第一码头中考英语作文：婚姻、爱情与自由(Marriage, love and freedom)

2020年12月19日发(作者：路皋)
中考英语作文：婚姻、爱情与自由(Marriage, love
and freedom)

you are asking,
free?

if you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free.
if you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. take
marriage just as a game -- it is a game. have a little sense
of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of
life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or
has any reality -- it is a people are so stupid
that they even start taking fiction for reality. i have seen
people reading fiction with tears in their eyes, because in
the fiction things are going so tragically. it is a very good
device in the movies that they put the lights off, so
everybody can enjoy the movie, laugh, cry, be sad, be happy.

if there was light it would be a little difficult -- what
will others think? and they know perfectly well that the
screen is empty -- there is nobody; it is just a projected
picture. but they forget it the same has
happened with our lives. many things which are simply to be
taken humorously, we take so seriously -- and from that
seriousness begins our the first place, why should
you get married? you love someone, live with someone -- it is
part of your basic rights. you can live with someone, you can
love someone.

marriage is not something that happens in heaven, it
happens here, through the crafty priests. but if you want to
join the game with society and don't want to stand alone and
aloof, you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that
this marriage is just a game：
will remain as independent as i was before marriage, and you
will remain as independent as you were before marriage.
neither i am going to interfere in your life, nor are you
going to interfere in my life; we will live as two friends
together, sharing our joys, sharing our freedom -- but not
becoming a burden on each any moment we feel that
the spring has passed, the honeymoon is over, we will be
sincere enough not to go on pretending, but to say to each
other that we loved much -- and we will remain grateful to
each other forever, and the days of love will haunt us in our
memories, in our dreams, as golden -- but the spring is
paths have come to a point, where although it is sad,
we have to part, because now, living together is not a sign
of love. if i love you, i will leave you the moment i see my
love has become a misery to you. if you love me, you will
leave me the moment you see that your love is creating an
imprisonment for me.

love is the highest value in life： it should not be
reduced to stupid rituals. and love and freedom go together -
- you cannot choose one and leave the other. a man who knows
freedom is full of love, and a man who knows love is always
willing to give you cannot give freedom to the
person you love, to whom can you give freedom? giving freedom
is nothing but trusting. freedom is an expression of
whether you are married or not, remember, all marriages are
fake -- just social conveniences. their purpose is not to
imprison you and bind you to each other; their purpose is to
help you to grow with each other. but growth needs freedom;
and in the past, all the cultures have forgotten that without
freedom, love see a bird on the wing in the sun, in
the sky, and it looks so beautiful. attracted by its beauty,
you can catch the bird and put it in a golden you
think it is the same bird? superficially, yes, it is the same
bird who was flying in the sky; but deep down it is not the
same bird -- because where is its sky, where is its freedom?

this golden cage may be valuable to you; it is not
valuable to the bird. for the bird, to be free in the sky is
the only valuable thing in life. and the same is true about
human beings.