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I do not
wish to treat friendships daintily, but with
roughest courage. When
they
are
real,
they
are
not
glass
threads
or
frostwork,
but
the
solidest
thing
we
know.
For now, after so many ages of experience, what do
we know of nature, or
of ourselves? Not
one step has man taken toward the solution of the
problem of
his destiny. In one
condemnation of folly stand the whole universe of
men. But
the
sweet
sincerity
of
joy
and
peace,
which
I
draw
from
this
alliance
with
my
brother’s
soul, is the nut itself, whe
reof all
nature and all thought is but the husk
and shell. Happy is the house that
shelters a friend! It might well be built, like a
festal
bower
or
arch,
to
entertain
him
a
single
day.
Happier,
if
he
know
the
solemnity of that relation, and honor
its law! He who offers himself a candidate
for
that
covenant
comes
up,
like
an
Olympian,
to
the
great
games,
where
the
first-
born
of
the
world
are
the
competitors.
He
proposes
himself
for
contests
where Time, Want, Danger, are in the
lists, and he alone is victor
who has
truth
enough
in
his
constitution
to
preserve
the
delicacy
of
his
beauty
from
the
wear
and
tear
of
all
these.
The
gifts
of
fortune
may
be
present
or
absent,
but
all
the
speed in that contest
depends on intrinsic nobleness, and the contempt
of trifles.
There
are
two
elements
that
go
to
the
composition
of
friendship,
each
so
sovereign that I can
detect no superiority in either, no reason why
either should be
first
named.
One
is
Truth.
A
friend
is
a
person
with
whom
I
may
be
sincere.
Before him I may think aloud. I am
arrived at last in the presence of a man so real
and
equal,
that
I
may
drop
even
those
undermost
garments
of
dissimulation,
courtesy, and second thought, which men
never put off, and may deal with him
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with the simplicity and wholeness with
which one chemical atom meets another.
Sincerity
is
the
luxury
allowed,
like
diadems
and
authority,
only
to
the
highest
rank,
that
being
permitted
to
speak
truth,
as
having
none
above
it
to
court
or
conform
unto.
Every
man
alone
is
sincere.
At
the
entrance
of
a
second
person,
hypocrisy
begins.
We
parry
and
fend
the
approach
of
our
fellow-man
by
compliments,
by
gossip,
by
amusements,
by
affairs.
We
cover
up
our
thought
from
him
under
a
hundred
folds.
I
knew
a
man,
who,
under
a
certain
religious
frenzy,
cast
off
this
drapery,
and,
omitting
all
compliment
and
commonplace,
spoke
to
the
conscience
of
every
person
he
encountered,
and
that
with
great
insight and beauty. At
first he was resisted, and all men agreed he was
mad. But
persisting,
as
indeed
he
could
not
help
doing,
for
some
time
in
this
course,
he
attained
to
the
advantage
of
bringing
every
man
of
his
acquaintance
into
true
relations
with
him.
No
man
would
think
of
speaking
falsely
with
him,
or
of
putting him
off with any
chat of markets or
reading-rooms. But every man was
constrained by so much sincerity to the
like plaindealing, and what love of nature,
what poetry, what symbol of truth he
had, he did certainly show him. But to most
of us society shows not its face and
eye, but its side and its back. To stand in true
relations with men in a false age is
worth a fit of insanity, is it not? We can seldom
go
erect.
Almost
every
man
we
meet
requires
some
civility,--requires
to
be
humored; he
has some fame, some talent, some whim of religion
or philanthropy
in
his
head
that
is
not
to
be
questioned,
and
which
spoils
all
conversation with
him.
But
a
friend
is
a
sane
man
who
exercises
not
my
ingenuity,
but
me.
My
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