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1.A person I love
The person I love is my mother. She is
kind and caring. The
mother
’
s
love
is
warm
and
great.
She
gave
birth
to
me
and
brought
me up. She is always standing behind me
in all that I do.
I
grew
up
lean
on
my
mother,
she
is
my
first
teacher,
she
taught
how to read, how to
write, how to get along with
other people, how to be a positive and
honest person.
She
does
everything
she
can
to
make
me
happy
and
never
asks
for
anything in return. Mother is
a
best friend as well. When
we
stay
together,
we
just
like
my
sister.
If
I
have
some
problems,
I
’
ll ask her for
help. And she will give me many advices. She
is always there to encourage me to do
the things I want to do.
She is a good
listener. She taught me the meaning of love. She
will
comfort
when
I
’
m
sad,
love
me
when
I
’
m
mad,
pick
me
up
when
I
’
m down,
encourage me when I need a shove.
differences between motherly love and fatherly
love if
there are any?
According
to
my
personal
experiences,
mother
loves
the
newborn
infant. Both their
love are unconditional and unselfish. But
I can feel motherly love is direct, she
may talk about some
trifle
again
and
again.
Most
is
about
the
weather
the
food.
And
she
always nag at me. In the mother's eyes, we are
always is
.
.
a
group of children. Let us feel warm
Fatherly love is deep but indirect.
Father may not good at
showing
their
loves
or
cares.
They
are
annoyed,
angry
and
disappointed because
they are too worried about our life and
future. Let us feel safe, at ease. I
think it maybe because
female are
perceptual while male are rational.
do
you think makes a good heart?
To
be
kind
thoughtful
forgiving
caring
and
generous
honest
Control
one
’
s temper esay to get
get along with other and be
a good
listener
Keep a calm attitude
A
person
with
a
good
heart
should
be
able
to
treat
others
equally
no matter what she
or he is, how she or he looks or what they
are doing. And always be brave to face
the difficult in life
and love life.
different attitudes of people towards
disabled people.
what
’
s your
attitude?
Some
people
look
down
upon
disabled
people,
thinking
they
bring
many troubles.
Some people they are poor, felt much
sympathy for them
The social attitudes
towards disabled people are often too
.
.
protection,
thinking
they
are
granted
unconditionally
protection.
My
attitude
is
that
we
can
’
t
look
down
upon
disabled
people, just treat
them with the attitude towards ordinary
people.
we
also
need
to
fight for
our
right
when
conflict with
them. We must face the
problem
are the benefits of keeping
pets?
And what are the
troubles? P23
Good:
in
your
lonely
time
it
will
accompany
you.
It
will
always
be
with you. It will always stay by your side (except
dead).
It is a good listener.
bad: if pets are not often bathed, they
may become dirty and
smelled. Pets can
be infected easily. Pets
’
mess is another
trouble. Sometimes it
is too noisy to keep a dog.
a
short
summary
of
the
article
Speaking
Different
Languages
. P45
Man
and
women
languages
had
the
same
words
but
different
meaning
depending
on
the
way
they
were
used.
Woman
would
tend
to
exaggerate
the
factors
and
men
react
in
an
unsupportive
manner,
because they mistakenly take these
expressions literally. It
is important
to rethink or translate what people have heard.
as many differences as you can between
men and women.
Give some examples.
.
.
Man
and
women
seldom
mean
the
same
thing
even
when
they
use
the
same words.
Gender
difference(
性别差异
)
Man
and
women
languages
had
the
same
words
but
different
meaning
depending on the way they were used.
There expressions were
similar,
but
they
had
different
connotations(
含
义
)
or
emotional emphasis.
Example:
“
I
feel
like
you
never
listen.
”
Using
the
word
“
never
”
is just a way of expressing the
frustration.
Woman
would
tend
to
exaggerate
the
factor,
men
mistakenly
take
these expressions
literally,
react
in
an
unsupportive
manner.
Men
use
speech
as
a
means
of
conveying
only
facts
and
information.
Example:
woman:
“
we never go
out.
”
Men
respond
”
we went out
last week.
”
are
the
causes
of
misunderstandings
in
human
communication? Give
some examples.
Reasons: pronunciation
Cultural difference
Character(outgoing
introvert)
性格差异
Gender difference
Emotion
(nervous excited)
.
.
Communication Skill (gesture)
Situation1
英国人对家人
的帮忙会说谢谢；而中国人认为帮助家里人是一种义
务，所以无需言谢。
Interactions: help between family members
Conventions: politeness
Chinese
Conventions:
one's
own
obligation,
no
need
to
thank
or
be thanked
British and American Conventions:
Expect polite expressions
like
'please', 'thank you', etc.
Situation2
外国人觉得中
国人对待他们是十分友好的，
但是有时候会问出一些令
他们感到
尴尬的问题，比如问他们的年龄和工资。
Interactions:
conversation between people meeting for
the first time
Conventions:
conversational
topics,
privacy,
taboo,
openness,
directness
Chinese
Conventions:
Many
Chinese
people
tend
to
ask
about
age,
marital
status,
and
even
salary
when
first
meeting
one
another.
To
them,
these
are
open
conversational
topics.
Knowing
a
person's
age
helps
them
use
appropriate
terms
of
address,
such
as
'Lao
Wang',
'Xiao
Li',
or
kin
terms
such
as
'uncle'
or
'aunt',
etc.
And
Chinese
people
pay a lot
of attention
to
family
life,
so
naturally
talk
of
family
members
features
as
a
common
topic.
.
.
As to salary, since there
is a national system of salaries,
people usually don't consider it a
secret and they talk about
it openly.
British
and
American
Conventions:
In
Britain,
weather
and
sports are common topics. Some taboo
questions: age, marriage
and salary.
These are considered too private or too personal
to talk about when first meeting
someone.
Situation3
中国人结伴出
游的时候，
如果买什么东西，
去买的人一般都会按照人
头购买，即便有人客气地说不要；和外国人结伴出游，如果你客气地
推说
不需要某样东西，那么对方真的就不会给你买。
Interactions: offering refreshments or
drinks
Conventions: politeness,
individual decision
Chinese
Conventions: When a Chinese offers refreshments or
drinks
to
his
colleague,
his
colleague
often
declines
the
offer
politely, because he
doesn't want to trouble the person who
offers and it also shows his
politeness. Normally the person
who
offers still prepares or buys refreshments or
drinks, and
this
will
be
expected
by
his
colleague.
Sharing
food
and
drink
when
going
out
together
is
common
among
colleagues
and
friends.
British
and
American Conventions:
Respect one's
own
decision,
'yes' means one wants it, 'no' means
one doesn't, politeness
.
.
is usually shown by the expression
'thank you' or 'please'.
are
the
important
factors
for
successful
communications?
Speak clearly
Be confident
Organize well and put more focus on
main idea
Pay
attention
to
the
different
speaking
habit
of
different
sex,
education, and cultural background.
are the ways to avoid
misunderstandings? P66
do not use words
with different meanings.
Express and
pronounce clearly.
Put focus on main
point of your view
Do not pretend to
understand
Ask when not sure about
something.
Understand
the
sex,
education
and
cultural
background
difference during
communication.
It
is
important
to
rethink
or
translate
what
people
have
heard.
do
people
define
winning
？
What
does
winning
mean
to
you?
The
wealthy man
Got the achievement
Make big contribution
Achieve one
’
s
goals in life
.
.
Overcome some problems or weakness
Career, wealth, fame or post, and power
Enjoy oneself
Enjoy my life,
live happily and to realize my dream
do you think is a winner in your eye? Why?
Some one can overcome his weakness and
restart after
e.g: Disabled
athletes
张海迪
Cruel
fate has challenge in front, he did not depressed
and
destruction, but the life is full
of confidence, with great
tenacity and
perseverance combating disease, suffered severe
tests.
Self-study
university
English
and
Japanese and German,
many English translation
you regard yourself as a winner or loser? Why?
It's
hard
to
say,
I
think we
are
all on
the way
to
be
a
winner.
we are not prefect
in our quality, but we are attempting
characteristics of winners or losers have?
Preparedness,
promptness
及
时
，
perseve
rance
锲
而
不
舍
，
politeness
Squash: gossip, criticism, indifference
Love
one
another,
be
faithful,
be
loyal,
be
unselfish,
be
truthful
Turn
up
a
new
idea,
turn
up
with
the
determination
to
do
a
better
.
.
job
Sb
is
intelligence,
independent,
have
good
capability
to
do
sth
Sb is flexibility
something
about
Sir
Winston
Churchill
and
Abraham
Lincoln.p91
16. The psychology in our daily life by
giving examples
Psychology plays an
important role in our daily life. If we
master some basic rules of it, we can
more deeply understand
and better our
life. For instance,
psychology of
money. some guys would rather spend than
save, while some tend to parsimony
psychology
in
ads.
Companies
use
psychology
to
increase
business.
psychology of shopping. As long as
the prices of some
goods come down, an
increasing number of people will buy it.
psychology
in
hospital.
A
patient
will
feel
better
after
taking placebo.
we tall the
truth to a cancer patient? Give your
reasons.
An optimistic
attitude may have something to do with
one
’
s
health.
A sound mind in a sound body. The truth
may break down the
.
.
patient.
As the psychology
of patient, think less of his disease may
leave longer.
a summary of
the text the psychology of money
Our
individual
money
habits
not
only
show
our
beliefs
and
values,
but
also
stem
from past
problems. For
many people,
money
is
an
important symbol of strength and
influence. Thus some people
can be
addicted
to money. These
people
can be
divided
into
two
groups, that is compulsive spenders and
compulsive bargain
hunters. To solve
these problems, psychologists often use a
method called
“
behavior
therapy
”
.
often
gets
angry
with
his
son
who
does
poorly
in
school
even
though he works hard. Give John some advice.
Maybe John
’
s son
is not a learning material, but he had worked
hard.
1.
encourage
him
to
keep
on
studying
in
stead
of
getting
angry.
2.
praise him for
every little progress
3.
tell him his father is always proud of
him, and no matter
what happen, father
may stand behind him.
4.
develop his other interest.
can dream tell according to what you have learned
in
this unit? Which do you agree
with?
.
.
①
predict
the
future
②
warn
you
of
health
dangers
③
provide
an
answer
to a
problem
④
stimulate
powerful
physical
response
in
the
body
⑤
present
a
work
of
art
to
a
creative
mind
⑥
make
you
feel good
⑦
make
you feel bad
⑧
point out
personality flaws
⑨
show you
real feeling of something
I side with
the last one. If you meet something scared you or
exciting you, you may dream about it at
night.
do people dream according to
the text
a simple physical cause
inner fears that are instantly
recognized
with
your
classmates
any
of
your
dreams
which
is
happy,
sad, horrible, weird,
or funny
Once I went
travelling with my parents, we settled down in a
hotel. That night
I
have a horrible
dream
that
when
we
crossed
a narrow bridge I tripped over
a stone and fell into the lake.
I woke
up and broke out in a sweat. The next day, we went
to
the park. I was so exciting that I
forgot what happened last
night. I
didn
’
t remember the dream
until I really fell into a
lake.
Luckily,
the
water
was
only
to
my
waist.
But
it
’
s
so
weird
that I
still remember today.
do
you
like/dislike
to
eat
and
drink?
Give
your
reasons.
.