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01 Life is a chess-board
The
chess-board is the world: the pieces are the
phenomena of the universe; the
rules of
the game are what we call the laws of nature. The
player on the other side is
hidden from
us. We know that his play is always fair, just and
patient.
But also we
know,
to our cost, that he never overlooks a mistake, or
makes the smallest allowance
for
ignorance.
By Thomas Henry Huxley
参考译文
棋盘宛如世界:
一个个棋子仿佛世间的种种现象:
游戏规则就是我们所称的
自然法则。竞争对手藏于暗处,不为我们所见。我们知晓,这位对手向来处事公
平,正义凛然,极富耐心。然而,我们也明白,这位对手从不忽视任何错误,或
者因为我
们的无知而做出一丝让步,所以我们也必须为此付出代价。
02 Best of times
It was the
best of times, it was the worst of times; it was
the age of wisdom, it
was the age of
foolishness; it was the epoch of belief, it was
the epoch of incredulity;
it was the
season of light, it was the season of darkness; it
was the spring of hope, it
was the
winter of despair; we had everything before us, we
had nothing before us; we
were all
going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct
the other way.
Excerpt from A Tale of
Two Cities by Charles Dickens
参考译文
这是一个最好的时代,
p>
也是一个最坏的时代;
这是明智的年代,
这
是愚昧的
年代;这是信任的纪元,这是怀疑的纪元;这是光明的季节,这是黑暗的季节;
这是希望的春日,这是失望的冬日;我们面前应有尽有,我们面前一无所有;我
们都将直下地狱
……
03 Equality and greatness
Between
persons
of
equal
income
there
is
no
social
distinction
except
the
distinction of merit. Money is nothing;
character, conduct, and capacity are everything.
Instead of all the workers being
leveled down to low wage standards and all the
rich
leveled
up
to
fashionable
income
standards,
everybody
under
a
system
of
equal
incomes
would
find
his
or
her
own
natural
level.
There
would
be
great
people
and
ordinary people and little people, but
the great would always be those who had done
great things, and never the idiot whose
mother had spoiled them and whose father had
left
a hundred thousand
a
year;
and the
little would
be persons of small
minds and
mean characters,
and not poor persons who had never had a chance.
That is why idiots
are always in favor
of inequality of income (their only chance of
eminence), and the
really great in
favor of equality.
收入相当的人除了品性迥异以外没有社会差别
。金钱不能说明什么;性格,
行为,
能力才代表一切。
在收入平等制度下,
每个人将会找到他或她正常的地位,
而不是所有的工人被划到应拿低工资阶层,所有的富人被划到应得高收入的阶
层
。人有卓著伟人,平庸之辈和碌碌小人之别,然伟人总是那些有所建树之人,
而非从小深
受母亲溺爱,
父亲每年留下一大笔钱之人;
碌碌小人总是那些心
胸狭
窄,
品德卑劣之人,
而不是那些从
未获取机会的穷人。
愚蠢之众总是赞成收入不
平等
(他们职能凭借这种机会才能为人所知)
,
而真正伟
大之人则主张平等相待,
原因就在于此。
04 Great expectation
As the
night was fast falling, and as the moon, being
past the full, would not rise
early, we
held a little council: a short one, for clearly
our course was to lie by at the
first
lonely tavern we could find. So, they plied their
oars once more, and I looked out
for
anything like a house. Thus we held on, speaking
little, for four or five dull miles.
It
was very cold, and, a collier coming by us, with
her gallery-fire smoking and flaring,
looked like a comfortable home. The
night was
as dark by this time as it
would be
until morning; and what light
we had, seemed to come more from the river than
the
sky, as the oars in their dipping
stuck at a few reflected stars.
天黑得很快,<
/p>
偏巧这天又是下弦月,
月亮不会很早升起。
我们就稍稍商量了
一下,
可是也用不着多讨论,
因为情况是明摆着的,
再划下去我们一遇到冷落的
酒
店就得投宿。
于是他们又使劲打起浆来,
我则用心寻找岸上是否
隐隐约约有什
么房屋的模样。
这样又赶了四五英里路,
一路上好不气闷,
大家简直不说一句话。
天气非
常冷,一艘煤船从我们近旁驶过,船上厨房里生着火,炊烟缕缕,火光荧
荧,
在我们看来简直就是个安乐家了。
这时夜已透黑,
看来就要这样一直黑到天
明,我们仅有的一点光亮似乎不是来自天空,而是来自河上,一
浆又一浆的,搅
动着那寥寥几颗倒映在水里的寒星。
05 The doer of deeds
It is
not the critic who counts, not the man who points
out how the strong man
stumbles; the
doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the man who is
actually in the arenas, whose face is marred
by dust and sweat and blood; who
strives valiantly; who errs, and comes short again
and again;
because there is
not
effort
without
error and
shortcoming; but
who does
actually strive to do the deeds; who
knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions;
who spends himself in a worthy cause,
who at the best knows in the end the triumphs
of high achievement and who at the
worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring
greatly,
so
that
his
place
shall
never
be
with
those
cold
and
timid
souls
who
know
neither
victory nor defeat.
真正令人尊敬的并
非那些评论家和那些指出强者是如何跌倒,
实干家本该做
得更好
的人。
荣誉属于那些亲临竞技场,满脸污泥,汗水和鲜血的人
。他们不懈努力,他
们曾犯过过错,
并一再失败。
因为付出即意味着犯错和失败。
他们满怀激情地努
力
做事,
执着不懈,
将生命奉献于崇高的事业。
< br>他们为经过艰辛努力最终取得的
伟大成就而自豪,如果失败,他们夜败的荣耀。因
而,这样的人永远不应与那些
不知道胜利,也从未失败过的冷淡而胆怯的灵魂相提并论。
06 American dream
To
Americans,
industriousness,
thrift
and
ambition
are
positive
values.
We
encourage
our
children
to
be
competitive,
to
get
ahead,
to
make
money,
to
acquire
possession. In games
and in business alike, the aim is to win the game,
the trophy, the
contract.
We
go
in
for
laborsaving
devices,
gadgets,
speed
and
shortcuts.
We
think
every young couple
should set up a home of their own. And we pity the
couple who
must
share
their
home
with
their
parent,
let
alone
with
other
relatives.
Actually,
of
course, not all Americans
hold all these values. And those who do may hold
other and
at times contradictory values
that affect their ways of behaving. In the main,
however,
the
collective
expectation
of
our
society
is
that
these
are
desirable
goals,
and
the
individual,
whatever
his
personal
inclination,
is
under
considerable
pressure
to
conform.
07 Shakespeare
Shakespeare
is
above
all
writers,
at
least
above
all
modern
writers,
the
po
et
of
nature;
the
poet
that
holds
up
to
his
readers
a
faithful
mirror
of
manners
and
of
life.
His
characters
are
not
modified
by
the
customs
of
particular
plac
es,
unpracticed
by
the
rest
of
the
world;
by
the
peculiarities
of
studies
or
prof
essions,
which
can
operate
but
upon
small
numbers;
or
by
the
accidents
of
tra
nsient
fashions
or
temporary
opinions:
they
are
the
genuine
progeny
of
commo
n
humanity,
such
as
the
world
will
always
supply,
and
observation
will
always
find.
His
persons
act
and
speak
by
the
influence
of
those
general
passions
an
d
principles
by
which
all
minds
are
agitated,
and
the
whole
system
of
life
is
continued
in
motion.
In
the
writings
of
other
poets
a
character
is
too
often
an
individual;
in
those
of
Shakespeare
it
is
commonly
a
species.
Except
from
The
Major
Works
by
Samuel
Johnson
参考译文
莎士比亚的才华高于一切作家,
至少高于当今的所有作家。
他是一位自然的
诗人,
他的作品将人间百态真实地展
现在读者眼前。
他的人物塑造并不拘泥于只
为一部分人所遵循的
某个特定地区的习俗,
也不局限于一小部分人所从事的特定
的研
究或职业,
也不追随短暂的潮流或暂时的思想观点:
他们据有人
们一贯具备
的、普遍的人性特点。就像世界能永不竭地供应,眼睛能永不停地发现。他笔
下
人物的一言一行都受那些能够触动所有人的大众化的情感和能使整个生命体系
得以延续的普遍原则所影响。
在其他诗人的作品中,
一个人物往往就是一个个体,
而莎翁笔下的人物通常代表着一类人。
08 Heart of a stranger
The most loved place, for me, in this
country has in fact been many places. It has
changed
throughout
the
years,
as
I
and
my
circumstances
have
changed.
I
haven't
really lost any of
the best places from the past, though. I may no
longer inhabit them,
but they inhabit
me, portions of memory, presences in the mind...My
best place at the
moment
is
very
different,
although
I
guess
it
has
some
of
the
attributes
of
that
long-ago
place. It is a small cedar cabin on the Otonabee
River in southern Ontario.
I've lived
three summers there, writing, birdwatching,
riverwatching. I sometimes feel
sorry
for the people in speedboats who spend their
weekends zinging up and down the
river
at about a million miles an hour. For all they're
able to see, the riverbanks might
just
as well be green concrete and the river itself
flowing with molten plastic.
By
Margaret Laurence
参考译文
在这个国家里我最喜欢的地方其实一直有很多。
这些年来,
由于我们自己和
情况的变迁,
我最爱的地方也随着改变
。
虽然如此,
过去我喜爱过的任何一个地
方我并没有真正地失去它们。
我或许不再居住在那儿,
但它们
却存在于我的心里,
成为我记忆中的片段,
时常浮现在脑海中<
/p>
……
此刻我最喜爱的地方相当不同,
但<
/p>
我想它仍具有和老早的那个地方(即明湖,
Clear
Lake
)相同的某些特质。这个
地方是安大略
省南方奥托拿比河边的一间松木小屋。我在那儿居住了三个夏天:
写作、赏鸟、观河。有
时候我为那些来此地度周末,却驾着快艇以极速在河上往
来呼啸的人感到难过,
因为这些人看见的河岸只不过是绿色的混凝土岸,
而河流
本身也仿佛只是条闪亮的流动塑料。
09 Thoughts in a grave yard
When
I
look
upon
the
tombs
of
the
great,
every
emotion
of
envy
dies
in
me;
when I read the epitaphs
of the beautiful, even inordinate desire goes out;
when I meet
with the grief of parents
upon a tombstone, my heart melts with compassion;
when I
see the tomb of the parents of
themselves, I consider the vanity of grieving for
those
who deposed them, when I consider
rival wits placed side by side, or the holy men
that
divided
the
world
with
their
contests
and
disputes,
I
reflect
with
sorrow
and
astonishment
on
the
little
competitions,
factions,
and
debates
of
mankind.
When
I
read the several dates of the tombs, of
some that died yesterday, and some six hundred
years ago, I consider that great when
we shall all of us be contemporaries, and make
our appearance together.
Excerpt from Westminster Abbey by
Joseph Addison
参考译文
< br>当我瞻仰伟人的坟墓,
心中所有的嫉妒顿时烟消云散;
当
我读到伟人的悼文,
所有的非分之想顷刻消失殆尽;
当我遇见在
墓碑旁悲痛欲绝的父母亲,
我的心中
也满怀同情;
当我看到那些父母亲自己的坟墓,
我不禁感慨:
既然
我们很快都要
追随逝者的脚步,
悲伤又有何用。
当我看到国王与那些将他们废黜的人躺在一起,
当我想到那些争斗一生的智者,
或是那些通过竞争和争执将世界分裂的圣人们被
后人并排葬在一
起,
我对人类的那些微不足道的竞争、
内讧和争论感到震惊和悲
伤。当我看到一些坟墓上的日期,有的死于昨日,而有的死于六百年前,我不禁
想到,有那么一天我们都会在同一个时代同时出现在世人眼前。
10 I have as much soul as
you
I can stay to become
nothing to you? Do you think I am an automaton?--a
machine
without feelings? and can bear
to have my morsel of bread snatched from my lips,
and
my
drop
of
living
water
dashed
from
my
cup?
Do
you
think,
because
I
am
poor,
obscure,
plain,
and
little,
I
am
soulless
and
heartless?
You
think
wrong!--I
have
as
much
soul
as
you,--and
full
as
much
heart!
And
if
God
had
gifted
me
with
some
beauty and much wealth, I should have
made it as hard for you to leave me, as it is
now for me to leave you. I am not
talking to you now through the medium of custom,
conventionalities, nor even of mortal
flesh;--it is my spirit that addresses your
spirit;
just as if both has passed
through the grave, and we stood at God's feet,
equal,--as we
are!
Excerpt
from Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
参考译文
“
我告诉你我非走不可!
”
我回驳着,感情很有些冲动。
“
你难道认为,我会
留下来甘愿做一个对你来说
无足轻重的人?你以为我是一架机器
——
一架没有
感情的机器?能够容忍别人把一口面包从我嘴里抢走,
把一滴生命之水从我杯
子
里泼掉?难道就因为我一贫如洗、默默无闻、长相平庸、个子瘦小,就没有灵魂
和心肠了?你想错了!
我的心灵跟你一样丰富,
我的心胸跟你一样充实!
要是上
帝赐予我一点姿色和财富,我
会使你难以离开我,就像现在我很难离开你一样。
我不是根据习俗、
常规,
甚至也不是血肉之躯同你说话,
而是我的灵魂同你的
灵
魂在对话,
就仿佛我们两人穿过坟墓,
站在上帝脚下,
彼此平等,
本来就如此!
”
11 Frankness
You must study to be frank with the
world: frankness is the child of honesty and
courage. Say just what
you
mean to do, on every occasion. If a friend asks a
favor,
you should grant it, if it is
reasonable; if not, tell him plainly why
you cannot. You
would wrong
him and wrong yourself by equivocation of any
kind.
Never do a wrong thing to make a
friend or keep one. The man who requires you
to
do
so
is
dearly
purchased
at
a
sacrifice.
Deal
kindly
but
firmly
with
all
your
classmates. You will find it the policy
which wears best. Above all, do not appear to
others what you are not.
If
you
have
any
fault
to
find
with
any
one,
tell
him,
not
others,
of
what
you
complain. There is no
more dangerous experiment than that of undertaking
to do one
thing before a man's face and
another behind his back. We should say and do
nothing
to the injury of any one. It is
not only a matter of principle, but also the path
of peace
and honor.
By
Robert E. Lee
参考译文
在世间必须学会以真诚示人:率真乃是诚实与勇敢之子。无论在何种场合,
都应该道
出自己的真实想法。
如果朋友对你有所求,
对于合情合理之请,
应该欣
然同意;
不然,
应该明明白白地告诉朋友拒绝的理由。
任何模棱两可的话语将会
让别人误解,也会使自己蒙受冤屈。
千万不要为了结
交朋友或者挽留友情而做错一事。
对你有这种要求的人也会
付出
沉重的代价。与同学真心相对,绝不背叛。你将发现这是最有效用的准则。
总之,要以真
实面目示人。
如果发现某人身有瑕疵,
直接告诉他你的意见,
而不是诉之他人。
人前一套,
背后又是一套,
没有什么比这更加危机四伏。
任
何有损他人的言语或者事情我们
都应该避免。
这不仅是一种做人
的原则,
而且也是通向平和的人际关系、
获得他
人尊敬之道。
12
Letter to a Young Friend
Benjamin
Franklin
My dear friend
I
know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent
natural inclination you mention;
and
if
I
did,
I
think
I
should
not
communicate
it
to
you.
Marriage
is
the
proper
Remedy. It is the most natural State of
man, and therefore the state in which you will
find solid Happiness. Your Reason
against entering into it at present appears to be
not
well founded. The Circumstantial
Advantages you have in view by Postponing it, are
not only uncertain, but they are small
in comparison with the Thing itself, the being
married and settled. It is the Man and
Woman united that makes the complete human
Being, Separate she wants his force of
Body and Strength of Reason; he her Softness,
Sensibility
and
acute
Discernment.
Together
they
are
most
likely
to
succeed
in
the
World. A single man has not nearly the
value he would have in that State of Union. He
is an incomplete Animal. He resembles
the odd Half of a Pair of Scissors.
If
you get a prudent, health wife, your Industry in
your Profession, with her good
Economy,
will be a Fortune sufficient.
Your
Affectionate Friend
参考译文
给年轻朋友的一封信
本杰明
?
富兰克林
我知道没
有药物能够消除你们所提到的那种疯狂的自然倾向
;
即使我知道
,
我
想我也不该告诉你
.
婚姻是适当的药物。
它是人类最本能的状态
,
因此是一种最幸
福的生活状态。你拒绝现在
进入婚姻殿堂的理由显的不够充分
.
你认为推迟婚姻
可能存在好处
,
不仅不一定实现,而且
,
那些利益跟婚姻本身以及婚后的安定相比
起来就
微不足道了。男人和女人只有联合起来才能组成完整的人
.
女人
缺乏男人
的力量和周密的推理
,
而男人
缺乏女人的温柔、感性和敏锐的洞察力。因此当男
人和女人联合起来。
< br>就能够无往不胜。
单身和离婚生活的男男女女不可能具有婚
姻生活中的价值,是一种不完善的动物。他简直好比半把剪刀
--
孤掌难鸣。
如果你拥有一位健康而谨慎的妻子,
你的辛勤工作,
加上她的勤俭节约,
必
定会创造充足的财富。
您真挚的朋友
13 The meaning of life
Life
is never just being. It is becoming a relentless,
flowing on. Our parents live
on
through
us,
and
we
will
live
on
through
our
children.
The
institutions
we
build
endure, and we will
endure through them. The beauty we fashion cannot
be dimmed
by
death.
Our
flesh
may
perish,
our
hands
will wither,
but
that
which
they
creat
in
beauty
and goodness and truth lives on for all time to
come.
Don't spend and waste your lives
accumulating objects that will only turn to dust
and ashes. Pusue not so much the
material as the ideal, for ideals alone invest
life with
meaning and are of enduring
worth. Add love to a house and you have a home.
Add
righteousness to a city and you
have a community. Add truth to a pile of red brick
and
you have a school. Add religion to
the humblest of edifices and you have a sanctuary.
Add justice to the far-flung round of
human endeavor and you have civilization. Put
them all together, exalt them above
their present imperfections, add to them the
vision
of humankind redeemed, forever
free of need and strife and you have a future
lighted
with the radiant colors of
hope.
14 Love your life
Henry David Thoreau/
享利
.
大卫
.
梭罗
However
mean
your
life
is,
meet
it
and
live
it;
do
not
shun
it
and
call
it
hard
names.
It
is
not
so
bad
as
you
are.
It
looks
poorest
when
you
are
richest.
The
fault-finder will find faults in
paradise. Love your life, poor as it is. You may
perhaps
have some pleasant, thrilling,
glorious hours, even in a poor-house. The setting
sun is
reflected
from
the
windows
of
the
alms-house
as
brightly
as
from
the
rich
man's
abode; the snow melts before its door
as early in the spring. I do not see but a quiet
mind may live as contentedly there, and
have as cheering thoughts, as in a palace. The
town's poor seem to me often to live
the most independent lives of any. May be they
are simply great enough to receive
without misgiving. Most think that they are above
being supported by the town; but it
often happens that they are not above supporting
themselves
by
dishonest
means.
Which
should
be
more
disreputable.
Cultivate
poverty like a
garden herb, like sage. Do not trouble yourself
much to get new things,
whether
clothes
or
friends,
Turn
the
old,
return
to
them.
Things
do
not
change;
we
change. Sell your clothes and keep your
thoughts.
不论你的生活如何卑贱,
你要面对它生活
,
不要躲避它,
更别用恶言咒骂它。
它
不像你那样坏。
你最富有的时候,
倒是看似最穷。
爱找缺点的人就是到天堂里
也能找到缺点。你要爱你的生活,尽管它贫穷。甚
至在一个济贫院里,你也还有
愉快、高兴、光荣的时候。夕阳反射在济贫院的窗上,像身
在富户人家窗上一样
光亮;在那门前,积雪同在早春融化。我只看到,一个从容的人,在
哪里也像在
皇宫中一样,生活得心满意足而富有愉快的思想。城镇中的穷人,我看,倒往
往
是过着最独立不羁的生活。
也许因为他们很伟大,
所以受之无愧。
大多数人以为
他们是超然的,
p>
不靠城镇来支援他们;
可是事实上他们是往往利用了不正当的手
p>
段来对付生活,
他们是毫不超脱的,
毋宁是
不体面的。
视贫穷如园中之花而像圣
人一样耕植它吧!
不要找新的花样,
无论是新的朋友或新的衣服,
来麻烦你自己。
找旧的,回到那里去。万物不变,是我们在变。你的衣服可以卖掉,但要
保留你
的思想。
15 Build me a son
General
Douglas A. MacArthur
Build
me a son, Lord, who will be strong enough to know
when he is weak, and
brave enough to
face himself when he is afraid; one who will be
proud and unbending
in honest defeat,
and humble and gentle in victory.
啊,上帝,请请我造就这样一个儿子,他将坚强足以认识自己的弱点,勇敢
得足以面对恐惧,
在遇到正当的挫折时能够昂首而不卑躬屈膝,
在胜利时能谦逊
而不趾高气扬。
Build me a son whose wishbone will not
be where his backbone should be; a son
who will know Thee and that to know
himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.
请给我造就这样一个儿子,
他不会用
愿望代替行动,
将牢记你的教诲
――
认
识自己是认识世界的奠基石。
Lead him
I pray, not
in
the path
of
ease
and comfort,
but
under the stress
and
spur of difficulties and challenge.
Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here
let
him learn compassion for those who
fail.
我祈求,
请不要把他引
上平静安逸的道路,
而要把他置于困难和挑战的考验
和激励之下
,让他学会在暴风雨中挺立,让他学会对那些失败者富于怜悯。
ll
be
clear,
whose
goal
will
be
high;
a
son
who
will
master
himself
before
he
seeks to master other men; one who will
learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep;
one who will reach into the future, yet
never forget the past.
请给我造
就这样一个儿子,
他将心地洁净,
目标高尚;
< br>他将在征服别人之前
先征服自己,他将拥有未来,但永远不忘记过去。
And after all these
things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of
humor, so that
he may always be
serious, yet never take himself too seriously.
Give him humility, so
that he may
always remember the simplicity of true greatness,
the open mind of true
wisdom, the
meekness of true strength.
Then, I, his father, will dare to
whisper
我祈求,除了上述的一切,请赐他足够的幽
默感,这样他可以永远庄重,但
不至于盛气凌人;
赋他以谦卑的
品质,
这样他可能永远铭记在心:
真正的伟人也
要真诚率直,真正的贤人也要虚怀若谷,真正的强者也要温文尔雅。那么,作为
他父亲的我就将敢于对人低语:
“
我这一生没有白过。
”
16 The pleasant
family
The pleasant family
When in an hour they crowded into a cab
to go home
,
I
strolled idly to my club.
I was perhaps
a little lonely
,
and it was with a touch of envy that I
thought of the
pleasant
family
life
of
which
I
had
had
a
glimpse.
They
seemed
devoted
to
one
another.
They
had
little
private
jokes
of
their
own
which
,
unintelligible
to
the
outsider
,
amused them enormously. Perhaps Charles
Strickland was dull judged by a
standard that demanded above all things
verbal scintillation
;
but his intelligence was
adequate to his
surroundings
,
and
that is a passport
,
not only to reasonable
success
,
but
still more to happiness. Mrs. Strickland was a
charming woman
,
and she loved
him. I
pictured their lives
,
troubled by no untoward
adventure
,
honest
,
decent
,
and
,
by reason of those two
upstanding
,
pleasant
children
,
so
obviously destined
to carry on the
normal traditions of their race and
station
,
not
without significance.
They
would
grow
old
insensibly
;
they
would
see
their
son
and
daughter
come
to
years of reason
,
marry in due course
——
the one a pretty
girl
,
future
mother of
healthy
children
;
the
other a handsome
,
manly fellow
,
obviously a
soldier
;
and
at last
,
prosperous in their dignified
retirement
,
beloved by their
descendants
,
after
a
happy
,
not
unuseful
life
,
in
the fullness
of their age they would sink into the
grave.
——
Excerpt
from the Moon and Sixpennce by W. Somerset Maugham
一个钟头以后,
这一家挤上一辆马车回家去了,
我也一个人懒散地往俱乐部
踱去。
我也许感到有一点寂
寞,
回想我刚才瞥见的这种幸福家庭生活,
心里不无
艳羡之感。
这一家人感情似乎非常融洽。
他们说一
些外人无从理解的小笑话,
笑
得要命。
如果纯粹从善于辞令这一角度衡量一个人的智慧,
也许查理斯。
思特里
克兰德算不得聪明,
但是在他自己的那个环境里,
他的智慧还是绰绰有余的,
这
不仅是事业成功
的敲门砖,
而且是生活幸福的保障。
思特里克兰德太太是一个招
人喜爱的女人,
她很爱她的丈夫。
我想
象着这一对夫妻的生活,
不受任何灾殃祸
变的干扰,诚实、体面
,两个孩子更是规矩可爱,肯定会继承和发扬这一家人的
地位和传统。在不知不觉间,他
们俩的年纪越来越老,儿女却逐渐长大成人,到
了一定的年龄,
就会结婚成家
——
一个已经出息成美丽的姑娘,
将来还会生育活
泼健康的孩子;
另一个则是仪表堂堂的
男子汉,
显然会成为一名军人。
最后这一
对夫妻告老引退,受到子孙敬爱,过着富足、体面的晚年。他们幸福的一生并未
虚度,
直到年寿已经很高,才告别了人世。
——
摘自《月亮与六便士》威廉
?
萨默塞特
?
毛姆
17 Two views of times
Imagine that you spent your whole life
at a single house. Each day at the same
hour you entered an artificially-lit
room, undressed and took up the same position in
front of a motion picture camera. It
photographed one frame of you per day, every day
of your life. On your seventy-second
birthday, the reel of film was shown. You saw
yourself
growing
and
aging
over
seventy-two
years
in
less
than
half
an
hour
(27.4minites at sixteen frames per
second). Images of this sort, though terrifying,
are
helpful
in
suggesting
unfamiliar
but
useful
perspectives
of
time.
They
may,
for
example, symbolize the
telescoped, almost momentary
character
of the past as seen
through
the
eyes
of
an
anxious
or
disa-ffected
individual.
Or
they
may
suggest
the
remarkable brevity of our lives in the
cosmic scale of time. If the estimated age of the
cosmos
were
shorted
to
seventy-two
years,
a
human
life
would
take
about
ten
seconds.
But
look
at
time
the
other
way.
Each
day
is
a
minor
eternity
of
over
86000
seconds.
During
each
second,
the
number
of
distinct
molecular
functions
going
on
with the human body is
comparable to the mumber of seconds in the
estimated age of
the
cosmos,
A
few
seconds
are
long
enough
for
a
revolutionary
idea,
a
startling
communication, a baby's conception, a
wounding insult, a sudden death. Depending
on how we think of them, our lives can
be infinitely long or infinitely short.
18 Youth
Youth
is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it
is not a matter of rosy cheeks,
red
lips
and
supple
knees;
it
is
a
matter
of
the
will,
a
quality
of
the
imagination,
a
vigor of the emotions; it is the
freshness of the deep springs of life.
Youth
means
a
tempera-mental
predominance
of
courage
over
timidity,
of
the
appetite for adventure over the love of
ease. This
often exists
in
a man
of 60 more
than a boy of 20.
Nobody grows old merely by a number of
years. We grow old by
deserting our
ideals.
Years may wrinkle the skin, but
to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry,
fear, self-distrust bows the heart and
turns the spring back to dust.
Whether
60 or 16, there is in every human
being
?
s heart the lure of
wonder, the
unfailing childlike
appetite of what
?
s next and
the joy of the game of living.
In the
center
of
your
heart
and
my
heart
there
is
a
wireless
station:
so
long
as
it
receives
messages of beauty, hope, cheer,
courage and power from men and from the Infinite,
so long are you young.
When
the aerials
are down, and
your spirit is
covered with
snows of
cynicism
and
the
ice
of
pessimism,
then
you
are
grown
old,
even
at
20,
but
as
long
as
your
aerials are up, to
catch waves of optimism, there is hope you may die
young at 80.
青春
<
/p>
塞缪尔
?
厄尔曼
青春不是年华,而是心境;青春不是桃面、丹唇、柔膝,而是深沉的意志,
恢宏的想象,炙热的恋情;青春是生命的深泉在涌流。
青春气贯长虹,
勇锐盖过怯弱,
进取压倒苟安。
如此锐气,
二十后生而有之,
六旬男子则更多见。
年岁有加,并非垂老,理想丢弃,方堕暮年。
岁月悠悠,衰微
只及肌肤;热忱抛却,颓废必致灵魂。忧烦,惶恐,丧失自
信,定使心灵扭曲,意气如灰
。
无论年届花甲,拟或二八芳龄,心中皆有生命之欢乐,奇迹
之诱惑,孩童般
天真久盛不衰。人人心中皆有一台天线,只要你从天上人间接受美好、希
望、欢
乐、勇气和力量的信号,你就青春永驻,风华常存。
<
/p>
一旦天线下降,锐气便被冰雪覆盖,玩世不恭、自暴自弃油然而生,即使年
方二十,实已垂垂老矣;然则只要树起天线,捕捉乐观信号,你就有望在八十高
龄告别尘寰时仍觉年轻。
19
advice to a young man
Remember, my son,
you have to
work. Whether
you handle a pick or a pen, a
wheel-
barrow or a set of books, digging ditches or
editing a paper, ringing an auction
bell or writing funny things, you must
work. If you look around you will see the men
who
are
the
most
able
to
live
the
rest
of
their
days
without
work
are
the
men
who
work the hardest. Don't be afraid of
killing yourself with overwork. It is beyond your
power to do that on the sunny side of
thirty. They die sometimes, but it is because they
quit work at six in the evening, and do
not go home until two in the morning.
It
?
s the
interval
that kills,
my son. The work
gives
you
an
appetite for
your meals; it lends
solidity to your slumbers, it gives you
a perfect and grateful appreciation of a holiday.
There are
young men who do
not work, but the world is not proud of them.
It
does not know their
names, even it simply speaks of them as
“old So
-and-So
?s
boy”.
Nobody likes them; the great,
busy world doesn
?
t know that
they are there. So find
out what you
want to be and do, and take off your coat and make
a dust in the world.
The busier you
are, the less harm you will be apt to get into,
the sweeter will be your
sleep, the
brighter and happier your holidays, and the better
satisfied will the world be
with you.
By Robert Jones Burdette
p>
谨记,我的年轻人,你们必须工作.不管你是使锄头还是用笔,也不管是推
< br>手推车还是编记账簿,
也不管你是种地还是编辑报纸,
是
拍卖师亦或是作家,
都
必须有一份工作,并为之努力奋斗.如果
仔细观察周围的人,你就会发现,那些
工作最努力的人最有可能安享晚年而无须去工作.
不要害怕超负荷的工作会缩短
你的寿命,
不足三十岁的年龄,
你的承受能力远不止如此.
如果说真的有
人过早
送命,那完全是因为他们在晚上六点结束工作,却要在外流连到凌晨两点才归
p>
家.
我的年轻人,
正是晚上六点到凌晨两点
的这段时间的生活毁了他们自己.
工
作会增加你的食欲,工作会
使你安然入睡,工作将会使你心满意足地享受假日.
有的年轻人不工作,
但世界并不会因他们自豪。
它不知道他们的姓名,
甚至
简单地将他们概括为
“
老令人讨厌者的男孩
”
。没有人喜欢他们
;
伟大,繁忙的
p>
世界不知道他们在那里。因此,找出哪些你想成为和做的,脱下你的外衣,把粉
尘抛在世界上。
越是繁忙的你越是少受伤害,
甜蜜将
成为您的睡眠,
光明和幸福
着您的假期,更好地满足你的意志世
界。
20 What is
immortal
What is immortal
TO
see the golden sun and the azure sky, the
outstretched ocean, to walk upon
the
green
earth
,
and
to
be
a
lord
of
a
thousand
creatures
to
look
down
giddy
precipices or over distant flowery
vales, to see the world spread out under one's
finger
in a map, to bring the stars
near, to view the smallest insects in a
microscope, to read
history and witness
the revolutions of empires and the succession of
generations ,to
hear the glory of Sidon
and Tyre of Babylon and Susa, as of a fade
pageant, and it say
all these were and
are now nothing. to think that we exist in such a
point of time, and
in such a corner of
space, to be at once spectators and a part of the
moving scene to
watch the return of the
seasons, of spring and autumn, to hear---
The stock dove plain amid the forest
deep,
That drowsy rustles to the
sighing gale.
---to traverse desert
wildness, to listen to the dungeon's gloom, or sit
in crowded
theatres and see life itself
mocked, to feel heat and cold, pleasure and pain
right and
wrong, truth and falsehood,
to study the works of art and refine the sense of
beauty to
agony, to worship
fame and to dream of immortality, to
have read Shakespeare and
Beloit to the
same species as Sir is act Newton to be and to do
all this and then in a
moment
to
be
nothing
to
have
it
all
snatched
from
one
like
a
juggler's
ball
or
a
phantasmagoria.....
我们看到金色的太阳,
蔚蓝的天空,
广阔的海洋;
我们漫步在绿油油的大地
上,做万物的主人;我们俯视令人目眩心悸的悬崖峭壁,远眺鲜花盛开的山谷;
我们把地
图摊开,
任意指点全球;
我们把星辰移到眼前观看,
还在显微镜下观察
极其微小的生物,我们学历史,亲自目睹帝国的兴亡,时
代的交替;我们听人谈
论西顿、推罗、巴比伦和苏撒的勋业,如同听一番往昔的盛会,听
了以后,我们
说这些事确实发生过,
但现在却是过眼云烟了;<
/p>
我们思考着自己生活的时代,
生
活的地区
;我们在人生的活动舞台上既当观众,又当演员;我们观察四季更迭,
春秋代序,我们听
见了
___
野鸽在浓密的树林中哀诉,
树林随微风的叹息而低语。
___
我们横绝大漠;
我们倾听了子夜的歌声;
我们光顾灯火辉煌的厅堂,
走
下阴森森的地牢,
或者坐在万头攒动的剧院里观看生活本身受到的摩拟;
我们亲
身感受炎热和寒冷,
快乐和痛苦,
正义和邪恶,
真理和谬误;
我们钻研艺术作品,
把自己的美
感提高到极其敏锐的程度;
我们崇拜荣誉,
梦想不朽;
我们阅读莎士
比亚,
或者把自己和牛顿爵士视为
同一族类,
正当我们面临这一切,
从事这一切
< br>的时候,
自己却在一刹那之间化为虚无,
眼前的一切像是
魔术师手中的圆球,
像
是一场幻影,一下子全都消失得无影无踪
......
21 The
English character
The
English
seem
as
silent
as
the
Japanese,
yet
vainer
than
the
inhabitants
of
Siam. Upon my arrival I attributed that
reserve to modesty, which, I now find, has its
origin
in
pride.
Condescend
to
address
them
first,
and
you
are
sure
of
their
acquaintance; stoop to
flattery, and you conciliate their friendship and
esteem. They
bear hunger, cold,
fatigue, and all the miseries of life without
shrinking, danger only
calls forth
their fortitude; they even exult in calamity, but
contemp is what they cannot
bear.
An
Englishman
fears
contempt
more
than
death;
he
often
flies
to
death
as
a
refuge from its
pressure, and dies when he fancies
the world
has creased to
esteem
him.
by
Oliver Goldsmith
22 The use
of history
There are two ways of thinking of
history. There is, first, history regarded as
a
way
of
look?
ing
at
other
things,
really
the
temporal
aspect
of
anything,
from
the
universe to this nib
with which I am writing. Everything has its
history. There is the
history of the
universe, if only we knew
it
-
and we know something of
it, if we do
not know much. Nor is the
contrast so great, when you come to think of it,
between
the universe and this pen-nib.
A mere pen-nib has quite a considerable history.
There
is,
to
begin
with,
what
has
been
written
with
it,
and
that
might
be
something
quite
important. After all it was probably
only one quill-pen or a couple that wrote Hamlet.
Whatever has been written with the pen-
nib is part of its history. In addition to that
there
is
the
history
of
its
manufacture:
this
particular
nib
is
a
'Relief'
nib,
No.
314,
made
by
R.
Esterbrook
and
Co.
in
England,
who
supply
the
Midland
Bank
with
pen-nibs, from whom I got
it
—
a gift, I may say, but
behind this nib there is the whole
process
of
manufacture.
In
fact
a
pen
nib
implies
of
universe,
and
the
history
of
it
implies
its
history.
We
may
regard
this
way
of
looking
at
it
—
history
as
the
time-
aspect of all things: a pen-nib, the universe, the
fiddled before me as I write, as a
relative
conception
of
history.
There
is,
secondly,
what
we
mat
call
a
substantive
conception of
history, what we usually mean by it, history
proper as a subject of study
in itself.
Excerpt from The Use of History by
23 The study of words
the study of words
That if your vocabulary is limited your
chances of success are limited.
That
one of the easiest and quickest ways to get ahead
is by consciously building
up your
knowledge of words.
The
the
vocabulary
of
the
average
person
almost
stops
growing
by
the
middle
twenties. And that
from then on it is necessary to have an
intelligent plan if progress is
to be
made. No haphazard hit-or-miss methods will do.
The study of words is not merely
something that has to do with literature. Words
are your tools of thought. You can't
even think at all without them. Try it. If you are
planning to go downtown thin afternoon
you will find that you are saying to
yourself,
I think I will go downtown
this afternoon.
this without using
words.
Without words you could make no
decisions and from no judgments whatsoever.
A pianist may have the most beautiful
tunes in his head, but if he had only five keys
on his piano he would never get more
than a fraction of these tunes out.
The
study
of words is
not
only to
improve the
processes of
your mind.
It will
give
you
assurance;
build
your
self-confidence;
lend
color
to
your
personality;
increase
your
popularity.
Your
words
are
your
personality.
Your
vocabulary
is
you.
And your words are all
that we, your friends, have to know and judge
you by. You
have no other
medium for telling us your thoughts-for convincing
us, persuading us,
giving us orders.
24 Did you deal with
fortune fairly
Did you deal with
fortune fairly
Most people complain of
fortune, few of nature; and the kinder they think
the
latter has been to them, the more
they murmur at what they call the injustice of the
former.
Why have not I the
riches, the rank, the power, of such and such, is
the common
expostulation with fortune;
but why have not I the merit, the talents, the
wit, or the
beauty, of such and such
others, is a reproach rarely or never made to
nature.
The truth is, that nature,
seldom profuse, and seldom niggardly, has
distributed
her
gifts
more
equally
than
she
is
generally
supposed
to
have
done.
Education
and
situation
make
the
great
difference.
Culture
improves,
and
occasions
elicit,
natural
talents I make no
doubt but that there are potentially, if I may use
that pedantic word,
many
Bacons,
Lockes,
Newtons,
Caesars,
Cromwells,
and
Mariboroughs
at
the
ploughtail behind
counters, and, perhaps, even among the nobility;
but the soil must
be cultivated, and
the season favourable, for the fruit to have all
its spirit and flavour.
If sometimes
our common parent has been a little partial, and
not kept the scales
quite
even;
if
one
preponderates
too
much,
we
throw
into
the
lighter
a
due
counterpoise of vanity, which never
fails to set all right. Hence it happens, that
hardly
any one man would, without
reverse, and in every particular, change with any
other.
Though all are thus satisfied
with the dispensations of nature, how few listen
to
her voice! How to follow her as a
guide!
In vain she points out to us the
plain and
direct way to truth, vanity,
fancy, affection, and fashion assume her shape and
wind us
through fairy-ground to folly
and error.
很多人抱怨命运,
却很少有人抱怨自然
;
人们越是认为自然对他们仁爱有加,
便越是嘀咕命运对他们的
所谓不公。
人们常常对命运发出诘难:
我为何没有财富、
地位、
权力以及诸如此类的东
西;但人们却很少或从不这样责怪过自然:我为何没有长处、天赋、机智或美丽
以及诸如此类的东西。
事实是,
自
然总是将天赋公平地分配给人们,
比人们通常认为的还要不偏不
倚,很少过分地慷慨
!
也很少吝啬。人与人之间的巨大差异是由
于教育和环境使
然。文化修养改良了天赋,机遇环境诱发了天赋。我们并不怀疑在农田耕
作,在
柜台后营业,甚至在豪门贵族中间有很多潜在的培根们、洛克们、牛顿们、凯撒<
/p>
们、
克伦威尔们和马尔伯勒们,
如果允许
我用
“
潜在的
”
这个学究味浓重的词的话;
但是要使果实具有它全部的品质和风味,
< br>还必须有耕耘过的泥土,
必须有适宜的
季节。
倘若大自然有时候有那么一点偏心,
没有将天平
摆正;
倘若有一头过重,
我
们就会在轻
的一头投上一枚大小适当的虚荣的砝码,它每次都会将天平重新调
平,
< br>从不出差错。
因此就出现了这种情况:
几乎没有人会毫无
保留地和另一个人
里里外外全部对换一下。
< br>虽然对于自然的分配,
人人都感到满意;
然而肯听听她的
忠告的人却是如此
之少
!
能将她当作向
导而跟随其后的人又是如此之少
!
她徒然地为我们指出一条
p>
通向真理的笔直的坦途;而虚荣、幻想、矫情、时髦却俨然以她的面貌出现,暗
中将我们引向虚幻的歧途,走向愚笨和谬误。
Excerpt: from Upon Affectation
By Lord
Chesterfield(
切斯特菲尔德勋爵
)
25 The lesson of a tree
The Lesson of a Tree
I
should not take either the biggest or the most
picturesque tree to illustrate it.
Here
is
one
of
my
favorites
now
before
me,
a
fine
yellow
poplar,
quite
straight,
perhaps
90
feet
high,
and
four
thick
at
the
butt.
How
strong,
vital,
enduring!
how
dumbly
eloquent!
What
suggestions
of
imperturbability
and
being,
as
against
the
human trait of mere
seeming. Then the qualities, almost emotional,
palpably artistic,
heroic, of a tree;
so innocent and harmless, yet so savage. It is,
yet says nothing. How
it
rebukes
by
its
tough
and
equable
serenity
all
weathers,
this
gusty-temper
?
d
little
whiffet, man, that
runs indoors at a mite of rain or snow. Science
(or rather half-way
science) scoffs at
reminiscence of dryad and hamadryad, and of trees
speaking. But, if
they
don
?
t, they do as well as
most speaking, writing, poetry,
sermons
—
or rather they
do a great deal better. I should say
indeed that those old dryad-reminiscences are
quite
as true as any, and profounder
than most reminiscences we get. (“Cut this out,”
as the
quack mediciners say, and keep
by you.) Go and sit in a grove or woods, with one
or
more of those voiceless companions,
and read the foregoing, and think.
One
lesson
from
affiliating
a
tree
—
perhaps
the
greatest
moral
lesson
anyhow
from earth, rocks,
animals, is that same lesson of inherency, of what
is, without the
least regard to what
the looker on (the critic) supposes or says, or
whether he likes or
dislikes.
What
worse
—
what
more
general
malady
pervades
each
and
all
of
us,
our
literature,
education,
attitude
toward
each
other,
(even
toward
ourselves,)
than
a
morbid
trouble about seems, (generally temporarily seems
too,) and no trouble at all,
or hardly
any, about the sane, slow-growing, perennial, real
parts of character, books,
friendship,
marriage
—
humanity
?
s invisible foundations and hold-
together?
by Walter Whitman
26 The joys of writing
The fortunate people in the
world
—
the only
reallyfortunate people in the world,
in
my mind, are those whose work is also their
pleasure. The class is not a large one,
not nearly so large as it is often
represented to be; and authors are perhaps one of
the
most important elements in its
composition. They enjoy in this respect at least a
real
harmony of life. To my mind, to be
able to make your work your pleasure is the one
class distinction in the world worth
striving for; and I do not wonder that others are
inclined
to
envy
those
happy
human
beings
who
find
their
livelihood
in
the
gay
effusions
of
their
fancy,
to
whom
every
hour
of
labour
is
an
hour
of
enjoyment,
to
whom
repose
—
however
necessary
—
is
a
tiresome
interlude.
And
even
a
holiday
is
almost deprivation.
Whether a man writes well or ill, has much to say
or little, if he
cares
about
writing at
all,
he will
appreciate the
pleasures of
composition.
To sit at
one's
table
on
a
sunny
morning,
with
four
clear
hours
of
uninterruptible
security,
plenty of nice white paper, and a
Squeezer pen
—
that is true
happiness. The complete
absorption of
the mind upon an agreeable
occupation
—
what more is
there than that to
desire? What does it
matter what happens
outside
?
The House of Commons
may do
what it likes, and so may the
House of Lords. The heathen may rage furiously in
every
part
of
the
globe.
The
bottom
may
be
knocked
clean
out
of
the
American
market.
Consols may fall and
suffragettes may rise. Never mind, for four hours,
at any rate,
we will withdraw ourselves
from a common, ill-governed, and disorderly world,
and
with the key of fancy unlock that
cupboard where all the good things of the infinite
are put away.
by
Winston Churchill
27 Three
passions
Three
passions,
simple
but
overwhelming
strong,
have
governed
my
life:
the
longing
for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable
pity for the suffering of
mankind.
These
passions,
like
great
winds,
have
blown
me
hither
and
thither,
in
a
wayward course ,over a deep ocean of
anguish, reaching to the very verge of despair.
I have sought love, first, because it
brings ecstasy----ecstasy so great that I would
often have sacrificed all the rest of
my life for a few hours for this joy. I have
sought it,
next, because it relieves
loneliness-----that terrible loneliness in which
one shivering
consciousness
looks
over
the
rim
of
the
world
into
the
cold
unfathomable
lifeless
abyss. I have
sought it, finally, because in the union of love I
have seen, in a mystic
miniature, the
prefiguring vision of the heaven that saints and
poets have imagined.
This
is
what
I
sought,
and
though
it
might
seem
too
good
for
human
life,
this
is
what---at last---I have found.
With
equal
passion
I
have
sought
knowledge.
I
have
wished
to
understand
the
hearts
of
men.
I
have
wished
to
know
why
the
stars
shine.
And
I
have
tried
to
apprehend
the
Pythagorean
power
by
which
number
holds
sway
above
the
flux.
A
little of this, but not much, I have
achieved.
Love
and
knowledge,
so
far
as
they
were
possible,
led
upward
toward
the
heavens.
But
always
pity
brought
me
back
to
earth.
Echoes
of
cries
of
pain
reverberate in my
heart. Children in famine, victims tortured by
oppressors, helpless
old people a hated
burden to their sons, and the whole world of
loneliness, poverty,
and pain make a
mockery of what human life should be. I long to
alleviate the evil,
but I
can
?
t, and I too suffer.
This has been my life. I have found it
worth living, and would gladly live it again
if the chance were offered me.
< br>Unbearable
无法忍受的;
hither
and
thither
到处;
wayward
人性的;
anguish
p>
痛苦,苦恼;
verge
边缘;
ecstasy
入迷;
unfathomable
莫测高深的;
abyss
深渊;
miniature
缩影,
缩图;
prefigure
预示,
设想;
reverberate
反响;
oppressor<
/p>
压迫者;
mockery
嘲笑;
alleviate
减轻;
28 The Americans
Americans are a peculiar people. They
work like mad, then give away much of
what they earn. They play until they
are exhausted, and call this a vacation. They live
to think of themselves as tough-minded
business men, yet they are push-overs for any
hard
luck
story.
They
have
the
biggest
of
nearly
everything
including
government,
motor cars and
debts,
yet they are afraid of bigness.
They are always trying to chip
away at
big government, big business, big unions, big
influence. They like to think of
themselves as little people, average
men, and they would like to cut everything down
to their own size. Yet they boast of
their tall buildings, high mountains, long rivers,
big state, the best country, the best
world, the best heaven. They also have the most
traffic deaths, the most waste, the
most racketeering.
When
they meet, they are always telling each other,
off like crazy in opposite directions.
They play games as if they were fighting a war,
and fight wars as if playing a game.
They marry more, go broke more often, and make
more
money
than
any
other
people.
They
love
children,
animals,
gadgets,
mother,
work,
excitement,
noise,
nature,
television
shows,
comedy,
installment
buying,
fast
motion, spectator sports, the underdog,
the flag, Christmas, jazz, shapely women and
muscular
men,
classical
recordings,
crowds,
comics,
cigarettes,
warm
houses
in
winter
and cool ones in summer, thick beefsteaks, coffee,
ice cream, informal dress,
plenty of
running water, do-it-yourself, and a working week
trimmed to forty hours or
less.
They crowd their highways
with cars while complaining about the traffic,
flock
to movies and television while
griping about the quality and the commercials, go
to
church but don't care much for
sermons, and drink too much in the hope of
relaxing
-
only
to find themselves stimulated to even bigger
dreams.
There is of course,
no typical American. But if you added them all
together and
then divided by 226 000
000 they would look something like what this
chapter has
tried to portray.
excerpt: from Why We Behave
Like Americans
By Bradford Smith
美国人是一个与众不同的民族。
他们拼命地工作,
然
后花掉了大量辛苦赚来
的钱。他们玩得筋疲力尽,并称之为度假。他们向来把自己想成硬
心肠的商人,
可是任何不幸的故事都会使他们受骗。几乎所有最大的东西他们都有
:政府,
汽车和债务,
可他们害怕庞大。
所以他们总是要想办法除去大的政府,
大
的买卖,
大的团体,大的影响力。他们愿意把自己看成是小人物,平平常常的人,喜欢一
切都是平等的。他们吹嘘自己的高楼大厦,高山,大河,吹嘘自己是大国,是最
好的国家,是最好的世界,最好的天堂。
同时
,他们的车祸最多,浪费最多,
骗子也最多。
美国人一见面就对彼此说:
“
放轻松点,
”
然后就向相反的方向狂奔。他们做
游戏象打仗一样
,打起仗来象做游戏。跟任何人相比,他们结婚次数更多,离婚
的频率更高,赚的钱更多
。他们爱孩子,爱动物,爱小玩艺,爱母亲,爱工作,
爱激动,爱吵吵嚷嚷,爱大自然,
爱看电视节目,爱看喜剧,买东西喜欢分期付
款,喜欢快节奏,爱买票看体育比赛,同情
弱者,热爱国旗,爱过圣诞节,听爵
士乐,爱看身材好的女子和肌肉发达的男人,爱收藏
经典唱片,爱凑热闹,看连
环画,抽烟,喜欢房子冬暖夏凉,爱吃切得厚厚的牛排,爱喝
咖啡,吃冰淇淋,
穿着随便,喜欢自来水一直淌着,一切自己动手,一周工作时间限制在
40
小时
以内。
当然没有典型的美国人。但是如果你把他们加在一起,然后用
226
000
000
来除,他们
的样子就象这一章要描述的。
节选自布拉德福德所著《为什么我们的举止象美国人》
29 The English and the
Americans
The
contrasting
English
and
American
patterns
have
some
remarkable
implications,
particularly
if
we
assume
that
man,
like
other
animals,
has
a
built-in
need to shut
himself off from others from time to time. An
English student in one of
my
seminars
typified
what
happens
when
hidden
patterns
clash.
He
was
quite
obviously experiencing
strain in his relationships with Americans.
Nothing seemed to
go right and it was
quite clear from his remarks that we did not know
how to behave.
An
analysis
of
his
complaints
showed
that
a
major
source
of
irritation
was
that
no
American
seemed to be able to pick up the subtle clues that
there were times when he
didn
?t
want
his
thoughts
intruded
on.
As
he
started
it,
“I?
m
walking
around
the
apartment and it seems that whenever I
want to be alone my roommate starts talking
to me. Pretty soon he
?s
asking ?What?
s the
matter?
?
and wants to know
if I
?
m angry.
By
then I am angry and say something.”
It
took
some
time
but
finally
we
were
able
to
identify
most
of
the
contrasting
features of the
American and Britain problems that were in
conflict in this case. When
the
American wants to be alone he goes into a room and
shuts the door---he depends
on
architectural features for screening. For an
American to refuse to talk to someone
else present in the same room, to give
them the “silent treatment,” is the ultimate form
of
rejection
and
a
sure
sign
of
great
displeasure.
The
English,
on
the
other
hand,
lacking
rooms
of
their
own
since
childhood,
never
developed
the
practice
of
using
space as a refuge from others. They
have in effect internalized a set of barriers,
which
they
erect
and
which
others
are
supposed
to
recognize.
Therefore,
the
more
the
Englishman
shuts
himself
off
when
he
is
with
an
American
the
more
likely
the
American is to break in to assure
himself that all is well. Tension lasts until the
two
get to know each other. The
important point is that the spatial and
architectural needs
of each are not the
same at all.
30 Advice to
Youth
Being
told I would be expected to talk here, I inquired
what sort of talk I
ought to make. They
said it should be something suitable to youth-
something didactic,
instructive, or
something in the nature of good advice. Very well.
I have a few things
in my mind which I
have often longed to say for the instruction of
the young; for it is
in
one
?
s tender early years
that such things will best take root and be most
enduring
and
most
valuable.
First,
then.
I
will
say
to
you
my
young
friends
—
and
I
say
it
beseechingly,
urgingly
—
Always obey
your parents, when they are present. This is the
best policy in
the long run, because if
you don
?
t, they will make
you. Most parents think they know
better than you do, and you can
generally make more by humoring that superstition
than you can by acting on your own
better judgment.
Be
respectful
to
your
superiors,
if
you
have
any,
also
to
strangers,
and
sometimes to others. If a person offend
you, and you are in doubt as to whether it was
intentional or not, do not resort to
extreme measures; simply watch your chance and
hit him with a brick. That will be
sufficient. If you shall find that he had not
intended
any offense, come out frankly
and confess yourself in the wrong when you struck
him;
acknowledge it like a man and say
you didn
?
t mean to. Yes,
always avoid violence; in
this
age
of
charity
and
kindliness,
the
time
has
gone
by
for
such
things.
Leave
dynamite to the low
and unrefined.
Go to bed early, get up early- this is
wise. Some authorities say get up with
the sun; some say get up with one
thing, others with another. But a lark is really
the
best thing to get up with. It gives
you a splendid reputation with everybody to know
that you get up with the lark; and if
you get the right kind of lark, and work at him
right, you can easily train him to get
up at half past nine, every time
—
it
?
s no trick at
all.
by Mark
Twain
31 Companionship of
books
A man may usually be known by the
books he reads as well as by the company
he keeps; for there is a companionship
of books as well as of men; and one should
always live in the best company,
whether it be of books or of men.
A good book may be among the best of
friends. It is the same today that always
was, and it will never change.
It
is
the most
patient
and cheerful
of
companions.
It
does not turn
its back upon us in times of adversity or
distress. It always receives us
with
the
same
kindness;
amusing
and
instructing
us
in
youth,
and
comforting
and
consoling us in age.
Men often discover their
affinity to each other by the love they have each
for a
book -------just as two persons
sometimes discover a friend by the admiration
which
both have for a third. There is
an old proverb: “love me, love
my dog.”But there is
more
wisdom in this: “love me, love my book.” The book
is a truer and higher bond
of union.
Men can think, feel, and sympathize with each
other through their favorite
author.
They live in him together, and he in them.
“Books”, said Hazlitt,
“wind into the heart; the poet?
s verse
slides in the current
of our blood. We
read them when young, we remember them when old.
We feel that it
has happened to
ourselves. They are to be had very cheap and good.
We breathe but
the air of books.”
A
good
book
is
often
the
best
urn
of
a
life,
enshrining
the
best
that
life
could
think
out;
for
the
world
of
a
man
?
s
life
is,
for
the
most
part,
but
the
world
of
his
thoughts.
Thus
the
best
books
are
treasuries
of
good
words,
the
golden
thoughts,
which, remembered and cherished, become
our constant companions and comforters.
“They are never
alone,”
said Sir Philip
Sidney, “that are accompanied by noble
thoughts.”
The
good and true thought may in times of temptation
be as an angel of mercy
purifying and
guarding the soul. It also enshrines the germs of
action, for good words
almost always
inspire to good works.
Books
possess
an
essence
of
immortality.
They
are
by
far
the
most
lasting
products of human effort. Temples and
statues decay, but books survive. Time is of no
account
with
great
thoughts,
which
are
as
fresh
today
as
when
they
first
passed
through their
author
?
s minds ages ago.
What was then said and thought still speaks to
us as vividly as ever from the printed
page. The only effect of time has been to sift out
the bad products; for nothing in
literature can long survive but what is really
good.
Books introduce us
into the best society; they bring us into the
presence of the
greatest minds that
have ever lived. We hear what they said and did;
we see them as if
they were really
alive; we sympathize with them, enjoy with them,
grieve with them;
their experience
becomes
ours, and
we
feel as
if we were in
a measure
actors with
them in the scenes which they describe.
The
great
and
good
do
not
die
ever
in
this
world.
Embalmed
in
books,
their
spirits
walk
abroad.
The
book
is
a
living
voice.
It
is
an
intellect
to
which
one
still
listens.
Hence
we
ever
remain
under
the
influence
of
the
great
men
of
old.
The
imperial intellects of the world are as
much alive now as they were ages ago.
32 A tribute to the dog
1. The best friend a man
has in this world may turn against him and become
his
enemy.
His
son
or
daughter
whom
he
has
reared
with
loving
care
may
prove
ungrateful.
Those who are nearest
and
dearest
to
us, those whom we
trust
with
our
happiness and our good name, may become
traitors to their faith.
2. The money that a man has
he may lose. It flies away from him, perhaps
when
he
needs
it
most.
A
man's
reputation
may
be
sacrificed
in
a
moment
of
ill-considered action.
The people who are prone to fall on their knees to
do us honor
when success
is
with
us may be the first to
throw the stone of malice when failure
settles its cloud upon our heads. The
one absolute, unselfish friend a man may have in
this selfish world, the one that never
deserts him, the one that never proves ungrateful
or treacherous, is his dog.
3. A man's dog
stands by him in prosperity and in poverty, in
health and in
sickness. He will sleep
on the cold ground when the wintry winds blow and
the snow
drives fiercely, if only he
can be near his master's side. He will kiss the
hand that has
no food to offer. He will
lick the sores and wounds that come in the
encounter with
the roughness of the
world. He guards the sleep of his pauper master as
if he were a
prince.
4. When all
other friends desert, he remains. When riches take
wings and
reputation falls to pieces,
he is as constant in his love as the sun in its
journey through
the heavens. If fortune
drives the master forth, an outcast in the world,
friendless and
homeless, the faithful
dog asks no higher privilege than that of
accompanying him to
guard him against
danger, to fight against his enemies. And when the
last scene of all
comes and death takes
its master in its embrace and the body is laid
away in the cold
ground, no matter if
all other friends pursue their way, there, by his
graveside will the
noble
dog
be
found,
his
head
between
his
paws,
his
eyes
sad
but
open
in
alert
watchfulness faithful and true even to
death.
By George Graham
West
33 Three days to see
Most of us, however, take life for
granted. We know that one day we must die,
but usually we picture that day as far
in the future. When we are in buoyant health,
death
is
all
but
unimaginable.
We
seldom
think
of
it.
The
days
stretch
out
in
an
endless
vista.
So
we
go
about
our
petty
tasks,
hardly
aware
of
our
listless
attitude
toward life.
…
I have often
thought it would be a blessing if each human being
were stricken
blind and deaf for a few
days at some time during his early adult life.
Darkness would
make him more
appreciative of sight; silence would tech him the
joys of sound.
Now
and
them
I
have
tested
my
seeing
friends
to
discover
what
they
see.
Recently
I
was
visited
by
a
very
good
friends
who
had
just
returned
from
a
long
walk in the woods, and I asked her what
she had observed..
she replied. I might
have been incredulous had I not been accustomed to
such reposes,
for long ago I became
convinced that the seeing see little.
How was it possible, I asked myself, to
walk for an hour through the woods and
see nothing worthy of note? I who
cannot see find hundreds of things to interest me
through mere touch. I feel the delicate
symmetry of a leaf. I pass my hands lovingly
about the smooth skin of a silver
birch, or the rough, shaggy bark of a pine. In the
spring
I
touch
the
branches
of
trees
hopefully
in
search
of
a
bud
the
first
sign
of
awakening
Nature after
her winter's sleep.
I
feel
the delightful, velvety
texture of a
flower,
and
discover
its
remarkable
convolutions;
and
something
of
the
miracle
of
Nature is revealed to me. Occasionally,
if I am very fortunate, I place my hand gently
on a small tree and feel the happy
quiver of a bird in full song. I am delighted to
have
the cool waters of a brook rush
thought my open finger. To me a lush carpet of
pine
needles or spongy grass is more
welcome than the most luxurious Persian rug. To me
the page ant of seasons is a thrilling
and unending drama, the action of which streams
through my finger tips.
Excerpt from Story of My Life Helen
Keller
34 Golden Fruit
Of the fruits of the year I give my
vote to the orange.
In
the
first
place
it
is
a
perennial----if
not
in
actual
fact,
at
least
in
the
greengrocer
?
s
shop.
On
the
days
when
dessert
is
a
name
given
to
a
handful
of
chocolates
and
a
little
preserved
ginger,
when
macedoine
de
fruits
is
the
title
bestowed on two prunes
and a piece of rhubarb, then the orange, however
sour, comes
nobly to the rescue; and on
those other days of plenty when cherries and
strawberries
and
raspberries,
and
gooseberries
riot
together
upon
the
table,
the
orange,
sweeter
than ever, is still there to hold its
own. Bread and butter, beef and mutton, eggs and
bacon, are not more necessary to an
order existence than the orange.
It is well that the commonest fruit
should be also the best. Of the virtures of the
orange
I
have
not
room
fully
to
speak.
It
has
properties
of
health
giving,
as
that
it
cures
influenza and establishes the complexion. It is
clean, for whoever handles it on
its
way to your table, but handles its outer covering,
its top coat, which is left in the
hall. It is round, and forms an
excellent substitute with the young for a cricket
ball.
The pip can be flicked at your
enemies, and quite a small piece of peel makes a
slide
for an old gentleman.
But all this would count nothing had
not the orange such delightful qualities of
the taste. I dare not let myself go
upon this subject. I am a slave to its sweetness.
I
grudge every marriage in that it
means a fresh supply of orange blossom, the
promise
of so much golden fruit cut
short. However, the world must go on.
…
Yet
with
the
orange
we
do
live
year
in
and
year
out.
That
speaks
well
for
the
orange. The fact is that
there is an honesty about the orange which appeals
to all of us.
If it is
going
to
be bad---for the best
of
us
are bad sometimes---it begins to
be bad
from the outside, not
from the inside. How many a pear which presents a
blooming
face
to
the
world
is
rotten
at
the
core.
How
many
an
innocent-looking
apple
is
harboring
a
worm
in
the
bud.
But
the
orange
had
no
secret
faults.
Its
outside
is
a
mirror of its inside, and if you are
quick you can tell the shopman so before he slips
it
into the bag.
35 The English humor
Fun
seems to be the possession of the English race.
Fun is John Bulll's idea of
humor
,
and
there
is
no
intellectual
judgment
in
fun.
Everybody
understands
it
be-cause it is practical. More than
that
,
it unites all classes
and sweetens even political
life. To
study the elemental form of English
humor
,
you must look to the
school-boy.
It begins with the
practical joke
,
and unless
there is something of his nature about
it
,
it is never humor to an
Englishman. In an English
household
,
fun is going all
the time.
The
entire
house
resounds
with
it.
The
father
comes
home
and
the
whole
family
contribute to the amu
sement
;
puns
,
humorous uses of words
,
little things that are
meaningless
nonsense
,
if you
like
,
fly
round
,
and everyone enjoys
them thoroughly
for just what they are.
The Scotch are devoid of this
trait
,
and the Americans seem
to
be
,
too.
If
I
had
the
power
to
give
humor
to
the
nations
I
would
not
give
them
drollery
,
for that
is impractical
;
I would not
give them wit
,
for that is
aristocratic
,
and many minds
cannot grasp it
;
but I would
be contented to deal out
fun
,
which has
no
intellectual
element
,
no
subtlety
,
belongs
to
old
and
young
,
educated
and
uneducated
alike
,
and is the natural
form of the humor of the Englishman.
Let me tell you
why the Englishman speaks only one language. He
believes
with the strongest conviction
that his own tongue is the one that all people
ought to
speak and will come in time to
speak
,
so what is the use of
learning any other
?
He
believes
,
too
,
that he is appointed by Providence to
be a governor of all the rest of the
human race. From our Scottish
standpoint we can never see an Englishman without
thinking
that
there
is
oozing
from
every
pore
of
his
body
the
conviction
that
he
belongs
to a governing race. It has not been his de-sire
that large portions of the world
should
be under his care
,
but as
they have been thrust upon him in the proceedings
of
a wise
Providence
,
he
must discharge his
duty.
This
theory hasn't
endeared
him to
others of his
kind
,
but that isn't a matter
that concerns him. He doesn't learn any other
language
because
he
knows
that
he
could
speak
it
only
so
imperfectly
that
other
people would laugh at
him
,
and it would never do
that a person of his importance in
the
scheme of the universe should be made the object
of ridicule.
Excerpt: from
SCOTTISH HUMOUR
By John
Watson
36 The rewards of
living a solitary life
The other day an
acquaintance of mine, a gregarious and charming
man, told me
he had found himself
unexpectedly alone in
New York for an
hour or two between
appointments. He
went to the Whitney and spent the
solitary
bliss.
For
him
it
proved
to
be
a
shock
nearly
as
great
as
falling
in
love
to
discover that he could
enjoy himself so much alone.
What
had
he
been
afraid
of,
I
asked
myself?
That,
suddenly
alone,
he
would
discover that he bored himself, or that
there was, quite simply, no self there to meet?
But having taken the plunge, he is now
on the brink of adventure; he is about to be
launched into his own inner space to
the astronaut. His every perception will come to
him with a new freshness and, for a
time, seem startlingly original.
For
anyone
who
can
see
things
for
himself
with
a
naked
eye
becomes,
for
a
moment
or
two,
something
of
a
genius.
With
another
human
being
present
vision
becomes double
vision, inevitably. We are busy wondering, what
does my companion
see
or
think
of
this,
and
what
do
I
think
of
it?
The
original
impact
gets
lost,
or
diffused.
I
heard
with
you
was
more
than
music.
Exactly.
And
therefore
music
itself
can
only
be
heard
alone.
Solitude
is
the
salt
of
personhood.
It
brings
out
the
authentic flavor of every experience.
cool house, abiding single
there.
Loneliness
is
most
acutely
felt
with
other
people,
for
with
others,
even
with
a
lover sometimes, we suffer
from our differences of taste, temperament, mood.
Human
intercourse often demands that we
soften the edge of perception, or withdraw at the
very instant of personal truth for fear
of hurting, or of being inappropriately present,
which
is
to
say
naked,
in
a
social
situation.
Alone
we
can
afford
to
be
wholly
whatever we are, and to feel whatever
we feel absolutely. That is a great luxury!
For me the most interesting thing about
a solitary life, and mine has been that for
the last twenty years, is that it
becomes increasingly rewarding. When I can wake up
and watch the sun
rise over
the ocean, as
I do most days, and know
that
I have an
entire day
ahead, uninterrupted, in which to write a few
pages, take a walk with my
dog,
lie
down
in
the
afternoon
for
a
long
think
(why
does
one
think
better
in
a
horizontal position?),
read and listen to music, I am flooded with
happiness.
I
?
m
lonely
only
when
I
am
overtired,
when
I
have
worked
too
long
without
a
break,
when from the time being I feel empty and need
filling up. And I am lonely
sometimes
when
I
come
back
home
after
a
lecture
trip,
when
I
have
seen
a
lot
of
people and talked a lot,
and am full to the brim with experience that needs
to be sorted
out.
Then for a little while the house feels
huge and empty, and I wonder where my
self is hiding. It has to be recaptured
slowly by watering the plants and perhaps, by
looking again at each one as though it
were a person.
It takes a
while, as I watch the surf blowing up in fountains
at the end of the field,
but the moment
comes when the world falls away, and the self
emerges again from the
deep
unconscious, bringing back all I have recently
experienced to be explored and
slowly
understood, when I can converse again with my
hidden powers, and so grow,
and so be
renewed, till death do us part.
37 Why I want a life
I want
a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I
want a wife who will
keep my house
clean. A wife who will pick up after my children,
a wife who will pick
up after me. I
want a wife who will keep my clothes clean,
ironed, mended, replaced
when need be,
and who will see to it that my personal things are
kept in their proper
place so that I
can find what I need the minute I need it. I want
a wife who cooks the
meals,
a
wife
who
is
a
good
cook.
I
want
a
wife
who
will
plan
the
menus,
do
the
necessary grocery shopping, prepare the
meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the
cleaning up while I do my studying. I
want a wife who will care for me when I am
sick and sympathize with my pain and
loss of time from school. I want a wife to go
along when our family takes a vacation
so that somesone can aomtinue to care for me
and my children when I need a rest and
change of scene.
I want a
wife who will not bother me with rambling
complaints about a wife's
duties. But I
want a wife who will listen to me when I feel the
need to explain a rather
difficult
point I have come across in my course of studies.
And I want a wife who type
my papers
for me when I have written them.
I want
a wife who will take care of the details of my
social life. When my wife
and I are
invited out by my friends, I want a wife who will
take care of the babysitting
arrangements. When I meet people at
school that I like who will have the house clean,
will prepare a special meal, serve it
to me and my friends, and not
interrupt
when I
talk
about
things
that
interest
me
and
my
friends.
I
want
a
wife
who
will
have
arranged that the children are fed and
ready for bed before my guests arrive so that the
children do not bother us. I want a
wife who takes care of the needs of my guests so
that
they
feel
comfortable,
who
makes
sure
that
they
have
an
sahtray,
that
they
are
offered
a
second
helping
of
the
food,
that
their
wine
glasses
are
replenished
when
necessary, that their coffee is served
to them as they like it. And I want
a
wife who
knows that sometimes I need a
night out by myself.
I
want
a
wife
who
is
sensitive
to
my
*ual
needs,
a
wife
who
makes
love
passionately and eagerly when I feel
like it, a wife who makes sure that I am
satisfied.
And, of course, I want a
wife who will not demand *ual attention when I am
not in the
mood for it. I want a wife
who assumes the complete responsibility for birth
control,
because I do not want more
children. I want a wife who will remain *ually
faithful to
me so that I do not have to
clutter up my intellectual life with jealousies.
And I want a
wife
who
understands
that
my
*ual
needs
may
entail
more
than
strict
adherence
to
monogamy. I must, after all, be able to
relate to people as fully as possible.
If,
by
chance,
I
find
another
person
more
suitable
as
a
wife
than
the
wife
I
already
have, I have the liberty to replace my present
wife with another one. Naturally,
I
will expect a fresh, new life; my wife will take
the children and be solely responsible
for them so that I am left free.
When I am through with
school and have a job, I want my wife to quit
working
and
remain
at
home
so
that
my
wife
can
more
fully
and
completely
take
care
of
a
wife's duties.
My God, who wouldn't want a wife?
38 Of studies
(Francis Bacon)
Studies
serve for delight, for ornament, and for ability.
Their chief use for delight,
is in
privateness and retiring; for ornament, is in
discourse; and for ability, is in the
judgment and disposition of business.
For
expert and execute, and perhaps
judge
of particulars, one by
one;
but
the general
counsels, and the plots and marshalling of
affairs, come best form those
that are
learned. To spend too much time in studies is
sloth; to use them too much for
ornament, is affectation; to make
judgment wholly by their rules, is the
humor of a
scholar.
They
perfect
nature,
and
are
perfected
by
experience:
for
natural
abilities
are like natural
plants, that need proyning by study; and studies
themselves do give
forth directions too
much at large, except they be bounded in by
experience.
Crafty
men
contemn
studies,
simple
men
admire
them,
and
wise
men
use
them; for
they teach not their own use; but that is a wisdom
without them, and above
them, won by
observation.
Read not to contradict and confute; nor
to believe and take for granted; nor
to
find talk and discourse; but to weigh and
consider.
Some
books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed,
and some few to be
chewed and digested;
that is, some books are to be read only in parts;
others to be read,
but not curiously;
and some few to be read wholly, and with diligence
and attention.
Some books also may be
read by deputy, and extracts
made of
them by others;
but
that
would be only in the less important arguments, and
the meaner sort of books; else
distilled books are, like common
distilled waters, flashy things.
Reading market a full
man
;
conference a
ready man; and writing an exact
man.
And therefore, if a man write
little
,
he had
need have a great memory; if he
confer
little, he had need have a present wit; and if he
read little, he had need have
much
cunning, to seem to know that he doth not.
Histories
make
men
wise;
poets
witty;
the
mathematics
subtile;
natural
philosophy
deep;
moral
grave;
logic
and
rhetoric
able
to
contend.
Abeunt
studia
in
morse.
Nay there is no
stand or impendiment in the wit, but may be
wrought out by
fit studies:
like as diseases of the body may have
appropriate exercises.
Bowling is
good for the stone and reins; shooting
for the lungs and breast; gentle walking for the
stomach;
riding for the
head;
and the like. So if a
man's wit
be wandering, let
him
study the mathematics;
for in demonstrations, if his wit be called away
never so little,
he must begin again.
If his wit be not apt to distinguish or
find differences, let him
study the
schoolmen; for they are cymini sectores. If he be
not apt to beat over matters,
and to
call up one thing to prove and illustrate another,
let him study the lawyers'cases.
So
every defectof the mind may have a special
receipt.
39 The tragedy of
old age
What is it like to be old in
the United States? What
will our own
lives be like
when
we
are
old?
Americans
find
it
difficult
to
think
about
old
age
until
they
are
propelled
into
the
midst
of
it
by
their
own
aging
and
that
of
relatives
and
friends.
Aging is the
neglected stepchild of the human life cycle.
Though we have begun to
examine the
socially taboo subjects of dying and death, we
have leaped over that long
period of
time preceding death known as old age. In truth,
it is easier to manage the
problems of
death than the problem of living as an old person.
Death is a dramatic,
one-time
crisis
while
old
age
is
a
day-by-day
and
year-by-year
confrontation
with
powerful
external
forces,
a
bittersweet
coming
to
terms
with
one's
own
personality
and one's life.
Old age is neither inherently miserable
nor inherently sublime-like every stage of
life
it
has
problems,
joys,
fears
and
potentials.
The
process
of
aging
and
eventual
death must ultimately be accepted as
the natural progression of the life cycle, the old
completing their prescribed life spans
and making way for the
young.
Much that is
unique in old
age in fact derives from the reality of aging and
the imminence of death.
The old must
clarify and find use for what they have attained
in a lifetime of learning
and adapting
they must conserve strength and resources where
necessary and adjust
creatively to
those changes and losses that occur as part of the
aging experience. The
elderly have the
potential for qualities of human reflection and
observation which can
only come from
having lived an entire life span. There is a
lifetime accumulation of
personality
and experience which is available to be used and
enjoyed.
But
what
are
an
individual
?s
chances
for
a
“good
”
old
age
in
America,
with
satisfying final years
and a dignified death ?Unfortunately , none too
good. For many
elderly
Americans
old
age
is
a
tragedy,
a
period
of
quiet
despair,
deprivation
,
desolation and muted rage. This can be
a consequence of the kind of life a person has
led in younger years and the problems
in his or her relationships with others. There
are also
inevitable personal
and physical
losses to be
sustained, some of
which can
become
overwhelming
and
unbearable.
All
of
this
is
the
individual
factor,
the
existential
element.
But
old
age
is
frequently
a
tragedy
even
when
the
early
years
have been fulfilling and people
seemingly have everything going for them. Herein
lies
what I consider to be the genuine
tragedy of old age in
America
—
we have shaped a
society which is extremely harsh to
live in when one is old. The tragedy of old age is
not the fact that each of us must grow
old and die but that the process of doing so has
been made unnecessarily and at times
excruciatingly painful, humiliating, debilitating
and
isolating
through
insensitivity,
ignorance
and
poverty.
The
potentials
for
satisfactions and even triumphs in late
life are real and vastly under explored. For the
most part the elderly topsage to exist
in an inhospitable world.
41 The lowest animal
Man
is
the
only
animal
that
robs
his
helpless
fellow
of
his
country-takes
possession of
it and drives him out of it or destroys him. Man
has done this in all the
ages. There is
not an acre of ground on the globe that is in
possession of its rightful
owner, or
that has not been taken away from owner after
owner, cycle after cycle, by
force and
bloodshed.
Man is the only Slave. And he is the
only animal who enslaves. He has always been a
slave in
one
form
or
another,
and
has
always
held
other
slaves
in
bondage
under
him
in
one
way
or
another. In our day he is
always some man's slave for wages, and does the
man's work; and this
slave has other
slaves under him for minor wages, and they do his
work. The higher animals are
the only
ones who exclusively do their own work and provide
their own living.
Man
is the only Patriot. He sets himself apart in his
own country, under his own
flag, and
sneers at the other nations, and keeps
multitudinous uniformed assassins on
hand at heavy expense to grab slices of
other people's countries, and keep them from
grabbing slices of his. And in the
intervals between campaigns he washes the blood
off his hands and works for
Man is the Religious Animal. He is the
only Religious Animal. He is the only
animal that has the True Religion-
several of them. He is the only animal that loves
his
neighbor as himself, and cuts his
throat if his theology isn't straight. He has made
a
graveyard
of
the
globe
in
trying
his
honest
best
to
smooth
his
brother's
path
to
happiness
and heaven. He was at it in the time of Caesars,
he was at it in Mahomet's
time,
he
was
at
it
in
the
time
of
the
Inquisition,
he
was
at
it
in
France
a
couple
of
centuries, he was at it in England in
Mary's day, he has been at it ever since he first
saw the light, he is at it today in
Crete-as per the telegrams quoted above*-he will
be
at it somewhere else tomorrow. The
higher animals have no religion. And we are told
that
they
are
going
to
be
left
out,
in
the
Hereafter.
I
wonder
why?
It
seems
questionable taste.
Man is
the
Reasoning
Animal.
Such is
the claim.
I think it is
open to
dispute.
Indeed, my experiments have proven to
me that he is the Unreasoning Animal. Note
his
history, as sketched
above.
It seems
plain to
me that whatever he
is
he is
not
a
reasoning animal.
His record
is
the fantastic record of a maniac.
I consider that the
strongest count against his
intelligence is the fact that with that record
back of him he
blandly sets himself up
as the head animal of the lot: whereas by his own
standards he
is the bottom one.
In truth, man is incurably
foolish. Simple things which the other animals
easily
learn, he is incapable of
learning. Among my experiments was this. In an
hour I taught
a cat and a dog to be
friends. I put them in a cage. In another hour I
taught them to be
friends with
a rabbit. In the course of two days I
was able to add a fox, a goose, a
squirrel
and
some
doves.
Finally
a
monkey.
They
lived
together
in
peace;
even
affectionately.
By Mark Twain
42
The art of living
The art of living is
to know when to hold fast and when to let go. For
life is a
paradox: it enjoins us to
cling to its many gifts
even while it
ordains their eventual
relinquishment.
The rabbis of old put it this way:
fist
clenched, but when he dies, his hand is
open.
Surely we ought to hold fast to
life, for it is wondrous, and full of a beauty
that
breaks through every pore of God'
s own earth. We know that this is so, but all too
often we recognize this truth only in
our backward glance when we remember what
was and then suddenly realize that it
is no more.
We remember a beauty that
faded, a love that waned. But we remember with far
greater pain that we did not see that
beauty when it flowered, that we failed to respond
with love when it was tendered.
A recent experience re-taught me this
truth. I was hospitalized following a severe
heart
attack
and
had
been
in
intensive
care
for
several
days.
It
was
not
a
pleasant
place.
One morning, I had to have some
additional tests. The required machines were
located in a building at the opposite
end of the hospital, so I had to be wheeled across
the courtyard on a gurney.
As
we
emerged
from
our
unit,
the
sunlight
hit
me.
That's
all
there
was
to
my
experience. Just the
light of the sun. And yet how beautiful it was
-- how warming,
how
sparking, how brilliant!
I looked to
see whether anyone else relished the
sun's
golden
glow,
but
everyone
was
hurrying
to
and
fro,
most
with
eyes
fixed
on
the
ground. Then I
remembered how often I, too, had been indifferent
to the grandeur of
each day, too
preoccupied with petty and sometimes even mean
concerns to respond
from that
experience is really as commonplace as was the
experience itself: life's gifts
are
precious -- but we are too heedless of them.
Here then is the first pole of life' s
paradoxical demands on us : Never too busy
for the wonder and the
awe
of life. Be reverent before each dawning day.
Embrace
each hour. Seize each golden
minute.
Hold fast to life...but not so
fast that you cannot let go. This is the second
side of
life' s coin, the opposite pole
of its paradox: we must accept our losses, and
learn how
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