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Why we have too few women
leaders
So
for
any
of
us
in
this
room
today,
let's
start
out
by
admitting
we're lucky. We
don't live in the world our mothers lived in,
our
grandmothers
lived
in,
where
career
choices
for
women
were
so limited. And if you're in this room
today, most of us grew
up in a world
where we had basic civil rights. And amazingly,
we
still
live
in
a
world
where
some
women
don't
have
them.
But
all
that
aside,
we
still
have
a
problem,
and
it's
a
real
problem.
And
the problem is this: women are not making it to
the top
of any profession anywhere in
the world. The numbers tell the
story
quite clearly. 190 heads of state -- nine are
women. Of
all
the
people
in
parliament
in
the
world,
13
percent
are
women.
In
the
corporate
sector,
women
at
the
top,
C-level
jobs,
board
seats
--
tops
out
at
15,
16
percent.
The
numbers
have
not
moved
since 2002 and are
going in the wrong direction. And even in
the non-profit world, a world we
sometimes think of as being
led by more
women, women at the top: 20 percent.
We also have another problem, which is
that women face harder
choices
between
professional
success
and
personal
fulfillment.
A recent study in the U.S. showed that,
of married senior
managers, two-thirds
of the married men had children
and
only
one-third
of
the
married
women
had
children.
A
couple
of
years
ago, I was in New York, and I was
pitching a deal, and I was
in one of
those fancy New York private equity offices you
can
picture. And I'm in the meeting --
it's about a three-hour
meeting -- and
two hours in, there kind of needs to be that
bio
break,
and
everyone
stands
up,
and
the
partner
running
the
meeting starts looking
really embarrassed. And I realized he
doesn't
know
where
the
women's
room
is
in
his
office.
So
I
start
looking
around for moving boxes, figuring
they
just moved in,
but I don't
see any. And so I said,
this
office?
And
he
said,
we've
been
here
about
a
year.
And I
said,
have pitched a deal in this
office in a year?
at me, and he said,
had to go to the bathroom.
So the question is, how are we going to
fix this? How do we
change
these
numbers
at
the
top?
How
do
we
make
this
different?
I
want
to
start
out
by
saying,
I
talk
about
this
--
about
keeping
women in the
workforce -- because I really think that's the
answer.
In
the
high-income
part
of
our
workforce,
in
the
people
who
end
up
at
the
top
--
Fortune
500
CEO
jobs,
or
the
equivalent
in
other industries -- the problem, I am convinced,
is that
women are dropping out. Now
people talk about this a lot, and
they
talk about things like flex time and mentoring and
programs companies should have to train
women. I want to talk
about none of
that today -- even though that's all really
important. Today I want to focus on
what we can do as
individuals. What are
the messages
we need
to tell
ourselves?
What
are
the
messages
we
tell
the
women
that
work
with
and
for
us? What
are the messages we tell our daughters?
Now at the outset, I want
to be very clear that this speech
comes
with
no
judgments.
I
don't
have
the
right
answer;
I
don't
even have it for
myself. I left San Francisco, where I live,
on
Monday,
and
I
was
getting
on
the
plane
for
this conference.
And my daughter, who's three, when I
dropped her off at
preschool, did that
whole hugging the leg, crying,
don't
get on the plane,
sometimes.
I
know
no
women,
whether
they're
at
home,
or
whether
they're in the workforce, that don't
feel that sometimes. So
I'm
not
saying
that
staying
in
the
workforce
is
the
right
thing
for
everyone.
My talk today is
about
what the messages are if you do
want
to stay in the workforce. And I
think there are
three
. One,
sit at the table. Two, make your
partner a real partner. And
three --
don't leave before you leave.
Number
one: sit at the
table. Just a couple
weeks ago at Facebook, we hosted a very
senior
government
official,
and
he
came
in
to
meet
with
senior
execs from around Silicon Valley. And
everyone kind of sat at
the table. And
then he had these two women who were traveling
with him who were pretty senior in his
department. And I kind
of
said
to
them,
at
the
table.
Come
on,
sit
at
the
table.
And they sat on the
side of the room. When I was in college
my senior year, I took a course called
European Intellectual
History.
Don't
you
love
that
kind
of
thing
from
college.
I
wish
I could do that now. And I took it with
my roommate, Carrie,
who was then a
brilliant literary student -- and went on to
be
a
brilliant
literary
scholar
--
and
my
brother
--
smart
guy,
but a water polo
playing pre-med, who was a sophomore.
The
three
of
us
take
this
class
together.
And
then
Carrie
reads
all the books in the
original Greek and Latin -- goes to all
the lectures -- I
read all
the books in English and go to most
of
the
lectures.
My
brother
is
kind
of
busy;
he
reads
one
book
of 12 and goes to a couple of lectures,
marches himself up to
our
room
a
couple
days
before
the
exam
to get
himself
tutored.
The three of us go to the exam
together, and we sit down. And
we sit
there for three hours -- and our little blue
notebooks
--
yes,
I'm
that
old.
And
we
walk
out,
and
we
look
at
each
other,
and we say,
like I didn't really draw out the main
point on the Hegelian
dialectic.
connected John
Locke's theory of property with the
philosophers
that
follow.
And
my
brother
says,
got
the
top
grade in the
class.
don't know anything.
The
problem
with
these
stories
is
that
they
show
what
the
data
shows: women systematically
underestimate their own
abilities. If
you test men and women, and you ask them
questions on totally objective criteria
like GPA's, men get
it wrong slightly
high, and women get it wrong slightly low.
Women
do
not
negotiate
for
themselves
in
the
workforce.
A
study
in the last two years
of people entering the workforce out of
college showed that 57 percent of boys
entering -- or men, I
guess -- are
negotiating their first salary, and only seven
percent of women. And most importantly,
men attribute their
success
to
themselves,
and
women
attribute
it
to
other
external
factors. If you ask men why they did a
good job, they'll say,
women
why they did a good job, what they'll say is
someone
helped
them,
they
got
lucky,
they
worked
really
hard. Why
does
this matter? Boy, it
matters a lot because no one gets to the
corner office by sitting on the side,
not at the table. And
no
one
gets
the
promotion
if
they
don't
think
they
deserve
their
success, or they don't even understand
their own success.
I wish
the answer were easy. I wish I could just go tell
all
the
young
women
I
work
with,
all
these
fabulous
women,
in
yourself
and
negotiate
for
yourself.
Own
your
own
success.
I
wish
I
could
tell
that
to
my
daughter.
But
it's
not
that
simple.
Because what the
data shows, above all else, is one thing --
which
is
that
success
and
likability
are
positively
correlated
for men and
negatively correlated for women. And everyone's
nodding, because we all know this to be
true.
There's a really good
study that shows this really well.
There's
a
famous
Harvard
Business
School
study
on
a
woman
named
Heidi Roizen. And she's an operator in
a company in Silicon
Valley, and she
uses her contacts to become a very successful
venture capitalist. In 2002 -- not so
long ago -- a professor
who was then at
Columbia University took that case and made
it Howard Roizen. And he gave case out
-- both of them -- to
two groups of
students. He changed exactly one word: Heidi to
Howard.
But
that
one
word
made
a
really
big
difference.
He
then
surveyed
the
students.
And
the
good
news
was
the
students,
both
men
and
women,
thought
Heidi
and
Howard
were
equally
competent,
and that's good.
The bad news was that everyone liked Howard.
He's a great guy, you want to work for
him, you want to spend
the
day
fishing
with
him.
But
Heidi?
Not
so
sure.
She's
a
little
out for herself. She's a little
political. You're not sure
you'd want
to work for her. This is the complication. We have
to tell our daughters and our
colleagues, we have to tell
ourselves
to
believe
we
got
the
A,
to
reach
for
the
promotion,
to
sit at the table. And we have to do it in a world
where,
for them, there are sacrifices
they will make for that, even
though
for their brothers, there are not.
The saddest thing about all of this is
that it's really hard
to
remember
this.
And
I'm
about
to
tell
a
story
which
is
truly
embarrassing for me,
but I think important. I gave this talk
at Facebook not so long ago to about a
hundred employees. And
a couple hours
later, there was a young woman who works there
sitting outside my little desk, and she
wanted to talk to me.
I said, okay, and
she sat down, and we talked. And she said,
hand up.
giving
this
talk,
and
you
said
you
were
going
to
take
two
more
questions.
And
I
had
my
hand
up
with
lots
of
other
people,
and
you took two more
questions. And I put my hand down, and I
noticed all the women put their hand
down, and then you took
more questions,
only from the men.
wow, if it's me --
who cares about this, obviously -- giving
this talk -- and during this talk, I
can't even notice that
the men's hands
are still raised, and the women's hands are
still
raised,
how
good
are
we
as
managers
of
our
companies
and
our organizations at seeing that the
men are reaching for
opportunities more
than women? We've got to get women to sit
at the table.
Message number two: make your partner a
real partner. I've
become
convinced
that
we've
made
more
progress
in
the
workforce
than we have in
the home. The data shows this very clearly.
If
a
woman
and
a
man
work
full-time
and
have
a
child,
the
woman
does
twice
the
amount
of
housework
the
man
does,
and
the
woman
does
three
times
the
amount
of
child
care
the
man
does.
So
she's
got
three
jobs or
two jobs,
and
he's got
one.
Who do
you think
drops out
when someone needs to be home more? The causes of
this are really complicated, and I
don't have time to go into
them. And I
don't think Sunday football watching and general
laziness is the cause.
I think the cause is more complicated.
I think, as a society,
we put more
pressure on our boys to succeed that we do on our
girls.
I
know
men
that
stay
home
and
work
in
the
home
to
support
wives
with
careers
And
it's
hard. When
I
go
to
the
Mommy-and-Me
stuff and I see
the father there, I notice that the other
mommies don't play with him. And that's
a problem, because we
have
to
make
it
as
important
a
job --
because
it's
the
hardest
job in the world -- to
work
inside the home for people of both
genders if we're going to even things
out and let women stay
in
the
workforce.
(Applause)
Studies
show
that
households
with
equal earning and equal responsibility
also have half the
divorce rate. And if
that wasn't good enough motivation for
everyone
out
there,
they
also
have
more
--
how
shall
I
say
this
on this
stage? -- they know each other more in the
biblical
sense as well.
Message number three: don't leave
before you leave. I think
there's
a
really
deep
irony
to
the
fact
that
actions
women
are
taking
-- and I see this all the time -- with the
objective
of
staying
in
the
workforce,
actually
lead
to
their
eventually
leaving.
Here's
what
happens:
We're
all
busy;
everyone's
busy;
a woman's busy. And she starts thinking
about having a child.
And from the
moment she starts thinking about having a child,
she starts thinking about making room
for that child.
I going to fit this
into everything else I'm
doing?
literally
from
that
moment,
she
doesn't
raise
her
hand
anymore,
she
doesn't look for a promotion, she doesn't take on
the new
project, she doesn't say,
leaning
back.
The
problem
is
that
--
let's
say
she
got
pregnant
that day, that day -- nine months of
pregnancy, three months
of maternity
leave, six months to catch your breath --
fast-forward two years, more often --
and as I've seen it --
women start
thinking about this way earlier -- when they get
engaged,
when
they
get
married,
when
they
start
thinking
about
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