关于爱情的英语作文(中英文对照)

渡过难关、

我们将共同拥有什么 样的未来。

我们一致认为爱是一种能改变人生的精神。爱是一种生活方

< br>式，它具有创造和改变的力量。但是爱并不是为完善世界而

存在的，爱本来就是我 们这个不完美、有缺陷的世界而存在

的。爱应该是一种能缓解痛苦的精神力量。爱应该给 我们这

无聊的生活带来意义。换言之，是爱使我们能够在这不完美

的世界上生活下去。

爱是包容 的。

爱一个人，

就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。

< br>尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为，这种结合也

不是全然排他的。两个 人密不可分，再无个人发展的余地，

这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。

爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊，才能

接受别人。如果自己空虚，那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空

虚。 如果认为自己是充实的、出色的，那么我就能以自己的

充实为所爱之人增光，给对方以爱 的方法之一就是与所爱之

人一起充分体验自己。

爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个人，在

接受今日的他的同时，还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人

静止不变， 则令其退步，而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力已

经发挥，则助其进步。

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总而言之，成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的 双

方结合。在爱情中，两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个

独 立的个体。

关于爱情的英语作文英文版对照

Love means that I know the person I love. I’m

aware

of

the

many

sides

of

the

other

person

—

not

just

the beautiful side but also the limitations,

inconsistencies

and

faults.

I

have

an

awareness

of

the

other’s feelings and thoughts, and I experience

something of the core of that person. I can penetrate

social masks and roles and see the other person on a

deeper level.

Love means that I care about the welfare of the

person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my

caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other

person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of

us. If I care about you, I’m concerned about your

growth, and I hope you will become all that you can

become.

Consequently,

I

don’t

put

up

obstacles

to

what

you do that enhances you as a person, even though it

may result in my discomfort at times.

Love

means

having

respect

for

the

dignity

of

the

person

I

love.

If

I

love

you,

I

can

see

you

as

a

separate

person,

with

your

own

values

and

thoughts

and

feelings,

and I do not insist that you surrender your identity

to match an image of what I expect you to be for me.

I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be

who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or

using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.

Love means having a responsibility toward the

person

I

love.

If

I

love

you,

I

respond

to

most

of

your

major needs as a person. This responsibility does not

include my doing for you what you are capable of doing

for

yourself;

nor

does

it

mean

that

I

run

your

life

for

you.

It

does

mean

acknowledging

that

what

I

am

and

what

I

do

affects

you,

so

that

I

am

directly

involved

in

your

happiness and your suffering. A lover does have the

capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this

sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some

responsibility for the impact my way of being has on

you.

Love means making a commitment to the person I

love. This commitment does not mean surrendering our

total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the

relationship

is

necessarily

permanent.

It

does

involve

a

willingness

to

stay

with

each

other

in

times

of

pain,