的直接影响之下。我们的出生决定了我们将
会成为哪一种人。
我们独有的自尊由两个不同的方面形成:
命运,
包括生活中遇到的机遇和
挫折;
以及我们决定如何应对命运,<
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当然也包括机遇和挫折。
在我们生活中,其他人既不能
控制我们的命运,也不能改变我们的决定。没有人可以改变命运。
但是在我
们的一生中,我
们能控制我们的思想从而控制自己的决定。
Conviction
1.
the act of finding sb guilty of a crime in a court
of law; the fact of having been found guilty
判
罪;定罪;证明有罪
She has six previous
convictions for theft.
她有六次盗窃前科。
He plans to appeal against his
conviction.
他不服判决,准备上诉。
an offence which carries,
on conviction, a sentence of not more than five
years' imprisonment
定
罪后可判处五年或以下监禁的罪行
2. a strong opinion or
belief
坚定的看法(或信念)
strong political/moral
convictions
坚定不移的政治╱道德信念
She was motivated by deep religious
conviction.
她的行动是出于虔诚的宗教信仰。
a conviction that all would be well in
the end
最终一切都会好起来的坚定信念
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