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Unit
4 Dealing with AIDS
Dealing
with
AIDS
strengthens
the
bond
of
friendship,
encourages
emotional
and
mature
growth. Before the
sixteenth of October 1995, I was the most carefree
person in the world. I had
no worries
and was just living life up. I never thought that
anything could happen to me or my
friends. We were invincible. That is,
until the word AIDS came into my life.
For
10
years
David
and
I
were
the
best
of
friends.
Then
we
got
to
high
school
and
things
started to change. We were in different
classes, so we didn't hang out as much. It
bothered me but
I thought that we were
both just growing up, and there were more friends
where he came from.
Then I began to
notice that he wasn't in school a lot, and was
sick more than usual. So I called him
and he hung up on me. I didn't know
what to do, so once again I blew it off. Then one
day I saw
David in the mall and I
confronted him as to why we were not friends
anymore. He pulled me
aside and broke
down in tears and said that he was dying. I didn't
believe him. Sure, I had heard
about
AIDS, but that it was a homosexual disease and it
didn't affect young people, so I said that it
was a sick joke and left.
When I got home things started to make
sense. I ran to my room and cried. David was only
17;
he couldn't die. Then I felt so bad
that we had grown so far apart. I called David,
asking him to
come over so we could
talk. When he came over I saw a seriousness in him
that I had never seen
before. He looked
so old, too old for his age. I asked how it
happened. David had had unprotected
sex
once and now had to pay with his life. I was so
angry. I have never felt so powerless in my
whole life. When things had gone wrong
before this, I could always rely on my parents to
make
things better. There was nothing
that they could do this time. I had to handle it
all on my own.
David and I became very close again,
and it seemed that I was the only one there for
him.
David made the decision to tell
people about his disease. There was no use in
hiding it; sooner or
later
people
would
find
out.
People
looked
at
him
as
if
he
had
a
plague,
and
our
friends
from
school wanted nothing
to do with him. Soon after that they wanted
nothing to do with me. All of a
sudden
I felt that I had the disease. I didn't know what
to do. My whole life was changing so fast
that
I
couldn't
keep
up.
Once
again
I
was
growing
up
and
realized
that
our
friendship
meant
everything to me. Also, I couldn't turn
my back on him when he needed me the most. So I
stuck it
out and lost most of my
friends. The ones that still talked with me didn't
come too close in fear
that they would
catch the disease. The thing was, I didn't even
have AIDS, so why did my friends
treat
me
like
this?
I
was
being
treated
this
way
because
teenagers
are
not
used
to
dealing
with
situations like this, and don't know
how to react. So how could I blame them since I
would have
done the same thing?
As time went
on, David became very ill. There was nothing that
I could do but watch him die.
David
found out that he had full blown AIDS. This to me
meant death was sure to come and all
too quickly. I wasn't ready to let him
die, not yet anyway. There was so many things that
I wanted
to do and say, but couldn't
find the words. I went to doctor after doctor with
him, and saw him go
through so much.
Everyone said that I must keep a positive attitude
for his sake, because attitude
means
everything. So, in times of stress I was the one
that had to keep things together. I pushed all
my emotions aside and was strong for
him.
My mom
had had a trip planned for the whole family for
some time now, and still wanted to
go.
She thought that the trip would do me good; she
said that I was not the one that was dying. I
couldn't believe that she said that to
me, but to make her happy I went. We were gone for
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weeks, and when I came back the first
thing I did was go to see David. That was when I
saw AIDS
for the first time. I didn't
even recognize him. David had lost weight, had
purple lesions all over
his body, and
was very pale. He couldn't even get up when he saw
me. He was bedridden. I still
had
to
be
the
strong
one
and
keep
everything
in.
I
had
brought
him
stuff
from
the
ocean,
his
favorite place. We
talked about my trip and anything else we could
think of. Then he fell asleep
because
he could no longer stay awake for long periods of
time.
On the
second of May
1996, David was put in
the hospital. This gave him the feeling that
there
was
no
more
hope
left,
and
that
he
was
going
to
die.
I
still
had
to
maintain
my
positive
outlook for him. He needed that in me.
One day he looked at me and said,
accept that and deal with it. I know
what I did was wrong and now I have to deal with
it. All I
want you to do is to remember
me, enjoy life and be careful.
cried. I
knew that it wouldn't be long before he was gone
forever. He shouldn't have to deal with
this at such a young age. Towards the
end of May he became so sick that the hospital
staff had a
bubble around him, so he
wouldn't catch our bad germs. I hated to see him
like that, and every day
it became
worse. I had come to realize that any day now he
would die. At night I would wonder if
he would make it through. School was
over now, so I spent every hour I could in the
hospital. He
was everything to me. I
felt bad for the time that we had lost and how I
wasn't even going to fight
for our
friendship.
The fifth of June, 1996
marked the end of my best friend David's life. He
went peacefully.
That was a comfort all
in its own. In a way I was glad that it was over,
for he was no longer in
pain. All
the
emotions
that
I
had
held
in
came
rushing
out
as
I
realized
that
I
would
never
see
David
again. His mother said that I had kept him alive
and that she was grateful that I was her
son's last friend. It hasn't been a
year yet, but I have done so much since then that
I am no longer
that carefree teenager.
I now educate people about AIDS, which to me is
keeping David's memory
alive. Even
though David is gone, he is still with me and
always will be in mind and spirit.
应对艾滋病
抵抗艾滋病可以加深友谊,
增进情感交流和促进人们成熟。
在
1995
年
l0
月
16
日之前,
我是这个世界
上最无忧无虑的人,
我没有什么担忧,
只知道享受生活。
我从来没想过任何事
情会发生到我或朋友们身上。我们是所向无敌的。
直到艾滋病这个词进入我的生活。
< br>我和戴维做最好的朋友有十年了。
但是上了高中之后,
事
情起了变化。
因为我们在不同
的班,
所
以不经常一起出去玩。
这让我有点烦,但我想我们在渐渐长大,而且他会遇见更多
的朋友。
然后,
我开始注意到他经常不上学,
而且生病比以前多些。
因此,
我给他打
电话.
但
他给挂了。
我不知道该怎么办
,
所以就又一次没管这事。
然后有一天我在商场遇见他,
就走
过去当面问他为什么我们不再是好朋友了。
他把我拽到一边,
失控地哭着告诉我他快要死了。
我不相信他
。确实,
我听说过艾滋病,但是它是一种同性恋疾病并且不会感染年轻人,
所以
我对他说这是一个恶心的玩笑后就离开了。
回到家后,事情开始变得明朗。我跑到我的房问,哭了
。戴维只有
17
岁;他不能死。
然后我
对于我们变得如此遥远感到悲伤。
我给戴维打了个电话,
要他过
来说说话。
他到了之
后,我发现他病得很严重,而这一点我以前
从未注意到。
他看起来很老,老过了他实际的年
龄。
我问他到底怎么回事。
戴维曾经有一次未采取保护措施的性行为,
而现在他要用一条命
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