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The All-American Slurp
by Lensey Namioka
People
in
different
places
have
different
lifestyles
and
eating
habits.
Ignorance
of
the
differences
may
sometimes
lead
to
cultural
shocks.
Read
the
following
story
and
see
how
the
author
feels
towards
her
own
culture and that of the West even over
trivial matters such as table manners.
The
first time our
family was
invited out
to dinner
in America, we
disgraced ourselves while eating
celery.
We
had
immigrated
to
this
country
from
China,
and
during
our
early
days
here
we
had
a
hard
time
with
American table manners.
In
China
we
never
ate
celery
raw,
or
any
other
kind
of
vegetable
raw.
We
always
had
to
disinfect
the
vegetables
in boiling
water
first.
When
we
were presented
with our
first relish tray, the raw
celery caught
us
unprepared.
We had been
invited to
dinner by our neighbors, the Gleasons.
After arriving at the
house, we shook
hands
with our hosts and
packed ourselves
into a sofa.
As our
family of
four sat stiffly
in a
row,
my
younger
brother
and I stole glances at our
parents for a clue as to what to do next.
Mrs. Gleason
offered the relish tray to mother. The tray looked
pretty, with its tiny red radishes, curly sticks
of carrots, and
long,
slender stalks of pale
green celery.
try
some of
the celery, Mrs.
Lin,
from a local
farmer, and it's sweet.
Mother picked up one of the green
stalks, and Father followed suit.
Then
I picked up a stalk, and my brother
did
too. So there we sat, each with a stalk of celery
in our right hand.
Mrs. Gleason kept smiling.
It's my own recipe: sour cream
and onion flakes, with a dash of
Tabasco sauce.
Most Chinese don't care
for
dairy products, and
in those days I
wasn't even ready to drink
fresh
milk.
Sour
cream
sounded perfectly revolting.
Our
family shook our head in unison.
Mrs.
Gleason
went
off
with
the
relish
tray
to
the
other
guests,
and
we
carefully
watched
to
see
what
they
did.
Everyone seems to eat the raw
vegetables quiet happily.
Mother took a bite of her celery.
Crunch.
she whispered.
Father took a bite of his celery.
Crunch.
I took a
bite, and then
my brother.
Crunch, crunch.
It was
more than
good;
it was delicious.
Raw
celery
has a slight a sparkle, a zingy
taste that you don't get in cooked celery.
When Mrs. Gleason came around with
the relish tray, we each took another
stalk of celery, except my brother.
He
took two.
There was
only one problem: long strings ran through the
length of the stalk, and they got caught in my
teeth.
When I help my mother in the
kitchen, I always pull the strings out before
slicing celery.
I
pulled
the
strings
out
of
my
stalk.
Z-z-
zip
,
z-z-zip
.
My
brother
followed
suit.
Z-z-zip
,
z-z-
zip
,
z-z-zip
.
To my left, my parents were taking care
of their own stalks.
Z-z-
zip
,
z-z-zip
,
z-z-zip
.
Suddenly I realized that there was dead
silence except
for our
zipping.
Looking
up, I saw that
the eyes of
everyone in the room were on our
family.
Mr. and Mrs. Gleason, their
daughter Meg, who was my friend, and
their neighbors the Badels
–
they were all staring at
us as we busily pulled the strings of our celery.
That wasn't the end of
it.
Mrs. Gleason announced that dinner
was served and invited us to the dining table.
It was
lavishly covered
with platters of
food, but
we couldn't see any
chairs
around
the table. So
we
helpfully
carried over some
dining chairs and sat down.
All the
other guests just stood there.
Mrs. Gleason bent down and whispered to
us,
is
a buffet dinner.
You
help
yourselves to some
food
and eat it in the
living room.
Our
family beat a
retreat back
to
the sofa as
if chased by
enemy
soldiers.
For the
rest of
the evening,
too
mortified to go back to the dining
table, I nursed a bit of potato salad on my
plate.
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Next day Meg and
I
got on the school bus
together.
I wasn't
sure
how
she
would
feel about
me after the
spectacle our
family
made at the party.
But she was just the same as
usual, and
the only
reference she
made
to
the party was,
never
tries
to
figure
out
how
much
food
to
prepare.
She
just
puts
everything
on
the
table
and
hopes
for
the
best.
I began
to
relax.
The
Gleasons' dinner party
wasn't so different
from a
Chinese
meal after all.
My
mother
also puts everything
on the table and hopes for the best.
Meg
was the
first
friend I had
made after we came to America. I
eventually
got acquainted with a
few other
kids in school,
but Meg was still the only real friend I had.
My
brother
didn't
have
any
problems
making
friends.
He
spent
all
his
time
with
some
boys
who
were
teaching him baseball,
and in no time he could speak English much faster
than I could
-
not better, but
faster.
I
worried
more
about
making
mistakes,
and
I
spoke
carefully,
making
sure
I
could
say
everything
right
before
opening
my
mouth.
At
least
I
had
a
better
accent
than
my
parents,
who
never
really
got
rid
of
their
Chinese accent, even
years later. My parents had both studied English
in school before coming to America, but
what they had studied was mostly
written English, not spoken.
Father's approach to
English
was a scientific
one. Since Chinese
verbs
have
no tense,
he
was
fascinated by
the
way
English
verbs
changed
form
according
to
whether
they
were
in
the
present,
past
imperfect,
perfect,
pluperfect, future,
or future perfect tense. He was always making
diagrams of verbs and their inflections, and he
looked for opportunities to show off
his mastery of the pluperfect and future perfect
tenses, his two favorites.
shall have
finished my project by Monday,
Mother's
approach
was
to
memorize
lists
of
polite
phrases
that
would
cover
all
possible
social
situations.
She
was
constantly
muttering
things
like
fine,
thank
you.
And
you?
Once
she
accidentally
stepped
on
someone's
foot, and
hurriedly blurted,
that's quite all
right!
Embarrassed by
her
slip, she
resolved to do
better next time. So when someone
stepped on her foot, she cried,
In our own different ways , we made
progress in learning English.
The
day
came
when
my
parents
announced
that
they
wanted
to
give
a
dinner
party.
We
had
invited
Chinese
friends
to eat with
us before, but this dinner was going
to be different. In addition, we were
going to
invite the
Gleasons.
That was a
relief. Mother was a
good
cook, but I
wasn't sure
if people who ate
sour cream
would also eat
chicken
gizzards stewed in soy sauce.
Mother decided
not to take a chance with chicken
gizzards.
Since we
had western
guests, she set
the table
with large dinner plates,
which we never used in Chinese meals. In fact we
didn't use individual plates at all, but
picked up
food
from
the
platters
in the
middle of the table and brought
it directly to our rice bowls.
Following
the practice of Chinese-
American restaurants, Mother also placed large
serving spoons on the platters.
The
dinner
started
well.
Mrs.
Gleason
exclaimed
at
the
beautifully
arranged
dishes
of
food:
the
colorful
candied
fruit
in
the sweet-and-sour pork dish, the
noodle-thin shreds of
chicken
meat
stir-fried with
tiny peas,
and the glistening pink prawns in a
ginger sauce.
At
first I
was
too busy enjoying
my
food to
notice
how the
guests were doing.
But
soon I remembered
my
duties. Sometimes guests
were too polite to help themselves and you had to
serve them with more food.
I glanced at Meg, to see if she needed
more food, and my eyes nearly popped out at the
sight of her plate. It
was piled with
food:
the sweet-and-sour
meat pushed right against
the
chicken shreds, and the
chicken
sauce
ran
into
the prawns.
She
had been
taking
food
from
a second dish before she
finished
eating
her
helping from
the first!
Horrified, I turned
to
look at Mr. Gleason. He
was
chasing
a pea around
his
plate. Several times
he
got
it to
the edge, but when
he tried to pick
it
up with his chopsticks,
it
rolled back toward the center of the plate
again.
Finally he put down
his chopsticks and picked up the pea with his
fingers. He really did! A grown man!
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