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Hi. I'm here to talk to you about the importance

of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be

specific and genuine.

嗨。我在这里要和大家谈谈

向别人表达赞美，倾佩和

谢意的重要性。

并使它们听来真诚，具体。

And

the

way

I

got

interested

in

this

was,

I

noticed

in

myself,

when

I

was

growing

up,

and

until

about

a

few

years

ago,

that

I

would

want

to

say

thank

you

to

someone,

I would want to praise them, I would want to take in

their praise of me and I'd just stop it. And I asked

myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then

my question became, am I the only one who does this?

So, I decided to investigate.

之所以我对此感兴趣

是因为我从我自己的成长中注意

到

几年前，

当我想要对某个人说声谢谢时，

当我想要赞

美他们时，

当我想接受他们对我的赞扬，

但我却没有说出

口。

我问我自己，

这是为什么

?

我感到害羞，

我感到尴尬。

接着我产生了一个问题

难道我是唯一一个这么做的人吗

?

所以我决定做些探究。

I'm

fortunate

enough

to

work

in

the

rehab

facility,

so I get to see people who are facing life and death

with

addiction.

And

sometimes

it

comes

down

to

something

as

simple

as,

their

core

wound

is

their

father

died without ever saying he's proud of them. But then,

they hear from all the family and friends that the

father told everybody else that he was proud of him,

but he never told the son. It's because he didn't know

that his son needed to hear it.

我非常幸运的在一家康复中心工作，

所以我可以看到

那些因为上瘾而面临生与死的人。

有时候这一切可以非常

简单地归结为，

他们最核心的创伤来自于他们父亲到死都

未说过“他为他们而自 豪”

。

但他们从所有其它家庭或朋友

那里得知

他的父亲告诉其他人为他感到自豪，

但这个父亲

从没告诉过他儿子。

因为他不知道他的儿子需要听到这一

切。

So my question is, why don't we ask for the things

that

we

need?

I

know

a

gentleman,

married

for

25

years,

who's

longing

to

hear

his

wife

say,

you

for

being

the

breadwinner,

so

I

can

stay

home

with

the

kids,

but

won't

ask.

I

know

a

woman

who's

good

at

this.

She,

once

a week, meets with her husband and says,

like you to thank me for all these things I did in the

house

and

with

the

kids.

And

he

goes,

this

is

great,

this

is

great.

And

praise

really

does

have

to

be

genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a

friend

of

mine,

April,

who

I've

had

since

kindergarten,

she

thanks

her

children

for

doing

their

chores.

And

she

said,

supposed to do it?

因此我的问题是，为什么我们不索求我们需要的东西呢

?

我认识一个结婚

25

年的男士

渴望听到他妻子说，

“ 感谢

你为这个家在外赚钱，这样我才能在家陪伴着孩子，

”

但他

从来不去问。

我认识一个精于此道的女士。

每周一次，她

见到丈夫后会说，

“我真的希望你为我对这个家和孩子们

付出的努力而感谢我。

”

他会应和到“哦，真是太棒了，真

是太棒了。

”

赞扬别人一定要真诚，

但她对赞美承担了责

任。

April

的 人，

她

会感谢她的孩子们做了家务。

她说：

“为什么我不表示感谢

呢，即使他们 本来就要做那些事情

?

”

So,

the

question

is,

why

was

I

blocking

it?

Why

were

other people blocking it? Why can I say,

steak medium rare, I need size six shoes,