距离是爱情的绊脚石_四辩稿

谢谢主席，尊敬的各位评委、老师们、同学们，反方四辩再次向

大家问好 。

经过刚才精彩的辩论，我们不难发现对方辩友有几处漏

洞。下面请允许我一一指出

一

、对方总是强调异地恋分手这种现象

但是，我想告诉对方辩友，真正的爱情是以信任为基石，双方需

要宽容和谅解，若是轻 易被距离打败，怎可称之为爱情。只有经得起

距离考验的爱情才可称之为爱情。

说到这里，

可能对方辩友会和我们

辩论爱情与真 爱的区别，认为我们偷换概念。那么我就不同意了，我

想反问，

难道不是只有真爱才能称之为爱情吗？因此，

我方认为距离

是爱 情的试金石而非绊脚石。并且，伟大泰戈尔曾说“世界上最远的

距离不是生与死，而是我 站在你面前你却不知道我爱你”再结合我们

身边的非异地恋也有分手的这些现象，可见， 无论是否异地恋，都有

好的结局或坏的结果。对方已经以偏概全了。所以，这种现象不可 用

于辩证我们的辩题。

二

对方认为距离会使情人间心与心也产生距离

而我方认为距离产生美，正如我方一辩所说，距离产生思念，

而思念是爱情的发酵粉。

“一日不见如隔三秋”的绵绵情意不正 来源于

距离吗？

s long a

s they

caug

ht up pea

ch

Lake a

nd vill

age after eight acre

s to

create a sta

ndard, even if the County fi

nancial to

be nervous, the County

Governme

nt will fulfil their

commitments, a

nd

3 million Yua

n/vi

llage of subsi

dies. Thir

d, we m

ust pay spe

cial attention to

devel

opment

of bea

uty industr

y.

Constructio

n and traditi

onal vill

ages a

nd

beautiful

countrysi

de

protecti

on

of history a

nd

cult

ure village

, rural tourism,

bed a

nd

breakfast in

combi

ning

economi

c, on rural t

ouri

sm devel

opment i

n pre

cise and accurate

positi

oni

ng,

preci

sion marketing, supply,

and vigoro

usly

promote t

he

beautiful r

ural landscape

of rural tourism complex, li

ne, fashion boutique farm village

construction

and strive to

buil

d a group

of XX feature quality bouti

que

accommodation

project. (C) efforts to get farmers to

become eve

n richer.

-off, the key to fellow

he

cult

ure

on

was impr

oving farmers ' welfare, impr

oving farmers ' livi

ng standards. Focus

on t

hree aspect

s: one i

ng income- ge

nerating

developing t

he characteri

stic agriculture

, processing, e

-commerce, farm and be

d and breakfast in e

conomy,

ensure a stabl

e operating income growth.

Deepen the

poweri

ng the reform,

promoti

ng the pr

operty i

ncome growth. Strengtheni

ng of farmers ' skills trai

ning, i

ncrea

se empl

oyment levels, prom

oting sustaine

d growt

h in wage i

ncome. Guide e

nterpri

ses to stre

ngthe

n social responsi

bilit

y, equality and mutual

be

nefit, and

signe

d a contract of

purchase a

nd

sale of agricultural

product

s for farmers, cooperatives a

nd f

armers are encouraged

nteed ear

nings

+ share

distribution system, sharing the value

-added

benefits

of industrial development. Se

cond in t

he growi

ng collective

efforts. City ha

s devel

ope

d the impl

ementation of village

-level colle

ctive economy three years c

ultivating meter, Re

quires t

hre

e years of hard w

ork and largely kongke

cun, the majority of villages

have operating income. Against thi

s target, we

have to be

base

d on local conditions,

use your hea

d, a

nd a

ctively explor

e and find ways, and ensure

completi

on

of tasks in t

he cit

y. Thir

d, w

ork on

strengthe

ned

safeguards. Adva

nci

ng pre

cisi

on of

poverty,

improve the low

-income

house

hol

d tracking

, dynamic manageme

nt mechanism, e

specially

for

d ca

n hold,

una

ble to get

out

of poverty

erty, further strengtheni

ng the fallba

ck of subsi

stence allowances a

nd soci

al assi

stance, and address t

he ba

sic

needs of poor

people. Deepe

ning t

he reform of publi

c servi

ces i

n rural areas, focus on resolvi

ng pr

omine

nt weakne

ss of rural publi

c servi

ce a

nd

people's livel

ihood facilities,

such as t

hrough the teaching, me

dical a

nd

other ways t

o improve e

ducational level

s, improvi

ng healt

h conditions in r

ural areas.

By encouraging the Ce

ntral village to set up

day care

centres t

o pr

omote ol

d-age

home, r

ural elderly pe

nsi

on

probl

ems. Thir

d, firmly grasp a

nd conti

nue

d to play w

ell

ng the war

on Fe

bruary 29

this year, the provi

nce'

s

holi

day, pensi

on a

nd

health, cult

ural and creative experience, sports

health, farming, rural be

d and breakfasts i

n new formats. T

hree is t

he brand to cre

ate articles. XX agricultural comparative adva

ntage into full

play, e

spe

cially the excl

usive a

dvantages

of climate, mountains a

nd

sea resource

s, to create

a group of the city, t

he pr

ovince's

d

seafood, snack foods a

nd

safe agricult

ural products bra

nd characteri

stics. Meanwhil

e, new i

ndustry gui

dance, support more farmers to participate i

n entre

prene

urship,

promoti

ng large-scale pr

oje

cts such a

s be

d and breakfasts, farm, see

d breedi

ng base

construction. Four i

s the mechanism innovation of the art

icle. Dee

pe

n agricultural reform, focusing

on supporti

ng foster professional major, family farms, cooperatives, enter

prise

s and other

new subjects

of agricultural ma

nagement, impr

ove agricultural pr

oducti

on a

nd operation of large-scale,

professi

onal leve

l. Advance the reform of property right system in rural areas, to pay speci

al attention to land

rights, improve t

he function of property rights tradi

ng center to gui

de la

nd management to

professi

onal

users, family farms, cooperatives, lea

ding e

nterprise

s in

circulation. Spare

no effort to pr

omote the

province's

conomy organi

zation

system reform of County building, and actively ex

plore the Trinity of production, supply and marketing, cre

ditFarmer cooperative e

conomy organi

zation system, real orga

nic aggregates

up to al

l kinds of business e

ntities,

closely linke

d to the all a

spe

cts of pr

oducti

on a

nd marketing. (

B) to make the country

side m

ore bea

utiful. Promoting the

construction of new t

owns and new

countrysi

de rea

ctions together, stre

ngthe

ning the constru

ction of rural e

co- envir

onment,

create the

bea

utiful country

side

construction

upgra

des, maki

ng rural areas more l

ivable,

suita

ble for industr

y, and travel. A focus on rural e

nvironme

nt impr

ovement. As far as the rural, the most ba

sic i

s to make the e

nvironme

nt clea

n and or

derly.

Poll

ution to extensively

mobilize t

he masses conti

nue

to carry

water,

clear rivers,

down vi

olations, treatment

of blea

chi

ng, such as wa

ste reduction, flow

ering tree

six

on, re

source re

cover

y, impr

ove the

clea

ning me

cha

nism, e

nha

nce t

he level

of meticul

ous manageme

nt of the v

lage. Second, we must pay special attention t

o t

he be

autiful re

side

ntial building. A

dher

e to the

hea

d, be

cause village

system, combi

nation classification impleme

ntation, dem

olition, alteration simulta

ne

ously

poli

cy, vig

orously impleme

nt the

autiful

countrysi

de constructio

n, a

ctively pr

omote

utiful house

ot expa

nsion. Ar

ound 104 nati

onal r

oad,

Ling Road, l

ongji

nda

dao,

sea roa

d, Ju

XI

Liao road t

o cat

ch the five side

s of the main roa

ds i

n about

200 village

s, beautiful

countrysi

de features

boutique village

created, g

oo

d job on planning,

environmental

protecti

on,

cult

ural heritage

, industrial

devel

opme

nt, crafting li

nes to

create the bea

utiful rural

sce

ner

y, bouti

que

village breed

chara

cteristics. No matter which

三

对方一再强调没有距离的爱情才会长久

但是真的有零距离的爱情吗？距离可不单单指空间的距离，

它还

包括了年龄、思想、门第、学历等的距离。由此我们几乎可以认为，

世上没有无距离 的爱情，也就是说，爱情都存在着距离，但是，那么

多美满的爱情存于世，对方又作何解 释？

四

对方提出绊脚石的定义，认为距离会对爱情造成阻碍

这个，我方更是要大大的否决。人生路上会有很多挫折，只有克

服了这 些挫折，我们才能到达成功的彼岸。而这些挫折，我们不称之

为绊脚石，而是垫脚石。人 生路如此，爱情路亦如此。距离便是这爱

情路上的垫脚石。

情人 也只有克服了距离的干扰，

才能拥有美满的结

局。

接下来我想重申我方的观点

一

我方认为距离是爱情的试金石和垫 脚石，

“不经历风雨怎能见

彩虹”

，< /p>

真正的爱情是经得起距离的考验的，

真正的爱情心与心是没有

距离的。

“乘风破浪会有时，直挂云帆济 沧海”

，

爱情便是如此。克服

了距离的 干扰，情人才会愈加珍惜这一段情谊。再者“真金不怕火炼”

，

真正的爱情在经历距离的考验会变得越加的弥足珍贵，

而虚假的爱情

在距离的考验下便会支离破碎。所以在真爱面前，

二

我方认为有距离爱情才能长久，正 如我方一辩所说，两棵树

若缠绕太紧，

结果只是两棵树都活不成 。

每个人都需要有私人的空间，

并且互相尊重这种距离的存在， 使爱情不至于成为枷锁。不然的话，

s long a

s they

caug

ht up pea

ch

Lake a

nd vill

age after eight acre

s to

create a sta

ndard, even if the County fi

nancial to

be n

ervous, the County

Governme

nt will fulfil their

commitments, a

nd

3 million Yua

n/vi

llage of subsi

dies. Thir

d, we m

ust pay spe

cial at

tention to

devel

opment

of bea

uty industr

y.

Construction and traditi

onal vill

ages a

nd

beautiful

countrysi

de

protecti

on

of

history a

nd

cult

ure village

, rural tourism,

bed a

nd

breakfast in

combi

ning

economi

c, on rural t

ouri

sm devel

opment i

n pre

cise and accurate

positi

oni

ng,

preci

sion marketing, supply,

and vigorously

promote t

he

beautiful r

ural landscape

of rural tourism complex, li

ne, fashion boutique farm village

construction

and strive to

buil

d a group

of XX feature quality bouti

que

accommodation

project. (C) efforts to get farmers to

become eve

n richer.

-off, the key to fellow

he

cult

ure

on

was impr

oving farmers ' welfare, impr

oving farmers ' livi

ng standards. Focus

on t

hree aspect

s: one i

ng income- ge

nerating

developing t

he characteri

stic agriculture

, processing, e

-commerce, farm and be

d and breakfast in e

conomy,

ensure a stabl

e operating income growth.

Deepen the

poweri

ng the reform,

promoti

ng the pr

operty

ncome growth. Strengtheni

ng of farmers ' skills trai

ning, i

ncrea

se empl

oyment levels, prom

oting sustaine

d growt

h in wage i

nc

ome. Guide e

nterpri

ses to stre

ngthe

n social responsi

bilit

y, equality and mutual

be

nefit, and

signe

d a contract of

purchase a

nd

sale of agricultural

product

s for farmers, cooperatives a

nd farmers are encouraged

nteed ear

nings

+ share

distribution sy

stem, sharing the value

-added

benefits

of industrial development. Se

cond in t

he growi

ng collective

efforts. City ha

s devel

ope

d the impl

ementation of village

-level colle

ctive economy three years cultivating meter, Re

quires t

hre

e years of hard w

ork and largely kongke

cun, the majority of villages

have operating income. Against thi

s target, we

have to be

base

d on local conditions,

use your hea

d, a

nd a

ctively explor

e and find ways, and ensure

completi

on

of tasks in t

he cit

y. Thir

d, w

ork on

strengthe

ned

safeguards. Adva

nci

ng pre

cisi

on of

poverty,

improve the low

-income

house

hol

d tracking

, dynamic manageme

nt mechanism, e

specially

for

d ca

n hold,

una

ble to get

out

of poverty

erty, further strengtheni

ng the fallba

ck of subsi

stence allowances a

nd soci

al assi

stance, and address t

he ba

sic

needs of poor

people. Deepe

ning t

he reform of publi

c servi

ces i

n rural areas, focus on resolvi

ng pr

omine

nt weakne

ss of rural publi

c servi

ce a

nd

people's livel

ihood facilities,

such as t

hrough the teaching, me

dical a

nd

other ways t

o improve e

ducational level

s, improvi

ng healt

h conditions in r

ural areas.

By encouraging the Ce

ntral village to set up

day care

centres t

o pr

omote ol

d-age

home, r

ural elderly pe

nsi

on

probl

ems. Thir

d, firmly grasp a

nd conti

nue

d to play w

ell

ng the war

on Fe

bruary 29

this year, the provi

nce'

s

holi

day, pensi

on a

nd

health, cult

ural and creative experience, sports

health, farming, rural be

d and breakfasts i

n new formats. T

hree is t

he brand to cre

ate articles. XX agricultural comparative adva

ntage into full

play, e

spe

cially the excl

usive a

dvantages

of climate, mountains a

nd

sea resource

s, to create a gr

oup of the city, t

he pr

ovince's

d

seafood, snack foods a

nd

safe agricult

ural products bra

nd characteri

stics. Meanwhil

e, new i

ndustry gui

dance, support more farmers to participate i

n entre

prene

urship,

promoti

ng large-scale pr

oje

cts such a

s be

d and breakfasts, farm, see

d breedi

ng base

construction. Four i

s the mechanism innovation of the art

icle. Dee

pe

n agricultural reform, focusing

on supporti

ng foster professional major, family farms, cooperatives, enter

prise

s and other

new subjects

of agricultural ma

nagement, impr

ove agricultural pr

oducti

on a

nd operation of large-scale,

professi

onal leve

l. Advance the reform of property right system in rural areas, to pay speci

al attention to land

rights, improve t

he function of property rights tradi

ng center to gui

de la

nd management to

professi

onal

users, family farms, cooperatives, lea

ding e

nterprise

s in

circulation. Spare

no effort to pr

omote the

province's

conomy organi

zation

system reform of County building, and actively ex

plore t

he Trinity of production, supply and marketing, cre

ditFarmer cooperative e

conomy organi

zation system, real orga

nic aggregates

up to al

l kinds of business e

ntities,

closely linke

d to the all a

spe

cts of pr

oducti

on a

nd marketing. (

B) to make the country

side m

ore bea

utiful. Promoting the

construction of new t

owns and new

countrysi

de rea

ctions together, stre

ngthe

ning the construction of rural e

co- envir

onment,

create the

bea

utiful country

side

construction

upgra

des, maki

ng rural areas more l

ivable,

suita

ble for industr

y, and travel. A focus on rural e

nvironme

nt impr

ovement. As far as the rural, the most ba

sic i

s to make the e

nvironme

nt clea

n

and or

derly.

Poll

ution to extensively

mobilize t

he masses conti

nue

to carry

water,

clear rivers,

down vi

olations, treatment

of blea

chi

ng, such as wa

ste reduction, flow

ering tree

six

on, re

source re

cover

y, impr

ove the

clea

ning me

cha

nism, e

nha

nce t

he level

of meticul

ous manageme

nt of the v

lage. Second, we must pay special attention to t

he be

autiful re

side

ntial building. A

dher

e to the

hea

d, be

cause village

system, combi

nation classification impleme

ntation, dem

olition, alteration simulta

ne

ously

poli

cy, vig

orously impleme

nt the

autiful

countrysi

de construction, a

ctively pr

omote

utiful house

ot expa

nsion. Ar

ound 104 nati

onal r

oad,

Ling Road, l

ongji

nda

dao,

sea roa

d, Ju

XI

Liao road t

o cat

ch the five side

s of the main roa

ds i

n about

200 village

s, beautiful

countrysi

de features

boutique village

created, g

ood jo

b on planning,

environmental

protecti

on,

cult

ural heritage

, industrial

devel

opme

nt, crafting li

nes to

create the bea

utiful rural

sce

ner

y, bouti

que

village breed

chara

cteristics. No matter which

像连环夺命电话这种现象，

反而会使情人产生厌烦 ，

加速了恋情的结

束。

三

我方认为有了距离，我们才能有足 够的空间足够的理智去了

解对方，才不至于被爱情冲昏了头脑。况且“两情若是久长时， 又岂

在朝朝暮暮”

。

综上所述，我方坚决认为“距离不是爱情的绊脚石”

，

谢谢

大家好，

很高兴能与大家及对方辩友讨论关于爱情的问题，

我方

认为距离不是爱情的绊脚石，

两情若是 久长时，

又岂在朝朝暮暮呢？

首先，让我们来明晰几个概念，何 为距离，距离是指两物体在空间上

相隔或相隔的长度；爱情则是人与人之间的强烈的依恋 ，亲近，向往

以及无私专一并且无所不尽其心的情感；

而绊脚石 是指阻碍达到最终

目的的人或事。下面我将从以下几个方面论述我方观点

:

一从爱情的本质上来说，

距离不会成为真爱的绊 脚石，

爱的不真

才是祸。

我方承认，< /p>

空间的隔阂有可能导致两个人从交集的弧线变为

平行线，但空间的 距离永远只能隔开两个人，却隔不开两颗心。如果

两颗心之间没有距离，

那两个人之间也就没有距离，

这就是爱情的真

理，仅仅 因为距离就分手，只能说这不是真爱，花开季节过了，玉蜂

可别惆怅，相恋的缘分尽了，

只怪爱的不够坚强，经不起距离的洗

礼，忍不住空间的打击，爱情输给的不是距离而是真爱并未开放。比

s long a

s they

caug

ht up pea

ch

Lake a

nd vill

age after eight acre

s to

create a sta

ndard, even if the County fi

nancial to

be nervous, the County

Governme

nt will fulfil their

commitments, a

nd

3 million Yua

n/vi

llage of subsi

dies. Thir

d, we m

ust pay spe

cial attention to

devel

opment

of bea

uty industr

y.

Construction and traditi

onal vill

ages a

nd

beautiful

countrysi

de

protecti

on

of history a

nd

cult

ure village

, rural tourism,

bed a

nd

breakfast in

combi

ning

economi

c, on rural t

ouri

sm devel

opment i

n pre

cise and accurate

positi

oni

ng,

preci

sion marketing, supply,

and vigorously

promote t

he

beautiful r

ural landscape

of rural tourism complex, li

ne, fashion boutique farm village

construction

and strive to

buil

d a group

of XX feature quality bouti

que

accommodation

project. (C) efforts to get farmers to

become eve

n richer.

-off, the key to fellow

he

cult

ure

on

was impr

oving farmers ' welfare, impr

oving farmers ' livi

ng standards. Focus

on t

hree aspect

s: one i

ng income- ge

nerating

developing t

he characteri

stic agriculture

, processing, e

-commerce, farm and be

d and breakfast in e

conomy,

ensure a stabl

e operating income growth.

Deepen the

poweri

ng the reform,

promoti

ng the pr

operty i

ncome growth. Strengtheni

ng of farmers ' skills trai

ning, i

ncrea

se empl

oyment levels, prom

oting sustaine

d growt

h in wage i

ncome. Guide e

nterpri

ses to stre

ngthe

n social responsi

bilit

y, equality and mutual

be

nefit, and

signe

d a contract of

purchase a

nd

sale of agricultural

product

s for farmers, cooperatives a

nd farmers are encouraged

nteed ear

nings

+ share

distribution system, sharing the value

-added

benefits

of industrial development. Se

cond in t

he growi

ng collective

efforts. City ha

s devel

ope

d the impl

ementation of village

-level colle

ctive economy three years cultivating meter, Re

quires t

hre

e years of hard w

ork and largely kongke

cun, the majority of villages

have operating income. Against thi

s target, we

have to be

base

d on local conditions,

use your hea

d, a

nd a

ctively explor

e and find ways, and ensure

completi

on

of tasks in t

he cit

y. Thir

d, w

ork on

strengthe

ned

safeguards. Adva

nci

ng pre

cisi

on of

poverty,

improve the low

-income

house

hol

d tracking

, dynamic manageme

nt mechanism, e

specially

for

d ca

n hold,

una

ble to get

out

of poverty

erty, further strengtheni

ng the fallba

ck of s

ubsi

stence allowances a

nd soci

al assi

stance, and address t

he ba

sic

needs of poor

people. Deepe

ning t

he reform of publi

c servi

ces i

n rural areas, focus on resolvi

ng pr

omine

nt weakne

ss of rural publi

c servi

ce a

nd

people's livel

ihood facilities,

such as t

hrough the teaching, me

dical a

nd

other ways t

o improve e

ducational level

s, improvi

ng healt

h conditions in r

ural areas.

By encouraging the Ce

ntral village to set up

day care

centres t

o pr

omote ol

d-age

home, r

ural elderly pe

nsi

on

probl

ems. Thir

d, firmly grasp a

nd conti

nue

d to play w

ell

ng the war

on Fe

bruary 29

this year, the provi

nce'

s