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It can be difficult to be in the same room with people you don't like, let alone live

with them. However, there are many circumstances where we really have no choice in

the matter, so we have to do our best get along with them or at least to avoid conflict.

Here are five tips to help you live in harmony with people you don't like:

Stay away from topics where you have strongly different views and refuse to argue. If

you take the view that you are entitled to your own opinion and do not need to defend

it, and equally that the other person is entitled to their opinion, arguments can be

avoided. There's a lot to be said for avoiding discussions on sex, religion and politics.

Find areas of agreement or similarity and focus on them. Chances are, if you get to

know someone a bit better, you will find areas of commonality. Look for common

ground and be willing to notice positive things about another person. Everyone has

good aspects to their personality. If you are willing to acknowledge the positive

behaviors and attitudes of another person, they will be more likely to open up to you

and respond positively.

Stay out of their way. Sometimes it is just not possible to be positive and keep trying

to improve a relationship. Where this is the case the only answer is to be polite and

respectful but live as separately as possible. This is particularly the case if the other

person is abusive in any way or engaged in activities you don't want to be associated

with. The best way to live in harmony with these people is at a distance, smiling

politely as you pass by.

Make clear agreements. If you are sharing living space with someone you don't like, it

is important to have a clear agreement about expected behaviors and responsibilities.

Once the agreement is made and everyone clearly understands their own individual

commitments, they need to abide by the agreement made. Doing this will help you to

live in harmony with people even if you don't like them.

Establish boundaries. Decide what treatment you are willing to accept from others and

what you are not prepared to accept and put your boundaries clearly in place. While

everyone needs to be flexible in this life, you need to clearly define the behaviors that

you consider to be deal breakers and you must make sure that other people understand

them. For example, someone stealing from you might be a deal breaker as might a

person taking drugs in your home. In turn, you need to understand and respect the

boundaries of others. The only proviso to this point is that people aren't mind readers.

It is unfair to blame others for violating boundaries they didn't know anything about.

We teach people how to treat us. So the first step is to respect yourself. Clearly

defined boundaries can assist people who do not like one another to live together in

harmony.

If you apply some or all of these keys to living in harmony with people you don't like,

you will avoid the stress of ongoing conflicts. You may even find yourself liking them

after all.

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Can

People

Live

in

Harmony

with

Nature

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Can

People

Live

in

Harmony

with

Nature

Man

and

nature

are

interactive

(

相互作用的

)

for

ces.

Looking

back

along

the

river

of

history,

we

ma

y

find

that

harmony

used

to

exist

between

people

and

nature. At

that

time

nature

was

pure

field

to

be

ploughed,

sown

and

harvested.

Man

respected

nature

and

was

one

part

of

nature.

It

seems

that

people

today

are

masters

of

natureg

Nature

is

torn

into

pieces.

While

we

are

dis

rupting(

破坏

)

the

order

of

the

natural

world,

we

are

the

ultimate

victims,

for

nature

is

seeking

it

s

revenge(

报复

).

Disappearing

forests,

drying

rivers,

polluted

soil

and

worsening

climate

have

pu

nished

greedy

human

beings.

We

have

taken

too

much

from

nature,

and

given

back

too

little.

Looking

forward

to

the

future,

when

we

gain

reasoning,

when

we

remember

the

deep

interdep

endent

relationship

between

people

and

nature,

when

citizens

of

the

world

work

persistently

to

p

rotect

nature,

then

nature

will

be

our

friend

instead

of

our

slave

or

servant.

Sure,

people

can

liv

e

in

harmony

with

nature,

with

commitment,

hard

work

and

new

technology.

核心剖析

按照提纲设计，本论述文的表达结构是线性的。引占以公认的哲学原理

< br>Man

and

natur

eare

interactive

forces

开头，中间穿插了大量有说服力的细节，文章最后连用了三个

“when

从句

”

强调人与自然和谐相处的必要条件。整个展开 提纲过程是以论据证明观点正确的逻辑推理过程。

全文写作基于提纲，但不拘泥于提纲， 严谨与灵活的把握使文章

?

脉相承、内容丰满。

Live With Harmony

参赛教师：王丹丹

（求知教育培训学校）

上传时间：

2011-03-14

Along with the growth of the age, the sense of needing a harmonious environment is more and more

urgent for me. I need a harmonious family; I need a harmonious company; I need a harmonious society;

I need a

harmonious country; even, I need a harmonious nature…… So, to have a harmonious

relationship with all things comes to be my lifetime goal.

But how to achieve it ? I?m going to realize it in two aspects. The former is people, the latter is the

nature.

For people, the most important is communication. Language is a special treasure for human beings. We

should make full use of it to establish a good relationship. When a couple have a quarrel with each

other, there will be no response. They are afraid that if they continue to talk to each other, a battle will

happen. And they will keep silent until one starts to open his mouth. I don?t think it?s a good thing to

keep a good relationship. Nothing can not be spoken between the wife and the husband . If you

commun

icate with each other slowly, I?m sure that the most difficult thing could be solved.

The second most important is tolerance. The members of a family often have different opinions. Then,

there will be conflicts, especially between you and your mother- in-law or father-in-law. In order to

avoid conflicts, everyone must forgive others. We should also need love to establish a harmonious

atmosphere. As a wife, you should love your husband. As a daughter-in-law, you should love your

mother-in-law and father-in-law. As a mother, you should love your children. As a worker, you should

love your company. As a Chinese, you should love China.

But as a life on the earth or a member of the nature, have you ever thought what you should love? The

earth is also a individuality, so you should keep a good relationship with her. You should love the grass,

flowers, rivers , woods, air, energy, and so on.

However, there are still a lot of serious problems in our daily life. We usually come across a factory

with the smoke moving up. It is not difficult to find evidence of wasting water, cutting trees, throwing

litters. Walking on the street, you can find many kinds of cars, which are releasing waste gas. All of

these things show that most people lack the sense of environmental awareness. In my point of view,

people should be aware of the importance of the environment. And we can do some small things, for

example, turning off the lights in time.

Only when the earth is fresh and clean , can we feel frisky. Then, the earth can pass its inwardness to

us . And our body can be harmonious , so you will be healthy.

I know that my goal is very hard to achieve .Difficult as it is, I will try my best to realize it. When you

have a harmonious family ,a harmonious company, a harmonious society ,a harmonious nature ,you

will be very happy. So , to have a harmonious environment is important indeed.

Can People Live in Harmony with Nature(

人与自然和谐相处

)

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日期：

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标签：人与自然

和谐相处

Looking

back

along

the

river

of

history,

we

may find

that

harmony

used

to

exist

between

people and nature. At that time nature was pure field to be ploughed, sown and harvested. Man

respected nature and was one part of nature.