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双语美文：要善良，因为你遇到的每个人都在经历某种痛苦
We've all heard
the quote, 'Be Kind, for everyone you meet
is fighting a hard battle.'
我们都听过这句话：
“要善良，
因为你遇到的每个人都在经历<
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某种痛苦。”
My husband
and son died within two years of each other.
From
my
personal
experience,
I
believe
that
if
we
aren't
careful, grief can become a rather
self-involved process in
which
we
can
become
so
focused
on
our
own
suffering
that we miss the opportunity to connect
with, and possibly
bring comfort to,
someone else who may be going through
a
similar experience.
我的丈夫和儿子两年内相继去世。从我的个人经验来看，我
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双语美文：要善良，因为你遇到的每个人都在经历某种痛苦
相信我们一不小心就会被伤痛左右，以自己为中心，我们会<
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变得过于关注自己的痛苦，而错失和正经历相似痛苦的人接
触的机
会，也无法给予他们安慰。
Six
months
after
my
husband
died,
I
was
sinking
in
the
quicksand of grief. I
could not pull myself out of the misery.
我丈夫去世的后六个月，我陷入悲痛不能自拔，无法走出不
幸的阴影。
In that moment, I actually
believed that my life was more
difficult
than
anyone
else
around
me.
Life
handed
me
a
perfectly wrapped lesson that opened my
eyes to the fact
that through my
suffering I had allowed myself to become
blinded by my self-pity.
那时，
我真的认为自己的生活要比身边任何人都不容易。生
活给我上了完美的一课，通过这次不
幸我认清了一个事实：
顾影自怜使我看不到别人，只看到自己。
The
lesson
presented
itself
in
a
health
crisis.
I
had
complications
from
a
surgical
procedure
and
ended
up
being
hospitalized
for
four
days.
I
was
in
an
extreme
amount of pain
during this time. Between the physical pain
and the emotional pain of grief, I was
an absolute mess.
我在健康出现问题时吸取了这个教训。我的外科手术引发了
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双语美文：要善良，因为你遇到的每个人都在经历某种痛苦
并发症，最终住院
4
天。那段时期我极其痛苦，身体的疼痛
和精神上的伤痛把我夹在中间，我的生活
一团糟。
I should also tell you
that I am a Registered Nurse. As a
nurse, it is hard to be on the
receiving end of medicine as
the
patient.
我也应该告诉你我是一名注册护士。对护士而言，很难接受
自己成为病人并进行药物治疗这种事。
The
first three nights that I was in the hospital, the
same
nurse took care of me. She was
young, maybe in her mid
to late 20s,
and she hardly interacted with me at all the first
two nights, other than to give my
medications as scheduled.
She obviously
had no idea how much emotional pain I was
in. How hard is it to ask your patient
how she's feeling? I
wrote her off as a
bad nurse who had little empathy, and
remained
absorbed
in
my
own
emotional
and
physical
pain.
住院
的前三个晚上同一位护士护理我。
她挺年轻，
可能快
30
岁。
头两个晚上几乎不怎么跟我说话，
除了定期来给我送药。
很明显她不知道我精神上有多痛苦。问问你的病
人感觉怎么
样能有多难？我认定她是不合格的护士，缺乏同情心，而且
< br>我依然沉浸在自己精神和身体的痛苦中。
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