皮筋[关于夫妻感情的英语美文]关于夫妻感情的句子

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阿隆告诉对泰晤士报称：

这个 发现虽然与传统的爱情

观念相悖感情会在前十年间急剧降温但我们确信这是真的。

关于夫妻感情的英语美文篇二

吵架其实可以增进夫妻感情

When we’re young we think of the perfect relationship. Everyone is always smiling

and things are going well. Your partner knows exactly what to say and do to make you feel good

and vice versa. Those of us who have been in relationships know better. Couples can and will fight

for

just

about

anything.

The

key

is

to

understand

that

fighting

can

help

improve

relationships.

Here’s how.

当我们年轻时，

都想拥有完美的爱情 。每个人都面带笑容，一切都进展顺利。

你的另一

半知道说什么 做什么会令你开心或者不开心。

那些曾经经历过热恋的人们更是深有体会。

但

是夫妻却可能因为任何事都吵起来，

问题的关键在 于吵架其实也可以增进夫妻感情。

让我们

来看看：

1. You air your dirty laundry

晾出你自己的问题

An argument may start over anything. You two may not know what to do for dinner. One of

you may have taken that turn a little fast and loose while out driving. Problems in a relationship

are like dynamite and little things like not deciding on a place to eat are nothing more than a fuse.

Eventually, these little things will open up the table to what is really going wrong. Once you can

identify what’s really going on, it’s just a matter of figuring out how to fix it.

争吵可以因任何小事而起：你俩不知道晚餐吃什么

开车外出时其中一人转弯转的有点

早。

夫妻间的任何问题都像是一颗炸弹，

而那些小事，

诸如决定去哪儿吃饭等，

就是导火线。

最终，这些小事会引发 真正的大事。一旦你发现苗头不对，就要赶紧着手修补。

2. You will be more comfortable around one another

在彼此身边时你会觉得更自在

The classic sign that a couple is comfortable with each other is when the embarrassing bodily

functions fly even when the other person is in the room. Believe it or not, fighting can actually do

the same thing. Couples who fight are not only working out their issues but also showing each

other how they deal with problems. It forces you to talk about yourselves and what you think. By

the end of it you’ll know the other person way better than you did before and vice versa

because both of you will be expressing yourselves, often for the first time.

夫妻间 能以最自在的方式同彼此相处，

最典型的标志就是当其中一方身体忽然发出某种

声响，

依然很自得。

不管你信不信，

的问题，也是在向对 方展示自己是如何处理问题的。它会迫使你审视自己，

到最后，你可能

< br>会发现对方的方式可能更好，反之亦然，因为双方都是在第一次表达自己内心的真实想法。

3. You will have confirmation that both of you want the relationship to work

确信双方都想让关系变得更好

People will fight for things they believe in. It doesn’t matter if they’re joining

the military to fight for their country or shouting at you across the kitchen table to fight for your

relationship. A lot of people think that anger means discontent but it actually means that you care

so

much

that

when

something

goes

wrong,

you

get

upset

about

it.

Fighting

with

your

partner

shows them that you’re upset and that you want to fix things to make them better. If you

don’t want to fight or if your partner doesn’t want to fight to make a relationship

right, then there might be a problem.

人们会为自己坚信的东西而奋斗。

无 论是加入军队为国家浴血奋战或是夫妻双方站在桌

子对面为自己的婚姻生活而吵，

这些都不重要。许多人都认为，愤怒意味着不满，

但其实这

事情变得更好。

如果你不想吵架，

或对方不想为 了改善关系跟你争吵，

那才是真的有问题了。

4. You and your partner will restore your sanity

你和你的爱人会恢复理智

Anger

means

that

you

care.

Unfortunately,

being

angry

can

also

drive

you

insane

if

you

don’t express it. Bottling up those kinds of emotions can be dangerous. It can cause you to

have

irrational

thoughts

and

eventually

you

start

thinking

things

that aren’t

true.

Letting

out that anger can help reset your insanity button and get those negative thoughts out of your head.

Not fighting and letting those feelings get bottled up is never good. Ever.

生气说 明在乎。

但不幸的是，你如果生闷气，

会被憋疯的。这些不良情 绪闷在心里是一

件非常危险的事。有可能使你有了产生某些荒谬的想法，最终你开始考虑 不着边际的事情。

将愤怒释放出来可以让你避免精神错乱，

将那 些消极的想法清空。

不争吵，

任由不良情绪发

< br>酵是绝对绝对不行的。

5. You will get an honest answer for once

你会立马听到最诚实的回答

Emotions flying around like witches on broomsticks often means that the truth is also flying

around.

Have

you

ever

noticed

that

people

in

fights

make

statements

they

wouldn’t

otherwise make. I never liked it when you did this. Couples in an argument often air their dirty

laundry

but

more

importantly

they’re

doing

it

honestly.

Those

small

things

you

keep

bottled up and lie about (Sure, honey, I don’t mind watching Sex in the Cityagain) can be

set free because angry people no longer care about the consequences. As long as you’re not

hiding

anything

ridiculous

like

cheating

or

something

irreparable,

chances

are

that

your

little

issues are fixable.

坏情绪 四处蔓延，

像女巫骑着扫把飞来飞去，

通常这也意味着真心话就 在嘴边。

不知你

是否曾注意，争吵时，夫妻间会说出平时绝不会 说的话。

比如，我根本就不喜欢你这么做等

等。夫妻争吵时通常 会把问题都晾出来，

但更重要的事，

双方此刻都是诚实的。那些 曾经让

你欲言又止的小事

(

当然，亲爱 的，我一点都不介意再看一遍。

。

《欲望都市》

)

，诸如此类，

生气时会说出真实的想法，

根本估计不到后果。

只要你隐瞒的 不是出轨或其

他无法弥补的错误，你们之间的小问题就可以解决。

6. You get to have sex

做做运动

As long as your relationship survives the fight (and chances are that it will) you get to have

make up sex. By the time the argument is over everyone is stressed out. Things are a little tense.

There are few better ways our species has access to than a good rumble between the sheets to get

some

of

that

tension out. We’re

not

saying

you

should

pick

a

fight

but plenty

of

people

who are in relationships go through a dry spell that ends after a fight.

只要你 们的感情能承受住争吵

(

很大程度上没问题

)

就需要一些性爱来弥补一下。

争吵结

束了，

问题解决了，

两个人都会感觉有点精疲力尽。关系稍 微有些紧张，此时很少有比来一

场床上运动更好的方法了，

这样 可以让你们紧张的关系缓和下来。

我们并不提倡争执，

但是

很多夫妻争吵后确实会有一段尴尬和紧张期。

7. You get a reminder of what you’re doing wrong

有一个人会时刻提醒你什么做错了

Relationships

take

work.

Sometimes

you

have

to

stop

doing

something

or

start

doing

something to keep your partner happy. Not doing those things can result in a fight. During that

fight

you

will

be

reminded

(many

times)

of

what

you’re

doing

wrong.

This

can

seem