2021年1月23日发(作者：传奇英文)
英语读书报告范文


英语读书报告一

Afterthought of
“
Shuang Leng Chang He
”

Friendship
Recently
，
I read a book named
？
Shuang Leng Chang He
？
which is written by Yu Qiuyu
。
There are some essays about
philosophic
theory
of
human
life
in
this
book
。
However
，
I
was
attractive
by
the
essay
of
friendship
for
I
was
told
the
essence
of friendship and learnt how to make friends with others
。

Friendship is an eternal theme we examine and explore
。
But
what
is
friendship
？
What
is
the
real
meaning
of
friendship
？

As
we
know
，
friendship
is
a
life
—
long
treasure
。
With
friends
，

we share our joys and tears
。
Friendship is not a modity with
a
price
，
nor
should
we
alienate
our
friends
by
questioning
or
judging their virtues
。

In
traditional
culture
of
China
，
most
of
the
literary
men
admire
the
friendship
between
Yu
Boya
and
Zhong
Ziqi
。
They
hold
the point that mountain stream with a knowing ear is the
luckiest thing and looking forward to this kind of friendship
in their whole life
。
However
，
a bosom friend is not easy to
find
in the
real
world
。
It usually
es
that the
person is
your
friend today
，
and
tomorrow
would
be
your
enemy
。
Even
more
，

when
a
person
was
deceived
or
betrayed
by
his
friends
，
he
would
never
trust
any
friends
。
Usually
，
people
will
try
their
best
to
help
their
friends
，
even
their
lives
when
needed
。
However
they
find
it
hard
to
forgive
the
friend
who
betrayed
them
。
Hence
，

how to establish friendly relationship is very important and
necessary for human beings
。

There
is
a
Chinese
saying
goes
，
you
depend
on
your
parents
when
you
stay
at
home
，
and
you
depend
on
your
friends
when
you
go out
。
This kind of saying indicates that the importance of
friends
，
at
the
same
time
it
means
the
value
of
friends
is
for
dependence
。
Therefore
，
will you make friends with a person
who has no use for you
？
Or anyone helped you can bee your
friends
？
What do we expect from our friends
？
From my point
of view
，
a real friend does not care your background
，
your
wealth
，
your
appearance
。
The
truest
friend
of
all
is
one
that
reads your very soul
，
one who is always there when needed
。

A real friend does not expect something from their friends or
depend on his friends
。

Friendship is an in
—
depth relationship bining trust
，

munication
，
and
understanding
。
Some
people
hold
the
idea
that
finding a friend is like ing home
。

When
you
e
“
home
”
to
a
friend
，
you
can
relax
；
unbosoming
you pains and sorrows and you needn
？
t pretend or act tough
。

But do not forget one point that is keeping distance between
you
。
Most people of China are likely to ignore this kind of
problem
，
which sometimes causes some unnecessary troubles
。

From my point of view
，
we should better keep proper distance
with our friends if you want keep a stable relationship
。

Generally
，
as
a
Chinese
，
people
would
rather
receive
excessive
kindness
than
say
“
NO
？？
to
their
friends
。
In
their
opinion
，

a good friend should not turn down their friends
，
if this
happened
，
their
friends
would
be
regarded
that
they
were
looked
down
by
their
friends
and
felt
loosing
face
。
For
example
，
one
of your friends is afraid of exam and he asks for your help
during the examination
。
What would you do
？
To be or not to
be
？
Even though you are unwilling to cheat in the exam
，
you
still promise to offer help and endure the suffering yourself
from treating
。

Every man alone is sincere
。
At the entrance of a second
person
，
hypocrisy
begins
。
Emerson
said
“
A
friend
is
a
person
with
whom
I
may
be sincere
。
I
do
not
wish
to
treat
friendship
daintily
，
but
with
roughest
courage
。”
From
these
words
，
we
know that friendship is built on sincerity
，
and sincerity is
based on equality of personality
。
Without sincerity and
equality
of
personality
，
people
will
not
trust
others
and
make
friends with others in heart
。

In
addition
to
this
，
Aristotle
also
said
that
wishing
to
be friends is quick work
，
but friendship is a slow
—
ripening
fruit
。
Maybe
it
only
takes
one
second
time
to
be
friends
，
but
you
will
spend
more
time
to
establish
friendly
relationships
。

Pure
friendship
without
judgment
can
enrich
our
life
。
We
have
our own judgments on our friends aording to their virtues
。

Though you find virtues in your friends
，
he was your friend
before
you
found
them
。
If
you
choose
your
friends
on
the
ground
that
you
are
virtues
and
want
virtuous
pany
，
you
are
no
nearer
to
true
friendship
than
of
choosing
them
for
mercial
reasons
。

Though you may choose the virtuous to be your friends
，
they
may
not
choose
you
as
a
friend
。
Nevertheless
，
without
judgment
does not mean that you should ignore what is right and wrong
to support you friends without condition
。
Unquestioning
support will bring disaster finally
。

From this article
，
people may feel that it is not easy
to find a real friend
。
In fact the problem is we require too
much from friendship
，
such as the sense of belonging
，

obligation and other virtues
。
If we get rid of this kind of