-
?
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.1
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
12:51 how are u
doing.(
任何时候见到任何人都可以说的一句话
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
12:51 i am fine, how r u.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
12:53 fine too, actually you are the first one who
come up with a response online
from ove
rseas(
很多人不知道该怎样用英语表述
< br>你是我在网上遇见的第一个外国朋友
这一句话。
), so
what's your
time(
你们那里的时间
) now, here in
China, it's 12:53 am.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
12:54 1:07 am
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
12:55 so good morning to u and in
case(
假如
) i don't see u, good
afternoon, good
evening and good night(
假如我们以后不能碰上，先祝你每天早上，下午，晚上都好
)
,you always stay in
the night so late
on the net like this?
Brain
的建议：如果想在开始赢
得别人的好感，一定要自己多说两句恭维对方的话，这样对话就容易
进行下去
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
12:57 yes because i am off from work
如何进一步深入话题
Brain
的要点：建议从对方来自何方，从事何种职业入手
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
12:58 that'
s
good, where r u
and what are u doing up here now?
(
你一定要学会这
句话
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
12:59 I am in the united states and using the my
computer.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:00 u must work in the government
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:00 I do, but how did u
know?(
是呀，你怎么知道的
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:00 well, everything u have told me is
technically correct, but it's no use to
anyone.(
虽然从理论上说你告诉我都是正确的，但一点用也没有
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:01 u must work in
business(
你一定是商人
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:01 I do, how did u know?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:02 well, u don't know where I am, what I am
doing here, but u still expect me to
help u know that, u are the same before
we met
。
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:02 :>, Albright, we're
even(
我们扯平了
) now, what is
your work exactly, if there
is any
chance for u to be interested telling me that?
(
学会这句地道的美国话，能显示你的水平
)
Brain
的要点：一般人不会在交谈的开始就把自己的职业告诉对方
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:02 i work in the university, i am
teachers
aide(
助手，相当于
assistant).
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:02 o, i see, that is a career i have been
pursuing for a long time(
这也是我理想
< br>中的职业，故意奉承
。再例如：如果你问老外，
Wher
e are you from
？不管他回答那个国家，你一定
要说
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:02 it is going great.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:04 i can imagine that, how long have you been
working today?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:05 i didn't work today i am off work til sept
we get the summers off.(
放假了，
只到
9
月才开学
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:06 oh, i am too stupid to forget that, we here
in China have the summer
holidays too.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:06 that's right.
Brain
的小结：学会如何询问对方是保持继续交谈的前提，让我们回顾一
下，请记住以下几句经典询
问句：
where r u and what are u
doing up here now?
what is your work exactly, if there is
any chance for u to be interested telling me that?
how long have
you been working today
？
下一步怎么办！
(Brain
的建议：如果实在不知
道怎么谈，就与对方谈中国，中国在西方人眼中是有着
5000
年文化历
史的文明古国，充满神秘色彩，但很多外国人对中国并不了解，你谈中国，他一
定会感谢兴趣的。
)
继续……
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:08 u live in the school or in your own
apartment you rent?(
住在学校里还是租的
房子
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:08 i live in apt and rent. what do you do?
where do you live?(
什么事情都是相
互的
，你要是能比较好的引起对方的谈话兴趣，她也会反过来询问你的一些情况的，这不，这个
Nikky
开始问我了！
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:11 i work for one of the largest companies in
China, the marketing dept(
我在市
场部，简洁明了介绍自己工作地点和职业）
?
david
(2006-9-19 10:02:43)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.2
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:11 what part of china do you live?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:12 shanghai, have you ever heard of?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:12 yes i have, it is busy there yes?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:13 it'
s
ok, not as busy
as you think, a little bit busy in the downtown.(<
/p>
不象你想
的那么繁忙，除了市中心外
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:14 i have heard of it i have not been there yet
but maybe some day.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:16 u should do, how many cities here in China
are in your memory besides
shanghai?
(
试探一下这女子对中国了解多少
)if some day
you really can be here , you can come to see
me , i am just someone who have
graduated from college a year ago(
我刚毕业一
年
)(
又是一句客套话，
百听不厌，所
以我们要百说不断
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:19 peking,chungking,tientsin,hong kong(
< br>北京，重庆，天津，香港，这个
Nikky
还真知道不少
中国城市，拼写有点怪
), and I appreciated your
kindness.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:20 well, what is impressive to me is u know a
lot of Chinese cities beyond my
imagination , you surely know one thing
or two (
对…非常了解
)about China
and Chinese people , right?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:22 yes i like to learn about other cultures.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:23 it is immediately apparent that you are the
only foreign people I know who
knows
such a lot of cities in China,swheresdo you live,
not the states again!(
告诉我确切的地方，不要再
说你住在美国了。口语中通常可用
直接表示
美国
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:24 i live in new york city
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:26 i don't have any idea about the big apple ci
ty(
纽约又称为
大苹果城
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:27 it's crowded(
拥挤
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:27 traffic jam?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:28 no ,people
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:33 here in shanghai, a lot of people and a lot
of cars, both, shanghai has
become one
of the most desirable places for people not only
Chinese but kind of increasingly foreign
people to live too.(
上海已经成为中国
人最令人向往的城市之一，对外国人也不例外
)
Brian
的小结：就象我们中国人
平常打招呼一样，和老外打招呼也是非常容易的。
简单回顾，举一反三：
What part of
China/America do u
live?(
最简单的一句话，你一定会用！
)
How many cities
here in China are in your memory
besides
……
?
Shanghai/Beijing/Shenzhen
has become one of the most desirable places for
the Chinese people
to live
If some day you really can
be here , you can come to see me(
很好的邀请，
尽管你知道她不可能来！
）
?
david
(2006-9-19
10:03:20)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.3
Br
ain
建议：
(
如果有机会，试着聊一
聊各自的衣食住行，这是每个人必须面对的问题，也许在某些方
面，大家都有相同经历，
也是彼此极能产生共鸣的地方。
)
例如：先谈租房问题，打工族都面临的问题。
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:34 do u live in apt? (
有没有人被这个缩写词弄糊涂？
一次在上海举办的韩国
2001
年
IT
智能小区展示博览会上我就被
apt
弄
糊涂了，后来才知道是
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:36 u bet(
口语习惯用法，表示说的很对，下次遇见老外，碰到她说的对
或者你
想表示认可的话，就用
some
where good enough is harder than
ever(
太困难了
)!
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:36 it is hard here too, rent is so very high(
纽约房租也很贵的，这句话以我们学
过的语法来看，肯定会被挑毛病
的，
和
连用是
什么意思？可是没有办法，这可是从地地道道的
老外嘴里吐出来的。
)
Brian
(01-8-29) 13:38 the rent here in shanghai used to
be very cheap(
以前房租很便宜的
), but
now
it's hard to rent a apt with
20squre meter for 800RMB, put in that will be
around 100$$
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:40 wow here it is a couple of hundreds
sometimes
thousands to rent.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:40 I can still recall my terrible experience
when I first try to find a apt for myself,
exhausted almost each day after a long
time search and went back to the poor little
restaurant I stay, for
really a long
time I just don't want to do anything and look
impassivelysintosthe mirror to dream if only I
was a local
shanghainese(
上海人
), maybe
things will be better.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:40 cool, it's lucky u've overcome it, u know,
this kind of things happened very
frequently in united states too.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:41 so you got to pay the rent too? but on one
side , with the apt, you can cook
for
yourself , right? that will be cheaper than to
eating out and will save you a lot of money
(
在外面吃费
钱
)and to
eat the food u cook alone is wonderful enough.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:42 yes true but i do like to go out and eat on
occasion(
偶尔
).
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:43 that'
s
understandable
for a bad cook(
可能是橱艺不咋的吧
).
Brian
的小结：外国人对吃一般都比较感兴趣，特别是中国的吃法，要和他们老外在吃的方面有所切
< br>磋的话，你不一定要记得很多个菜名。说实话，每次在大型的外事场合总会遇到陪老外吃饭的情况，很
多所谓的翻译预先紧张的不得不把一个个菜名背的滚瓜烂熟，生怕到时候遇到翻不出来的东西
却不一定
派的上用场。我不这样做，因为很多宾馆的菜名除非把厨子喊来，否则根本不知
道是用什么做的。我就
曾经遇到过
白鹤
晾翅
实际上就是
豆腐加酸白菜
，所以我只需要简单对他们说
< br>
know, I am asked by my superior to
give u what hell those
courses(
这些菜
) are made of, I
know u have
experienced many occasions
and been tired of telling those names, so just
enjoy it, and if u think it's
tasting,
please let me know!
这句话一说，老外一定会觉得你不一样。很多
老外吃的场合见的很多，已经
厌烦了半瓶子水的翻译在一旁词不达意介绍菜名，所以你还
是让他先吃吧。
?
david
(2006-9-19 10:03:48)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.4
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:44 u kidding me, i love to cook want to learn
how to cook proper Chinese
food(
我想知道中国菜怎么烧的
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:46 you get it! Chinese food is really tasting
probably kind of the best food in the
world, U know, there is an increasing
number of Yankees(
美国人
) who
came all the way to China just
want to
find a woman to marry with, for the good cuisine
tradition, i just can not imagine how to live a
lifetime with hamburger(
我不敢想
象你们美国人怎么能就着汉堡包吃一辈子
).
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:49 ah yes do u eat hamburger?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:50 every once in a while(
不常吃
< br>)
。
KFC or Mc donald ,which
one is more popular
in the states? (
在美国，肯德基和麦当劳那个更受欢迎？这个问题可以随便拿个老外来练习
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:52 mc donalds
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:52 why, just cuz(
因为
)
Americans like beef than chicken?personally i like
KFC,
it's more
tasting(
可口，好味道
) and some
sort of Chinese people's
style(
符合中国人的饮食习惯
), seems
like we Chinese prefer the
chickens
.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:54 i don't know i don't like either too much my
self(
我两个都不爱吃，外国人好
象都不喜欢吃这种高热量
的
junk food)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:55 then what u like, u do not like hamburgers
,how about the rice ,do u eat rice
in
your daily life? we, the regular
Chinese'
s
main
food(
那你们吃米么
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
13:58 i LOVE rice
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
13:59 i am a good cook and my cuisine
capability(
烹调手艺
) is really
good
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:00 what do u cook well? tell me a dish
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:01 a bunch of things:Chinese
Tofu(
豆腐
), vinegar
fish(
糖醋鱼
), and some short
ribs(
小排
)(
这些常见的中国菜英文说法最好记住
)
。
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:03 how do u make vinegar fish
Brian
：
01-8-29
14:05 it'
s
really
sophisticated to tell you that on the net, we get
the different fishes
and different
seasonings(
调料
), so even tell
you exact the way i make , maybe you will bring up
with a
different one(
鱼和调料都不同
，即使告诉你了，你也做不出我这味来。实际上我做的
vinegar
fish
最难吃
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:07 it sounds good
though(
听起来就已经不错了
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:09 Yup (
表示肯定，相当于
Yes)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:10 i would love to visit your country one day
so much to learn
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:11 u mean it
？
(
你说真的么
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:11 yeah, and what do u do in your occasional
time? (
平时都干些啥
)(
经典
询问
句，这句话我们也可用随时拿来问对方
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:11 well, I like movies so much and bought the
movie DVDs
and I really loved
them and I kept them in my bedroom, and
when I get really, really depressed, and I
couldn't find
anybody to talk to, I
took the movies out and watch
…
..(
我喜欢看电影，非常喜欢，当我难过郁闷，找不
到别
人和我说话时，
我就看
DVD
。
寂寞经典自白，
向每一个可能见到的老外说出这几句话，
一定要连贯！
)
Brian
的小结：
上面的一段寂寞独白实际上是我从另一外国朋友那抄袭来的，我几乎是一个字不差
的把它说给
Nikky
听，
因为我有
那位外国朋友很喜欢看电影，
幸好我也有相同的兴趣。
但之所以
这段话给
我留下很深的原因并不是这个，原因是她说这段话给我听的时候，露出的牙齿很
漂亮，给我的印象非常
深，我又让她
pardon
了一遍。
这个小节不多，但好句子有不少：
KFC or Mc donald ,which one
is more popular in the states?
I don't like either too
much myself.
(
再也找不到比这句话更地道的句子了
)
and what do u
do in your occasional time?
?
david
(2006-9-19 10:04:19)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.5
<
/p>
Brain
的建议：谈完自己的情况，可以谈家庭，可以涉及小孩
、爱人、父母等，这也是一个安全又普
遍的问题。
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:34 thanks a lot! in China we call this in terms
like
中国有句俗语
叫
理解万岁
list I know that
you are born in 1973, so you must be 28 now and
you said you love kids so much , do
you
have any kids? (
如果对方有小孩，没准他会同你滔滔不绝的聊天，直
到你感到厌烦。
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:35 no I do not have any children, but hope to
have some one day.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:36 so you got married , right? how is your
husband doing
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:37 no I am not married unfortunately :-(
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:37 oh, I want to know , in American, what is
the average age for women to have
their
children, you know, in China, it's probably sort
of 25-30
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:38 here it
varies(
情况各有不同
), so many
younger ones have kids(
很多人在很
年轻时就有孩子了
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:39 I am sorry, I had thought you have married,
seems not acting your
age
，
why , you have never met
someone in your life to fall in love with?
(
从没有遇到你喜欢的人么
)
Brian
的小结：问问对方有没有
男朋友，或者女朋友，绝对很有趣，说不定您们之间会在此基础上聊
出一段异国情缘，也
有一开始就抱着找女朋友的态度聊天的狂人，说不定很真能碰上一两个美国恐龙呢。
好句子：
I don't act my
age (
我与我的年龄不相称
.
比如
看见一个小女孩，不点大，言谈举止却是个大人，这时
候就可以说
?
david
(2006-9-19 10:04:50)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.6
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:40 I don't know how to put
it(
我不知道从何说起
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:41 that'
s
ok(
结
婚与否，什么时候结婚，这是年青人之间喜欢聊的一个的话题
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:42 are u, are u married? have girlfriend?
?(
绝对经典询问句，一定要牢记！
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:44 i am just a year after schooling, definitely
not married, Man is incomplete
until he
is married. Then he is finished.
(
男人不结婚算不上完美，一旦结婚就完了
)I heard
a bunch of
stories like the little boy
asked his father,
replied,
(
下面讲的是一段对方刚刚失恋，<
/p>
Brain
怎样安抚受创伤的心灵，且看下面怎么一步一步深入…
…
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:46 you are not married , and you have never met
someone you love and not a
virgin, do
you possibly mean that you gave your most valuable
cherry to those you do not love?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:48 good joke, i loved someone once and we been
together for some time and
he dumped
me(
他把我甩了
) and there has been
no one since(
以后就没有什么后文了
).
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:48 oh, i am sorry to hear
that(
安慰人的话，请记住！
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:49 it is ok he didn't love me as i loved him(
他爱我没有我爱他那么深
)(
为什么总
是这样结局？为什么受伤的人总是我？
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:50 how much you love him and how long your
story last before he dumped you.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:51 he dumped you for a new one?
(
他是寻新欢去了么
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:52 well this is going to sound funny but he was
my 1st boyfriend, we met last yr
and
dated for 7 months and he dumped me(
听起来
有点好笑，但事实是他是我第一个男朋友，我们在一
起
7
个多月的时候，他甩了我
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:52 no he claimed his mother didn't approve of
me but i think it was more(
他说
他妈不同意，但我想原因不止这个
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:53 an excuse(
借口
)
？
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:53 yes it was and he left me broken
hearted(
伤心欲绝
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:53 as soon as he got you, he dumped
you?(
他一得到你就把你甩了么
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:54 yes and i was a
dumbass(
口语：愚蠢的人
) to let it
happen
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:54 i can understand you and how you feel
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:55 well i have given up on love and hope of
ever getting married
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:56 don't cry on the spilt
milk(
习惯用法：不要为打翻的牛奶哭泣
),
right, you still
have the right and
deserve to have a better man, there are still a
lot of good guys in th
is world(
< br>世上还是
好人多
)(
天涯何处无
芳草
), so now he got a new one?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
14:57 i am not sure but i believe he
does(
我不知道，但我相信他有新欢了
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
14:59 When a woman steals your husband, there is
no better revenge than to let
her keep
him(
当另一个女人偷了你的男人时，
你最好的报复方法就是
让她们去吧
). And what u need to do
is forge him.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:01 i am trying, but the sad part about most men
in my country is that looks
matter more
than how a person is
inside(
长相比内在重要
) and on that
level i feel i will find no one.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:02 just try to forget and u will eventually get
what you want and believe yourself
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:04 i try, but when u have little experience as
me, u doubt self often(
如果你也有
我一样的经历的话，你也会迷惑的
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:05 he just bumpedsintosyour life earlier than
the other one, do believe in your
life
there must be someone who do fit for you!(
< br>他只不过是在你的生命中提前来到而已，相信应该有更合
适你的人
)
Brian
的小结：这一小节中，远在纽约的
Nikky
向
我吐露了自己的一些经历，我把这种成功归决于自
己聊天基本功的扎实，同时我也学到了
恋爱中谁把谁踹了原来是用
一词呀。
好句子：
I met him
several months ago and there has been no since(
我几个月之前遇到过他，以后再也没有
见到过他
)
Man is
incomplete until he is married. Then he
is
finished.(
很多结婚的男人有同感！
)
Looks matter
more than how a person is inside(
很多说
looks
实在是因为长的太难看）
?
david
(2006-9-19 10:05:15)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.7
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:05 thanks
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:06 think about the film
一部老掉牙的无聊的电影
).
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:07 yes i love that movie
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:08 in which that Hanks seems to have a lot of
trouble recovering from the death
of
his wife and thinks that he will never fall in
love again, but Megrin entered into his life ,
everything
changed!
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:08 and the same thing is for you too
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:10 i wish i could believe that, but it is
movie, have u met someone yet?
Brian (01-8-29) 15:11 me? i
did have a girlfriend in the school, but for a
combination of
factors(
一系
列原因
)
,we just depart after graduation
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:12 aww sorry to hear
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:13 but not like you, i did not dump her,
neither did she do that to me.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:14 u both decided to part? that sounds fair
Brian
：
01-8-29
15:15 love never sounds fair or some sort of
unfair , Getting married is very much
like going to a restaurant with
friends. You order what you want, then when you
see what the other
person has, you wish
you had ordered that,(
结婚就好比上餐馆，你已经点了菜，但
看见别人点的菜后，
你又想点那些菜
) I just
want to have as more chances as possible. (
我只想给自己多一点点菜的机会而
已
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:16 be kidding, u know, for a short period of
time after we depart , i have a
broken
heart like you but i managed to make things go on.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:17 yes
，
love does
hurt
，
was she your 1st girl?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:17 you bet. And I spend a lot of time---- I
spend time with myself, I think a lot
has happened to me since that, a lot of
things have happened to me, but I try to keep my
life in
perspective(
我努力使自己的生
活变的乐观起来
).
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:17 u've done pretty well by it, yes i am going
on i have no choice
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:18 you get to be a bit more passive about your
attitude, not just cause you have
no
choice for you to go on!
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:19 it was like i refused to sit at home and cry
I had to go to work i had to go to
school so no time
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:20 right, that's right. let your hands full
(
有事情做就会忘记伤痛
):>
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:21 you are not pregnant after you gave it to
him?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:22 no, but sometimes wish i were i was ready to
marry this man and spend the
rest of my
life with him but i just got played for a fool.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:25 maybe you are not played for a fool, maybe
he loved you too, definitely
when--- u
know, u surely know what I mean ------when he made
love to you, i think he love you but , for
some reasons, he got to leave
you
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:27 maybe that is possible, i do believed he
loved me just not enough and i feel
like fool for opening my heart when i
planed.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:27 i think that on average, the western people
have a more open mind on the
sexual
issues, but seems that's a serious
misunderstanding on my
part(
看来我误解了
)!
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:28 how so explain?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:28 you let me change the initial thought
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:29 i mean i believe in love and i only was with
him
cause i thought he was the
one but i made big mistake thought with
my heart instead of my head.(Nikky
说话有个特
点不知道你发现
了没有，不怎么喜欢打标点
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:30 there is no possibility for him to come over
back(
他有可能再回到你的身边
么
)?
Brian
的小结：谈到这的时候，仿佛
Nikky
就在我的身边
跟我说话，真有一种快感。刚开始和她接触
的时候，我还以为她和我一样无聊的只能在网
上聊天呢，现在对她的想法和印象慢慢的偏转过来，这也
是一个很有感情的女人，经过后
来的接触才知道她原来还是一个纽约什么什么大学的经济系老师，应该
不会骗我吧？这么
远，也犯不着呀，对了，外国朋友一般不骗人，即使是质量很差很差的老外骗你的可
能性
也很小，但不幸的你如果真的遇到了某个老外骗你，我只能说
你
真倒霉
。复习一下刚才的句子：
That's a
serious misunderstanding on my part
Getting married is very
much like going to a restaurant with friends.
Yousgroupswhat you want,
then when you
see what the other person has, you wish you had
ordered that.(
很多结婚男人的又一个同
感
)
?
david
(2006-9-19
10:06:48)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.8
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:31 i wish but i have no idea and i try not to
fool self into thinking it.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:33 so you still love him, that's why you feel
like a fool
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:34 yes and mad at myself because of it cause
leaving makes me think he didn't
love
me at all or not enough.
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:35 for women, love is everything(
对女人
来说，
爱情有时意味着一切
), what does
he do, is he also a teacher aide?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:36 no he develops
pictures(
冲胶卷师，或者照相师
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:37 maybe its just your always thought that he
didn't love you at all or not
enough
made him away, you got to make him feel relax a
little.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:37 i did everything to make HIM happy
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:38 pic developer, so during the past 7 months
he must have taken a lot of pics
for
you?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:39 no, he never took me to meet his friends, i
met his
parents and they were
nice he said his mom didn't approve of
me well either she is actress cause she treated me
very nice(
他
的妈妈实在是个演员，因为她对我很好
，却背地里不同意
).
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:40 a woman who treated u very nice doesn't
necessarily mean she has to
approve of
your marriage to her son. (
一个对你很好的人不一定意
味着就同意自己儿子和你结婚
)Plus, in
your
way, have you ever thought about his real
needs
？
maybe he needs more
inner room(
也许他需要
自己的一些个人空间
), not just have to answer his girl's
question or always hear his girl saying
think u love me enough
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:41 yes good point. but it doesn't matter i am
sure he has someone else now
that his
mother will like and has moved on so it is no big
deal(
没有什么大不了的，口语
).
And i never
said kind of not enough love things to him, was
never under him
bugging him hell(bug
someone
hell,
使某人生厌烦，我从来没有让他感到厌烦过
) he
lived in another state he had all the room
he needed(
他住在另外一个州，拥有自己想有的所有
空间
).
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:45 no big deal? anyway, he is your first man,
first itself is something we can
hardly
forget. Which state he live, and how long does it
take for you to meet him .
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:46 he lives in
Virginia(
维吉尼亚州
) it takes 4
hrs by bus
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:47 and his current girlfriend didn't know
anything about you and he? neither
does
she mind his ex-relationship with you?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:48 i don't know if he is dating i am just assum
ing(
我不知道他是否有了新女友，
我只是在猜测
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:49 but you told me you got to work and got to
school , so you still have time for
assuming ?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:50 i try not to think bout him at all
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:51 got to make him understand you can work and
live without him and with no
difference
(
让他明白没有他你照样能活的很好
). i hope
not to defend you with the question: what about if
you didn't give yourself to him, will
you feel better, not like your current desperate
situation.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:52 yeah, I guess I wouldn't feel like fool
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:53 I might as well ask u, are u going to get
married or what?(or what,
别的什么，
经常用于口语中
)
Nikky (01-8-29) 15:54 or what? well, it
is either yes or no , I don't know, I don't know
the answer to
that question. For the
past 7 months the answer has been yes, but now I
will say that it depends(
这个口
语词组的使用频率极高，
it depends
，
那要看情况
know---
who have gotten married and are now divorced(
我在想那些结婚的人们
-----
如今却又离婚了
), I
think if we had gotten
married, we probably wouldn't still be together
because of the pressure(
所以如果
当初我结婚了的话，可能现在早因为压力而离婚了
). so I am
pouring out about me, tell me more about
you
？
(
我已经把我的事情都告
诉你了，你呢，什么情况？
)
<
/p>
Brian
的小结：就我个人来讲，说一句流利地道的句子比说出
一个单词要有成就感；说一大段流利地
道的段落比说一句流利地道的句子要有成就感。所
以我主张脱口而出很大一段，很多人告诉我这有点不
现实，我连一句话都不知道该怎么说
，你叫我怎么说一段呢？
本小节的好句子：
It's no big
deal(
没什么了不起的
)
I don't know the answer,
I'm just assuming(
猜测
)
It depends!
Now I am
pouring out about me, what about u?
(
我已经把我的事情都告诉你了，你呢，什么情况？）
?
david
(2006-9-19
10:07:51)
英文
ICQ
狂聊记录§
1.9
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:55 me? what you want to know from
me, you can come up with the question
cause i am not used to introducing
myself just like a
fool(
我不想象一个傻子一样自我介绍，还是你问吧
).
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:56 you are not a fool, u have me up talking to
you and it is 4 am here(
你当然不
是傻子，你让我一直在和你谈话，你知道现在这里已经凌晨
4
点
了
)
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
15:58 this is the best words I've heard today, I
told you I am in shanghai but
actually
not a local shanghainese, I came from another
city.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
15:59 do u have brothers and sisters?
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
16:00 i have a older brother who is also in
shanghai and pursuing in the university
for his Ph.d
(
我有一个哥哥也在上海读博士
)
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
16:01 to be doctor?(
医生么？美国人总把
Ph.d
搞成医学博士
)
Brian (01-8-29) 16:01 no,
kind of material engineering major, he's a big
motivator for me, he has a
lot of
influence in my life in terms of u know, inspiring
me to always try to move to the next level(
哥哥对
我影响很大，总是激励我，推向人生下一个目标
). So we spend a lot of time, sort of like what we
are
supposed to do , and you? do you
have brothers and sisters ?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
16:01 u make me envy u so
much(
很羡慕你
), 1 brother older
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
16:02 what he does?
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
16:03 he is in college for computers
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
16:05 that's pretty good, you know, just before
the graduation, i really want to go to
overseas for further studying after
taking the tofle and GRE test, but i cannot come
up with a good
statement.
Nikky
：
(01-8-29)
16:06 why u would like to study here
Brian
：
(01-8-29)
16:06 and no university in US can afford me a 100%
scholarship(
拿不到全奖去了
也是刷盘子
), the facts of no scholarship or even half
one will make me wash the dishes all the time, and
it scares the shit out of
me(
俚语：想到这我就不寒而栗，
scare the
shit out of somebody).
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