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西大
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外国语学院
浅析中美家庭教育观的差异
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以《家有儿女》和《摩登家庭》为例
Analysis
of
Differences
of
Family
Education
Concepts
between
China
and
America
from Home with Kids and Modern Family
摘
要：家庭教育是指父母对孩子采取的教育方式，会对孩子的成长和发展所产
< br>生影响。
它是整个学校教育和社会教育的基础，
同时它对
塑造孩子的价值观、
世
界观起着关键作用。本文以《家有儿女》
和《摩登家庭》为例探索中美家庭教育
观的差异，为中国家庭教育提供借鉴。
Abstract
：
Family
education
is
the
ways
that
parents
educate
their
children,
which
exerts
influence
on
children
development.
It
is
also
the
basis
of
school
and
social
education,
playing
a
key
role
in
shaping
children’s
val
ues
and
world
views.
In
this
paper,
TV
series
Home
with
Kids
and
Modern
Family
are
cited,
to
explore
the
differences
of
family
education
concepts
between
China
and
America,
expecting
it
can work as a reference
for Chinese family education.
一、引言
在历史长河的积淀中，
每一种文化都衍生出其带有民族特色的家庭价值观。
由于
思想观念的基础以及文化传统的迥异，
中美家庭文化蕴含着不同的价值观，
具有
各自鲜明的特征。
《家有儿女》是
中国大陆的一部关于少儿题材
的情景喜剧
，采
< br>用重组家庭作为故事展开的平台。
夏东海离婚后带着
7<
/p>
岁的儿子夏雨、
女儿夏雪，
后与刘梅结婚
。
刘梅也曾离异，
并带有一子叫刘星。
《摩登家庭》
是美国
2009
年
开始上映的情景喜剧片以父亲老夫少妻式的重组家庭（
Gloria
和
Jay
）
、女儿家
（
Clair,Phil
）
,
儿子的同性恋家庭（
< br>Mitchell
和
Camron
）
三个家庭为故事背景，
内容涉及到情感、家庭教育、人际关
系、文化冲突等，情节生动真实，语言诙谐
幽默，
展示了美国的原生态生活方式。
本文试图以中国家庭情景剧
-
《
家有儿女》
和美剧
《摩登家庭》
为例来探索中美家庭教育观的差异并剖析其原因，
以期通过
借鉴国外先进的教育方法更好地促进我国的孩子健康快乐地成
长，
提高孩子的综
合素质，同时也更好地促进两国社会文化交流
。
Introduction
Over the long history of human
development, each civilization derives certain
family
education
concepts
with
national
features.
Based
on
sharp
different
ideology
and
cultural
tradition,
Chinese
and
American
family
culture
bear
different
values
with
distinct features. Home with kids is a
situation comedy on Children development in
Chinese
mainland
on
the
basis
of
reconstructed
family.
The
grass
widower
Xia
donghai, who has two children named
Xiayu,Xiaxue, remarries another grass widow
Liumei,
who
has
only
one
child
Liuxing.
While
modern
family
is
an
American
situation comedy with there families as
background-father Jay and stepmother
Gloria
，
daughter
Clair and her husband Phil and son Mitchell and
his homosexual boyfriend
Camron,
covering emotions, family education, interpersonal
relationship, and cultural
conflicts.
The comedy presents us the genuine American
lifestyles. In this paper, TV
series
Home
with
Kids
and
Modern
Family
are
cited,
to
explore
the
differences
of
family
education
concepts
between
China
and
America,
expecting
it
can
work
as
a
reference
for
Chinese
family
education
as
well
as
promote
the
social
and
cultural
exchanges between
China and America.
二、中美家庭教育观的差异
1
、教育方式的差异
中国长期受儒家思想的影响，
父母在家庭中具有绝对的权威，
< br>在
《家有儿女》
中，
中国家庭的
教育方式表现在：
孩子在家庭生活中处于被动地位，
父母对孩子
的要
求听从安排。
从一进门父母就开始唠叨，
< br>即使孩子关了门去学习，
他们还在紧闭
的门前喋喋不休。
剧中妈妈刘梅就是这样一位颇有点神经质的家长。
父母往往以<
/p>
权威姿态出现，与孩子的距离较远，且经常打骂孩子，正如刘星所说，
“
中国打
骂孩子正常，而在美国这属于犯法的。
Differences of Family Education
Concepts between China and America
Different Education Ways
Influenced
by
Confucianism,
Chinese
parents
hold
authoritative
position
in
family.
Chinese family education concepts are
reflected in Home with Kids in the following
aspects: children are passive in family
and obey almost every thing they parents order.
From the moment the parents get home
after work, they routinely talk endlessly, even
though their children study in their
own rooms, they
doesn’t
stop
chattering. Liumei is
the
representative of such mother. Once her children
make mistakes or doing things
wrongly,
she
will
scold
them
seriously
and
sometimes
may
impose
corporal
punishmen. As what liuxing puts
it,
”
it is common in china
that parents scold or beat
their
children, but in America, it is unlawful and
parents.
”
而美国家庭教育方式讲究
“
孩子本位
”
，
父母尊重孩子的人格和人权，
把孩子
当
做是一个独立的和平等的家庭成员相待，
与孩子建立民主平等
的关系。
在
《摩登
家庭》中，孙女儿<
/p>
Alex
与其祖母
Gloria
的交谈中，
Gloria
将自己的感情经历如
实相告，
就像朋友之间的倾吐。
正如剧
中
Luke
对其父亲
Phil
说
“We are friends”
，
(
我们是哥们儿
)
。当孩子犯错时，家长以平等的态度与孩子进行沟通、交流，对
孩子合理的想法和行为给予充分肯定，对其错误的想法和行为会给予批评指正。
当
Manny
想退出准备已经的比赛时，妈妈并没有当即批评并指责他
，而是循循
诱导，最终成功劝说
Manny
参加比赛。
While
American
family
education
approaches
focus
on
children-active.
Parents
respect their individuality and human
rights, treat them as equal family members and
establish
democratic
relationship
with
their
children.
Those
values
are
obviously
embodied in Modern
Family in the following plots: Alex feels
frustrated and readily
talked
to
her
grandmother
Gloria,
who
related
her
own
whole
love-
relationship
experiences in order to
comfort her just like bosom friends. As Luke says
to his father
Phil,
“
we
are
friends
”
.
When
the
child
commits
mistakes,
parents
will
try
to
communicate
with
them
and
listen
to
them.
They
will
give
approval
to
their
right
words
and
deeds
but
also
guide
them
correct
their
mistakes
by
pointing
out
their
wrong
behaviors.
When
Manny
wants
to
drop
out
form
the
sword
competition,
his
mother
doesn’t
criticize him on the spot with pushy words,
instead, she persuades him
in soft ways
and finally Manny participates in the competition.
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教育内容的差异：
中国家庭教育内容
侧重的是语言和逻辑能力的培养，
即在家庭教育中以知识为本
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